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Archived questions from: April, 2005 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

I want to get back together with him, but I'm worried about this other girl and him alone together...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 849 days ago

30 April 2005 (?) - I left my son's father in January b/c we were having problems and I thought we needed some time apart. Then it came out where he slept with some other girls. Now we want to get back together. I came over this week so we could talk snd try to ...

Fallen hard for a close friend, but he's in love with someone already...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1349 days ago

29 April 2005 (?) - Hi, I have fallen for a good male friend of mine. He's been incredibly understanding, sweet and encouraging to me recently, and he makes me feel good about myself. He's also a wonderful person, great fun, and knows how to cheer me up. He's there fo...

I'm "the only one" for him... but he's getting text messages from a girl he snogged...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1346 days ago

28 April 2005 (?) - Please help me. I think I am driving myself mad with worry. Last year in September I started seeing someone, and later on found out that he snogged a girl who he worked with. He was man enough to tell me and knew he was wrong. Since then, we...

Should I stay in my long-distance relationship, or take a chance with someone new?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1352 days ago

27 April 2005 (?) - Do I stay in a long distance relationship that's lasted 17 months, so far? The first few months he was local. I know him really well and we love each other. Or do I go out with a guy I've known since October last year, who I know reasonably well? He ...

How do I choose between two men who both love me?

This question has 110 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

27 April 2005 (?) - I have a very big decision to make. I don't know what to do. I am in love with 2 guys Paul and David. I had been going out with Paul for about 12months when i met David. We were going through a rough patch Paul and I. I made friends with David and ...

My online guy says he wants to meet... but he seems to have another "friend", too...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1352 days ago

27 April 2005 (?) - I've been communicating with a guy on the net who had also been communicating with another lady before me but he said they are friends like he and I. We have never met but he has met her (2 months before we started communicating). I recentl...

I trust my boyfriend... I just don't trust the girl who's stalking him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1103 days ago

26 April 2005 (?) - Recently I found out that this girl likes my boyfriend. I didn't know what to say when he told me, so I just laughed it off. A few days ago, I walked up to him and she was talking to him, and she gave him this note. I didn't think much of it, besi...

I want my one-night-stand guy back... but my current bf and I have a baby!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1353 days ago

26 April 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid... Two years ago, my boyfriend of one year broke up with me. I moved on and had a one night stand while I was on vacation.(4 hours away) The one night stand turned into a relationship that ended without a word. A month later, my ex and I...

During sex, he called out someone else's name... and I know her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1131 days ago

25 April 2005 (?) - I'm totally crazy about my boyfriend and thought I could trust him. Now I'm not so sure. A couple of nights ago he called out a girl's name while we were having sex. I know the girl, he always told me that he just thought of her as his mate's ...

Want to forgive my husband for his lying, but there's someone else I can't stop thinking about...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1354 days ago

24 April 2005 (?) - I have not been getting on well with my husband, he has let me down really badly 3 times in 2 years (lying). This time was the worst but on parental advice I agreed to 'forgive' him but for the last time. Shortly after this I went on holiday ...

He was seeing another girl, and moving in with her... So why would he keep saying he loves me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1353 days ago

23 April 2005 (?) - Why does he say one thing and do another? When I met Jay we both fell in love. We had the best time of our lives together. Laughing, joking, and it was always a very loving reletionship. We had got engaged and we stared to make a family by having...

It wasn't until someone else wanted him that I realised I want him, too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 407 days ago

23 April 2005 (?) - Dear agony aunt, I went out with a boy for a year and a half, then we broke up - on good terms, mind you. Then people started shit stirring and basically I got people on to him. But recently I've realised I still like him a lot. But the problem ...

I've always had a crush on my best friend's brother, even though now I have a boyfriend...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

22 April 2005 (?) - I am 18, and am with a lovely man of 25. We have been together for 10 months, and everything is fine. The problem is, I have always had a crush on my best friends brother. I have been best mates with this girl since i was 10, so i have got pretty c...

Feel like I'll end up having sex with someone else... but I don't want to.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1346 days ago

21 April 2005 (?) - I am with my boyfriend for a year now, and I care for him with all my heart and soul, but I'm meeting up with this guy who hit on me last week on the bus. What if we wind up having sex? I don't want to. I could never do that to my bf, cause I ...

Why did he want his ex's child, but asked me to have an abortion with ours?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1343 days ago

21 April 2005 (?) - I have been seeing my boyfriend now for nearly a year, and recently had an abortion. He already has a 3 year old child with his ex partner and said he wasn't ready to have a child with me, as he wants us to go on holiday together first and live a ...

Want to be a friend to my good mate, but I also want to date his ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1353 days ago

20 April 2005 (?) - My mate has just had a break up which he found really difficult and I try to comfort him but all the time I keep thinking about how much I want to go out with his ex girlfriend. What can I do to get the girl and not lose my mate? What if I ask her ...

Do I give my ex another chance or go with the new guy who wants me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1358 days ago

20 April 2005 (?) - O.K. I broke up with my boyfriend on Thursday, because he wasn't making an effort. The next day was his birthday and I wanted to take him out. He didn't want to come so I decided to still go out with his friends and my friends. His friend was real...

I had no idea he was married... now I wish I could hate him, but I don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1360 days ago

20 April 2005 (?) - I`ve just found out that my boyfriend is married. His wife found his mobile with my name,number and messages. I`m gutted. I cant stop thinking about him and wonder if anything he told me is true. He told me he still loved me and I`m still in...

After their affair, my husband keeps in contact. Am I wrong to object?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1360 days ago

19 April 2005 (?) - Is it right for my husband to contact someone he has had an affair with? I feel betrayed and think that he should have no contact whatsoever?...

There's still a spark between my guy and his ex. Do I just leave them to it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1360 days ago

19 April 2005 (?) - I started going out with this guy just about a week ago. I met him through college and our relationship got closer over a matter of time. The only problem is he's got two girl best mates. One of which he has been going out with on off. I understa...

He won't divorce his wife, but maybe that doesn't matter...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1360 days ago

18 April 2005 (?) - I have been living with a man who is 24 years older. I'm 40. He is still married and won't get divorced because he doesn't want to upset her. I don't love him any more but would feel guilty if I left him....

I want to formalise what we have, but he won't divorce his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 248 days ago

17 April 2005 (?) - I have been with my man for about 2 years... everything is great except he won't get a divorce! We have been living together for most of the 2 years and are in a wonderful loving realtionship. He and his wife seperated about a 6 months to a year...

My husband is so close to his friend that it makes me jealous. I wonder if something is going on

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1362 days ago

16 April 2005 (?) - My husband and I have been married for a little over two months - have been together two years -have a nine month old son together - and I have a three year old from a previous marriage. I never would have thought of this problem arising but it has ...

There were no clues at all that my guy was married and a cheater!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1365 days ago

14 April 2005 (?) - I have just found out the guy I`ve been going out with for 2 months is married with a baby. His wife found texts I had sent on his mobile. I had no idea he was married and even now can see no clues from his past behaviour. Our relationship was ...

He's been sneaking around with others and so have I, and it's bothering me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1365 days ago

13 April 2005 (?) - Hello, I've been in a relationship for three years, one that sort of just happened. This is my first relationship. Although my partner and I continue to express our deep love for one another constantly, the relationship has many flaws which have ...

I spend my time dreaming about the guy I could have had...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1365 days ago

13 April 2005 (?) - I'm still with my boyfriend but I still think a lot about a guy that I used to fancy in college, but I didn't get his number and now I'm regretting ever going out with my boyfriend becuase I know the other guy liked me & he hated seeing me with my ...

I'm in love with my my ex-boyfriend's brother!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1354 days ago

13 April 2005 (?) - I got with a man 4 years ago. We were 19 then. After 8 months I was pregnant. We decided to keep the baby. He promised hed take care of us, however I was the one who worked up to one week before giving birth. He was made redundant but didn't s...

Think it's time that my mate knows I'm dating the girl he wanted. Should I tell?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1360 days ago

13 April 2005 (?) - Hi, I've just started seeing a girl but my mate was originally trying to get with her. We have started seeing each other without him knowing. I now feel that it is time to tell him, but what can I say???? Thnxs ...

The girl I want doesn't seem bothered that she already has a boyfriend. Should I be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1366 days ago

12 April 2005 (?) - I had always liked this girl. I chatted her up and we went out one night and we snogged for ages (about 20 - 30 minutes). However, she is 4 years older than me and apparently already got a boyfriend. I really like her and I am unsure about he...

My perfect guy wants his other boyfriend to move in with him... but I want ME as his partner!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1369 days ago

9 April 2005 (?) - I need help! I'm gay and I found my perfect on chat. We love each other very much but I knew from the start he already had a bf and I was willing to accept it. But now his bf has asked him to move in with and I want to do that! I have asked hi...

Worried because my g/f is spending more time talking to her abusive ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1365 days ago

8 April 2005 (?) - My girlfriend left a violent relationship about 4 months ago and went straight into a relationship with me. We are both very much in love with each other, but for the last 2 weeks I have noticed a change in her. She is having a go at me over the...

If I tell her my true feelings about her, I risk losing her friendship... but I want her to know!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 520 days ago

7 April 2005 (?) - I have fallen in love with one of my best friends, but she does not know how I feel for her. We are both 17 and go to the same sixth form college. My feelings for her have grown over time, and I want to tell her how I really feel. I wish that th...

The girl who won't go out with him is his ideal, and it makes me feel like nothing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1366 days ago

7 April 2005 (?) - Hi I need some advice. I've currently been with my boyfriend for 8 months. I am very concerned as a few months ago I learnt from my boyfriend that he used to be in love with one of his female friends, Emma. He said that he asked her out but that...

She was "off limits" as a married woman, but now she's leaving him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1369 days ago

6 April 2005 (?) - Ive been mulling this over in my head and telling myself its not a problem, but now I realise the fact that I keep thinking about it proves its something I need help with! I work as a chef in a hotel, working long hours and don't go out all that...

I'm a girl who's in love with my best friend's girlfriend! She loves me too, but she won't break it off with him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1364 days ago

5 April 2005 (?) - Hi I have a big problem. My best friend is a guy and I'm a girl, but I've fallen in love with his new girlfriend. She said she has loved me for ages but won't end it with my best friend. I love her so much and it kills me seeing them together and ...

Two great guys and they both like me! I don't want to hurt my current b/f, so what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1376 days ago

2 April 2005 (?) - I been recently going out with a great guy, who I was very suprised asked me out, as I would've thought he would never be interested in me. But as it happens this equally great guy who I have liked for about two and a half years has just taken an ...

Should I tell his new partner he's cheating with me? Will I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1377 days ago

2 April 2005 (?) - Need advice: lived with partner for 19 years, found out he was cheating, split with him but tried to work things out. We still had sex anyway, this is now 3 years on, and up till Feb we were still having sex, although he has new partner that he ...

I want to give her everything that her husband doesn't, but I don't know how to act until the divorce!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1377 days ago

1 April 2005 (?) - Hi there. I've been involved recently with a co-worker, we were good friends before all this happened and I guess getting together was a natural progression as we got on so well. Unfortunately, she has been married for seven years to an abusive ...