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Archived questions from: February, 2013 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

The 4.5 year boring boyfriend or the exciting new guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - Hello, (Sorry, this is a long one, but I feel that each factor is important) I'm 20 and have been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years. We are currently in our 3rd year of university. Anyways, last Summer I spent 3 months of it in my home ...

The man I'm supposed to marry in 2 months has been cheating on me!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 February 2013 (?) - I need help. I love my fiance and he loves me. We have been together for seven years. I recently found out he has been flirting on his job sites and got a girls number and was texting her. And he hit on a friend of ours. He keeps telling me how ...

Is this relationship salvageable or should I move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - My husband and I have had a bad marriage the last 2 years. We've been married 14 years. He turned into a workaholic and I was lonely. I started hanging out with friends. A few were guys. He avoided me by working all the time. I developed an add...

Did I taint my husband's image? He is cross that I confronted the married woman who's been sending him love texts

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - I received love texts in my hubby's phone which were replies to a married woman's txts. The last one states that 'soon we shall be together darling' When i asked him he denied and said he has no affair with this particular woman. We decided to bl...

If partner is using dating site do they always keep on carrying on until you dump them permanently?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - I am noticing there seems to be a growing number of questions here relating to repetitive cheating on dating sites by their partner. I have had to go through this with my partner who never admits it or thinks he is not doing anything wrong by way o...

Two guys..don't know which one to pick?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - I'm in between two men,I'm 30 one is 53 years old and the other one is 35. The 53 year old is set up in life and we have o much fun together. he is black and I'm latina and we have such great chemistry and he loves my son and also my son loves him. ...

Is my Bf mean to tell me, "if you wore make up you could look as good as other girls"?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend makes me feel insecure then gets mad if I ask questions about him having his exs numbers/if he see's then ect. He confuses me cos he says such sweet things sometimes but then he says things like "if you wore make up you could look as ...

I'm confused, disappointed and insecure since I found he's been having sexy talks with an ex. what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I have been engaged to my fiance since December, but we have been dating for a year. My first husband and I were married for five years and he had a heart attack and passed away a year before I met my current fiance. My fiance had been in a ro...

Please can someone explain this man's behaviour to me? So confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - Hi, I really need the advice of someone objective! Basically I really liked this guy, and he told me he liked me too (more than once). He used to message me, offer to walk me places and would talk to me whenever he got the chance telling me how b...

Could I have a little "Green" in my eyes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4079 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - Im currently in a long distance lesbian relationship. Nancy (girlfriend) is wonderful to me. I feel insecure about my weight. Im a big girl. I keep getting this sick feeling in my chest that Nancy may be losing interest in me. When I visit her we ...

For how long am I expected to work at making this work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4079 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - Hi. I have some relationship probelms, including my bf's financial probelms, having to bail him out, the nagging ex wife and massive fights he has with her and so on. She even sent me thretening messages. We don't live together so althogh I get ...

What should I do about this baby Dad Drama, caused by his new GF? I need help.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4080 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - My child's father and I have been really going through the drama. His new girlfriend is the cause of it. She does things to influence our arguing I'm honestly tired out of fighting and I'm tired of her causing problems I talked to him about ...

Should my ex-sister in law and I start a real relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4080 days ago

22 February 2013 (M) - My wife and I split up a few years ago. We are still friends, there is no relationship. Recently after her mom passed away, I went to her mom's house to help ready the house for sale. Her brother and his wife showed up to help. The brother'...

My Girlfriend Wants to Sleep With a Guy at Work, What to Do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

21 February 2013 (M) - Me and my girlfriend got together young - she was 17 at the time and we have been together 9 years and I'm more in love with her now than i have ever been. A few months ago i started to get the feeling that she was thinking about being wit...

How do I Pursue Her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4081 days ago

21 February 2013 (M) - hi readers little background : I am international student ,22 , studying outside the UK. I like a girl X and took her number. I met her first time on 15th February and met her thrice in person. Did touch her a bit and made my little moves. ...

Is my boyfriend suggesting a threesome because I am cheap and easy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

21 February 2013 (F) - We are together for more that 3yrs we fall in love with each other its just happen im not sexy not literally his type of girl we have great sex even sometimes rough and he wants 3some.he admit he never ask his past girlfriend about 3some.he never ...

My father in law creeps me out. I spoke to him, but what more can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

20 February 2013 (F) - My father in law is always staring at me and gives me long hugs where I feel he tries to get a grab. I've told my fiancé I don't feel comfortable being alone with his dad so he really tries to stick around. Yesterday though they were both outside ...

Where is the line between deceit and harmless white lies?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

17 February 2013 (F) - I would appreciate some opinions please, and thank you. There are TWO parts to my problem. I believe I have met my soulmate. I have only felt this way once before, so I know the feeling. I knew it immediately. We have been together nearly a y...

He wants to hold my hand and tells me he loves me, but he has a Gf. What should I do about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

17 February 2013 (F) - Hello mates,, so i got a problem, This new guy came to our school and he is really cute well... sort of, and in a few weeks we formed a really special bond and everyone would always think i like him or he likes me. I ignored them but then ag...

Did my friend betray me because she has bad luck with men?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4087 days ago

16 February 2013 (F) - My bf broke up with me a few months ago in November. A friend a mine really expressed interest in seeing me even though I hadn't known him long he seemed like a good guy and even though we work together I saw it ok as working there was temp...

My Bf has suddenly started acting distant. He confessed he has started talking to his ex again. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

16 February 2013 (F) - So where to start... my boyfriend and i had the perfect loving relationship until maybe a week ago, when he suddenly started acting distant and stopped being as affectionate and was not saying he loved me as much. I noticed something was re...

Should I just flirt with this other woman and tell her it can't go further? Trouble is I love my partner but the sex could be better.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

16 February 2013 (F) - I need advice for a problem I'm having. I. engaged to be married to my lovely partner. She looks after me, is caring, loves me, and I love her lots too. There is no doubt in my mind that I am doing the right thing marrying her. The only thing ...

My ex has a new girl in his life, but I really can't help how I'm feeling right now after we flirted. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

15 February 2013 (F) - My ex boyfriend now has a new love interest, which is fine by me. My ex and I are still good friends. On Valentine's day, we was playing fighting over this teddy bear, so we was in close proximity, the closest we've been in since we broke up and ...

Who to choose, my controlling bf, or the one I always wanted?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

13 February 2013 (F) - I have been dating my bf for 2 years now,and i love him incredibly, but at times, he makes me extrememly misrerable, especially with his controlling attitude..i've been cring for the last week because i feel like a bird trapped in a cage. To make ...

I had a fantasy about another girl and now I feel so guilty

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

13 February 2013 (M) - Bit embarrased about this, but i just need to tell this little thing somehow. I'm together with a girl wich i love with all my heart. We're together since a year now and things go well. Now, this is a long distance relationship so we only see each...

My boyfriend married someone else a few weeks ago. Should I listen to his words that we could be together?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4091 days ago

12 February 2013 (F) - my boyfriend got married to some other person few weeks back. He says they are not staying together, and he still tells me that he loves me and want to be with me forever and will marry me. i am not getting what to do I am not able to go away ...

Woman I met on a lesbian dating site is actually bisexual and married! How could she be so deceitful, and should I confront her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

12 February 2013 (F) - I'm a lesbian and a few months back I joined a lesbian dating site. Shortly thereafter a member contacted me and expressed an interest in me. I was impressed with how she presented herself, what she conversated about. I have since taken a fond ...

Should I be jealous or get used to the relationship that my B/f has with his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4092 days ago

11 February 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, I am with my bf about 18 months, I really love him and I can see he loves me,we plan living together etc..Everything would be ok, if he wasn´t still friends with his ex..I mean very good friends. They´ve been in one group of friends ...

I'm torn.. my heart wants this baby, but my mind says to get an abortion

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4092 days ago

11 February 2013 (F) - I've been through a lot of stress and heartache, shame as well as guilt, and more. I will try to make this as short as I can. I'm 23 years old and I have a 2 year old daughter. I got married when I was 21 and I was with him for 6 years..right now ...

He does not want to talk about the things bothering me in our marriage. Should he be willing to talk? Or do I over-analyse too much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4092 days ago

11 February 2013 (F) - modnote: earlier question -posted August 13 2012 http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-have-just-learned-my-husband-fathered-another.html Further to my question dated 13/8/2012, the tests reveal it is his child. This woman made my life a living he...

How can I move on now? I am still as miserable the day I discovered his cheating.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

11 February 2013 (F) - I have gone though hell! Ater 23 years of marriage I found out my husband was secretly meeting a younger woman who was previously a lesbian for walks and hitting on her a year and a half later I feel like I've had no closure and am as miserable ...

Why does this man adhere to what his Mommy says, always? Why is my mother in law so resistant to allowing her son to grow up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4092 days ago

10 February 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid ,I am love with this guy that I have known for many years. We have a daughter together. I broke the relationship off and moved to another state. We talk to one another on the phone from time to time and every time I hear his voice it mak...

He's married. We're strongly attracted. I even told his wife nothing was 'going on'. I want to have sex with him, should I?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4092 days ago

10 February 2013 (F) - Hi...this is my first time seeking advice through the internet. I'm almost 20 years old. I applied for a job at a restaurant and I got the job and the general manager is 37. During the interview we made deeply eye contact and then once he...

I'm concerned that she's more excited by the dildos than me. Is this a deal breaker for marriage, if that's true?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4093 days ago

10 February 2013 (M) - Hello all, I'll give a little background first. My girlfriend and I have been together for a little over a year. I'm 46 she's 41 both of us have been divorced from former spouses for over 5 years. We became sexually active after about 5 mon...

I thought the break-up had no effect on me. Except I've changed in ways that scare me. What's happened to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - I was with my ex for 3 years, we broke up around 4 months ago. I loved him so much, at the time he was everything to me! My best friend, my entire world. We broke up because he moved away, and I think some time before that I had subconsc...

In love with my male friend but he has a girlfriend. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4094 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - I don't know how to move forward... I am completely in love with this guy. We are really good friends and I always feel better when I am with him. I have never felt this way before about anybody. But he has a girlfriend and seems to love her. I d...

Why didn't he tell me about this close female friend of his? Why has he saved hundreds of emails? And why is he buying this woman gifts that I don't even know about?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4094 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - I don't know if I'm overreacting or not... I hope someone can help me clear this up in my head. I have discovered that my husband of less than a year has a close female friend that until the other day, I did not know about. I found out when he left ...

New town. His town. How do I overcome problems with making friends with my partner's buddies? They don't seem to like me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4094 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - I've been with my partner for two years. He was unhappy in the town we lived in (where we met) so I agreed to move with him back to the town he lived in previously, where he has lots of friends and was happier. I am freelance and work from home s...

She has a Bf yet flirts with me. Should I ask her how she feels about me and tell her how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4094 days ago

9 February 2013 (M) - Dear Cupid, I been friends with this girl for about 2 years now and I really like her, and she likes me back (Im 90% sure). Problem is that she has a boyfriend and they've had sex together. Her friends tell me she likes me and so do my friend...

How do I get through this? Or at least over it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4094 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - Well where to begin? I was in love with my ex so very much to the point I did everything for him. He was my life. We were together for there years and I never felt for anyone or anything the way I felt for him ....he did not how ever feel the sa...

He was maintaining a relationship with his ex-girlfriend on and off even while we were a couple. Do I confront him or forget him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4094 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts, I post this because I seek your advice on what I should do. Perhaps this posting is a little unnecessary, because in my mind, I think I already know the answer. I met my boyfriend of one and a half years at work in New Zealan...

I've fallen head over heels in love with him. And he's flirted with me. But there's a catch: he has a Gf. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4094 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - Okay, so... I've met this guy about a month ago, and even though it's only been a month, I've quite quickly fallen head over heels. Like, I've never really felt this way about anyone before so he's obviously special! Now over the course of th...

Always been attracted to girls. But also like watching gay porn. Could my porn use be affecting the fantasies I masterbate to and think about?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4092 days ago

8 February 2013 (M) - I am very confused at the moment. Since I was younger I have always been attracted to girls. When I see girls in the street, I'm instantly checking them out. Never in real life have I ever looked at a make and though hmm they're attracti...

She sends texts to her male workmate every day. Does it sound like I have a right to be discouraged and want to leave her? She dismisses my fears.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4094 days ago

8 February 2013 (M) - My wife and i have been married 5 years and for the past 2 years, she has been texting her workmate and calling him on a daily. We also live very close to her workplace and he takes her and picks her up. Ive spoken to my wife about my dislike...

A confused girl, an unhealthy obsession, and feeling helpless.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4096 days ago

7 February 2013 (M) - I am a college student. A year ago I met this spectacular person. We both have the same - erm - learning disabilities, spectral disorders, and share a TON of the same habits in that we have them, and express them in the exact same way, to the ...

What can I do about my girlfriend, who is so jealous of the relationship I have with a sweet guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

6 February 2013 (F) - My girl friend as been so jealous about my relationship cause it going well for me. Her boyfriend is a close friend to my boyfriend, and they both work in a construction company and see most time at break, without knowing abt my friend jealousy...

Was I a fool to get involved and offer my support to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4096 days ago

6 February 2013 (F) - A friend of mine was going through hell as his wife had gone off with another man, leaving him a note. He hit the drink and after a week moved into a new place he kept on drinking I stepped up and saved him and his job, Things moved on and we be...

My experience of an LDR has been flawed by his need for a FWB as well. I refused the latter. Can LDR partners stay faithful?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4097 days ago

6 February 2013 (F) - can people mix up long distance friends with benefits relationship with a committed faithful long distance relationship meaning? I was in a long distance relationship and thought he was faithful for the year prior to my trip to meet him. He ke...

Being A Good Agony Aunt or Uncle

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

6 February 2013 (F) - I have been reading comments and feedback from agony aunts and uncles to queries and questions posted by OPs. Some of the advice, opinions, comments and feedback are encouraging, motivating and insightful But nonetheless many are very negative, j...

How do I forget about her and move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4098 days ago

5 February 2013 (M) - My question is how do I get over a hard love feeling ? I've been in love with her for period of 4 months but lately I discovered that she is in love with another man though she says she is still loving me at the same time she spend most of her time ...