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Happy with my engagement and my relationship, I still find myself attracted to another woman!

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Question - (31 January 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 February 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

I'm engaged and I am happy in my relationship, but I recently felt a strong connection with another woman. I think about her and email her a lot but I am not sure how to deal with it. I haven’t told the other woman that I am engaged, and I don’t what to do. It is confusing.

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A female reader, complexlove +, writes (3 February 2006):

Hmm, sounds like one tough situation. Can you give a little more detail? Like does this woman live near you, have you ever met her? How long have you been with your fiancee? How old are you and how old is this other woman?

Does this other woman want a relationship from you? If you're not sure. Then I would just be honest and tell her you're engaged, you might be surprised maybe she was just looking for friendship. What ever the answer is just follow your heart. Have a deep one on one discussion with your fiancee. It might be cold feet or you just might not be ready for marriage period. I wish you luck in whatever you decide but more info on this would be helpful for more accurate advice.

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A female reader, willywombat United Kingdom +, writes (2 February 2006):

willywombat agony auntI thnk maybe your engagement has caused a big case of *cold feet* for you. The grass isn't always greener hun, and you need to seriously look at what you could be throwing away if you go for this other woman.

Getting engaged, married whatever is a major commitment to another person. You don't say hold old you are, or how long you and your fiancee have been together, but I think you ahve to look inwards and find what you truley want before you make any decisions about who you really want to be with and how you want your future to pan out.

Any more info on your situation might be helpful, if not good luck with your decision.x

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A female reader, Rosebud55 +, writes (1 February 2006):

All I can say is if you feel something stronger for someone else you might want to reconsider the relationship you are in. There are so many answers I could give you if I just had a little more detail.

Like how long have you known this other woman, was it before or after your engagement?

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