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Archived questions from: November, 2005 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

The man who loves me is married. He says he's never fallen for anyone else, not even his wife!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

30 November 2005 (F) - I have fallen head over heels with a married man. I've known him for years, and always fancied him but never ever thought he would feel the same. Only a few weeks ago did he tell me that he loves me. He honestly said he didn't fall in love with his...

My boyfriend of 4 years doesn't show he cares. Now I'm getting interested in someone else!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

30 November 2005 (M) - I have had a boyfriend for the last 4 years. I love him and he says he loves me. But he never shows me any commitment. He works on the oilrigs so we do not see each other that much. He never rings me when he is away and when he is home he goes str...

I'm torn between my wife and my girlfriend! What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6715 days ago

30 November 2005 (M) - Wow am I glad I found this site. Here's my situation. Im a seperated 33 year old guy. My wife Sheri (36 years old) and I have been married 3 years. Sheri is a "good woman" with a big heart but I never found her attractive the way a man should be ...

I trusted him to help a friend...then he left me for her! How do I stop the hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6722 days ago

30 November 2005 (F) - Make me feel better ! I had been dating my now ex boyfriend for 3 years. One night at his house he recieved a phone call from a female friend who had discovered she was pregnant not by him, being the stupid person that I am and trusting that the...

I couldn't handle my friend being with someone else. Now he seems to be chasing me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6722 days ago

30 November 2005 (F) - Last year I had a roommate and we became incredibly close. Nothing ever happened "technically" but we basically spent all of our time together and a lot of people thought we were together. The problem is he has a girlfriend on the other side of ...

He's engaged to another but says I am his soulmate...and I have strong feelings for him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - A guy I have worked with for the past year told me that he liked me and he thought i was his soulmate. The problem is that he is engaged to be married to another woman. I have very strong feelings for him.I want to tell him not to marry her! I am 33 ...

The man who keeps telling me he loves me keeps dumping me for his "friend"!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6723 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - I've started dating a guy about 5 months ago. When I met he told me about a friend that he had for 4yrs...a friend that he had been having sex with. She was in love with him but he wasn't in love with her. That she understood their relationship and ...

How do I find out if he is committed to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6723 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for just over a year, but recently I haven't been happy with the relationship. And recently he cancelled on me to go climbing with a girl who's just a 'good friend' of his. I amn't worried he'll actually cheat, ...

My mate is supposed to be getting married, even though he's flirting with an old flame!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6723 days ago

27 November 2005 (F) - Hi! I'm hoping for some advice because I'm worried about my friend. Basically he's engaged to this woman that he's been seeing for about a year and they are due to get married early next year. When I spoke to him he was really enthusiatic saying t...

I'm in love with my brother's mate but he already has a girlfriend and she's my mate. I love him so much. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

27 November 2005 (F) - I'm in love with my brothers mate. His girlfriend is my mate and I am 13. My brothers mate is 16 going on 17 and I'm afraid I don't know what to do. I love him so much I would do anything for him. Help me please....

I love my girlfriend but I spend way too much time thinking of this other girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6726 days ago

25 November 2005 (M) - There is a lass at work I really like.....and have done since the second I saw her. She is so perfect. One night we were out on a staff do and I think I told her I like her. She got really cross with me, all I can remember is her saying you have ...

I love this boy from Belgium but he has a girlfriend..what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6727 days ago

25 November 2005 (F) - im a 15 years old and every year for the past three years my family and i have been going to the same hotel every summer and when we first went my family and i made friends with a family from Belguim who go to the same hotel every year. There is a ...

As soon as I was going to tell her I was interested in her, her boyfriend takes her on holidays!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6728 days ago

24 November 2005 (M) - I have been friends with this girl at work for 4 years. She seems to like me. She flirts all the time with me and seems to like me. She asks me to go up to her house for coffee now and then, but the only thing is that she has a boyfriend. They only ...

I'm with one person, but I think I might be falling for someone new!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6728 days ago

23 November 2005 (F) - I'm in a bit of trouble you see. I'm with one but secretly falling for another. I feel like a prisoner in my own home. I have been very very sad and do not know what to do. Should I stay or should I go ?...

I can't believe that all those phone calls were just to "a friend"!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6730 days ago

23 November 2005 (F) - I've been living with my boyfriend for 2 years. We've had our ups and downs, but for the most part, we were so happy together. Towards the end of our relationship we get in a huge fight of something small of course. I tell him...fine....just move ...

Two guys in my life. Neither is perfect, but sex with the other guy is irresistable!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6728 days ago

22 November 2005 (F) - I’ve been Best friends with my ex roommate for about 5 yrs and approx 3 yrs ago while we were living together, we ended up having sex a couple times. We decided that we didn’t want to risk our friendship so we stopped and remained friends. It’s b...

My ex was my rock when I needed him, but now I'm just his bit on the side...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6731 days ago

21 November 2005 (F) - Hi, I' a 39 year old rcoverying from cervical cancer. I split with my ex a while back when he had affair and got the girl pregnant. We have children and a business together and while at beginning seeing him most days was painful, I got over it and ...

My ex hates her current relationship, but "doesn't know" about getting back with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6723 days ago

20 November 2005 (M) - Hi I have been friends with my ex-girlfriend for round about two months. Lately all the feelings I had for her back then have come back. She is in a bad relationship with this other guy, she complains about everything he does wrong to me, and...

I think I'd rather be with my ex... even though he's not very reliable...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6732 days ago

20 November 2005 (F) - I have a boyfriend of 3 months and I thought I was in love with him, but now my ex wants me back and I think I want him back too, because recently my feelings are changing for my current boyfriend. I feel trapped and don't know what to do. I don't ...

My new guy would be perfect... except he's married!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6731 days ago

20 November 2005 (F) - I meet this guy, lets just say it's like the pretty woman movie. He buys me all sort of expensive gifts and such. It is so different with him, the other day we were making out for 4 hours straight without having sex at all in any way. He says h...

My ex will take me back, but what if I miss a chance with a new man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6731 days ago

20 November 2005 (F) - I need help. Fisrt I'll give you the run down of the situation. I cheated on my ex-boyfriend *Colin (* = not real name) so he obviuously broke up with me. I was very regretful and begged and begged for him to take me back but he refused. So one ...

I'd swear my husband's buddy was flirting...even though he denied it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6732 days ago

20 November 2005 (F) - I am married for two years now and love my husband dearly. I have always been faithful to him and never thought of cheating or being with someone else. Last December I met his buddy, whom he has known since high school. He is an attractive guy and ...

Is the woman at work waiting for the right time to leave her boyfriend for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6731 days ago

19 November 2005 (M) - I have been involved with a woman at work for the last few months. We have known each other for over two years. She has a live-in boyfriend and her actions seem to dictate that she is not completely happy with him. I am not sure about all of thi...

We never realised the strength of our love until 10 years on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6731 days ago

18 November 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid I am puzzled and frustrated and I need some help. I don't know what to do about my former girlfriend. 10 years ago, she broke up with me. Before that, we lived together for a few years and we believed we had met our soulmate. We felt...

I broke up with my ex to be with my current girlfriend, but it's the ex I really want!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6735 days ago

17 November 2005 (M) - I've been dating this girl for almost 5 years now and I can say that she is fun to be with. We had our share of ups and downs for the past few years. But I keep on thinking about my ex-girlfriend, whom I've been with for 2 years before my current ...

He can't leave his ex yet... and we've been dating for 6 months!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6736 days ago

17 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months. When we began seeing each other, I knew that he still lived with his ex-girlfriend, and he cannot leave right now financially. Both her and I are really bothered by this. I never go to their ...

I gave up my interested male friend for my boyfriend's sake, so why won't he dump his female admirer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6735 days ago

16 November 2005 (F) - My partner and I have been together for about 10 months. Our relationship is fantastic, other than one thing. About 2 months ago a girl started texting him (it was a friend of his ex). She made it clear that she is keen on him and is constantly ...

We'd broken up and he had a one-night stand. Now, somehow, I still feel betrayed...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6736 days ago

16 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend left me unexpectedly about 3 times during our first 2 years together. After lots of time, talking and counselling it turned out to be related to some issues from his childhood, which we have now dealt with. We have enjoyed a year ...

I already have my suspicions about my husband and his female friend, so what happens when I have to leave them alone for a week?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6731 days ago

16 November 2005 (F) - My previous question was "Are my husband and female bartender just friends or is there something going on? This was tagged "Three's a crowd" The reader's responses were very helpful but my next question is - next summer when we go to our cabin an...

I wasn't ready when I met him, then he turned around and married someone who doesn't make him happy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6736 days ago

16 November 2005 (F) - I'm in love with an unhappily married man. I had my chance with him not once but twice. But I had just gotten out of a bad marriage and I was not ready for the kind of relationship that he wanted. He was ready to settle down and have children and he ...

He lied to me and continued his friendship with the other girl...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6737 days ago

15 November 2005 (F) - My BF of 7 years insists on continuing his friendship with a female friend even though it makes me extremely angry and hurt. He began this friendship about 3 years ago and I was bothered by it due to the overly inappropropriate flirtatious nature ...

Go with the current boyfriend, or reconsider my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6737 days ago

15 November 2005 (F) - I am having a rough time right now. I am divorced and currently dating a younger man. The problem is my ex still wants me back and I still care for him. I don't know what to do because I also care for the guy I am currently with. I feel like ...

While I was away, her old ex seems to have moved in...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6736 days ago

15 November 2005 (M) - Hi all, I've been in a serious relationship with someone for 5 years now and we were talking about moving back to the southeast. Well I got a job back there and she couldn't move yet because of her job and we couldn't afford to move all our things. ...

Do I stay with my new girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

14 November 2005 (M) - I've been dating this girl for almost 5 years now and i can say that she is fun to be with. We had our shares of ups and downs for the past few years. But i keep on thinking about my ex-girlfriend, whom i've been with for 2 years before my current ...

She wants her ex back and the stress on our relationship is driving me crazy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6737 days ago

14 November 2005 (M) - I am with a girlfriend who says she doesn't feel the same just two weeks after moving in together and who I know is talking with her ex about getting back together but we are living together. They have a 3 year old son and throughout our o...

He says that once my kids are grown, he'll leave his wife and we'll be together...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6737 days ago

14 November 2005 (F) - I'm married with 3 children but for the last 2yrs I have been having an affair. He has a partner who is 25yrs older then him and he has noticed the age difference. They dont have sex anymore, so it's more of a platonic relationship. I have hinted t...

Is the bartender really just my husband's "friend", or do they have something going on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6735 days ago

12 November 2005 (F) - My husband of 6 months suddenly became really good friends with a female bartender in our neighborhood bar near our summer cottage. When I went back home to work while he stayed there, they became better friends. He says that they are just friends ...

Should I go back to the ex I feel strongly about, or stay with my new boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6720 days ago

11 November 2005 (F) - I have a very huge problem. Well my ex-boyfriend is extremely mad at me. We broke up because of some complications, but we were planning on getting back together when I could date again. Well, over time I had feelings for someone else, and I told m...

Does the one who had the first crush automatically have "dating rights"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6741 days ago

11 November 2005 (F) - I'm seventeen, and I'm co-stage-managing a play with a great guy. I met him at the start of the play, and I currently have a huge crush on him. However, a close friend is the lead, and she's also got a crush on him. She's constantly flirting with ...

I'm in love with my boyfriend's brother but I don't know how the brother feels!

This question has 43 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

10 November 2005 (F) - I'm in love with my boyfriend's brother. His brother has told me time and time again that he feels the same way. I am not happy with my boyfriend and really don't know what to do. I need to find out whether his brother is stringing me along or if ...

I had sex with a guy I don't even love. Then his girlfriend blackmailed me to my boyfriend...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6741 days ago

9 November 2005 (F) - I dont know what to do. Me and my boyfriend were only dating for about 3 months but we were so in love. It was like love at first sight when we first met. Then he told me he wouldn't be able to come here anymore until winter was over (he lives in ...

I'm concerned because he sees his work friend more often than he sees me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6743 days ago

9 November 2005 (F) - My Boy friend and I have been together for almost 2 years. We fight just like any other couple. A few weeks ago, he told me he found someone that he works with, attractive. Guys are visual so I had no problem with that. A few days ago, though, ...

Am I a fool to be with a man who is still in contact with a woman he loved?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6741 days ago

9 November 2005 (F) - I have been dating a guy for about 8 months. We spend a lot of time together but he has an emotional wall up with me, that hurts me. He is also not as intimate physically as I would expect from a man. He has always refused to talk about the past, ...

I'm waiting for my online married guy to leave his unhappy marriage, so we can be together...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6741 days ago

8 November 2005 (F) - I was happily married for seven years, so I thought, but my husband left me for a much younger woman. I have some children but was lonely. I went in a chatroom and met a man I think is wonderful. From the start he told me he was married but unhappy....

I was shocked to find out my boyfriend has been having an online relationship while with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6744 days ago

8 November 2005 (F) - I found out that my boyfriend of almost a year, has had an on-line affair with a woman from another country. He's even asked her to marry him. He has no intention of doing so. I was devastated...betrayed...this was the first man I had dated in ...

The woman I want is with someone. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6734 days ago

8 November 2005 (M) - For the past eight months, I've been gradually and hopelessly falling for someone whom was in love with someone. Now I'm afraid I've finally fallen in love with her despite the fate she's with someone else. my question is do I let go and fade away ...

When he catches my eye, he winks at me. Should I ignore it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6744 days ago

7 November 2005 (F) - My other half and I have been meeting up with a group of people and their other halves at our local for the past 6 months. More recently one of the blokes if he catches my eye will then wink at me when nobody is looking. Sometimes I feel awkward ...

Lately my girlfriend is talking to a guy and telling him lies about our life together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6745 days ago

7 November 2005 (M) - manic depressive Hi, Im a 25 year old guy and have been with my 20 year old girlfriend for 2 years. 6 months after we moved in together I found out she was talking to a lot of guys online. I started to get a little jealous so I ask her about th...

I'm pregnant with my bf's baby, but my old friend spends her time trying to get him alone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6744 days ago

6 November 2005 (F) - Ok from March to August my bf fancied my "friend", I went on holiday and he tried getting kisses off her etc. She didn't try to stop him (as far as I know). When I came back they flirted infront of me so much I cried there and then. When I ...

My partner broke up with me to be with someone else. Now he's seeing us both!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6722 days ago

6 November 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid I am 22 years old. I was in a relationship for 4 years and 7 months and about 2 weeks ago my ex and I broke up. We have known each other for about 8 1/2 years and I really want to get back with him. Our break up was not mutual. He t...