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Archived questions from: September, 2008 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

Do I hang in there, or leave him until the divorce is finalized?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 77 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I am 27 years old and dating a 30 year old man for 4 months now. He is legally separated from his wife and they are currently going through a divorce. They have been separated for 4 years. He has asked me on several occasions to be patient with ...

I get really jealous when other girls flirt with my best guy friend. Surely I can't like him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 85 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I'm really sorry this is so long but it requires a fair bit of explanation :D So a few years ago I was stranded in this class, in which I was the only girl. That sucked. Then this guy (then kinda funny/nerdy looking XD) sat next to me and was ju...

Who's more likely to end up with the girl? - A hypothetical situation

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - Hi internet fans! I'd like to cut to the chase once and for all in relation to the subject of attraction. Ladies: which man are you most likely to be attracted to: guy no.1 who is good looking, has a great body, has personality and charm, but you ...

She's infatuated with this married man...so I am thinking I may never have a chance again! Advice needed!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 95 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - My girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me about a month ago. We have a 2 1/2 year old son. We are sharing custody. Our relationship had been declining for months as the pressures of school, work, raising a child, and living with my parents chipp...

Caught in a triangle here! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 100 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I moved to a new city and met a great guy I fell for instantly. We would flirt a lot, and It was pretty clear what was going to happen. But one night, his roommate tried to kiss me. I turned him down politely but now the first guy told my friend he ...

She loves someone else, but I want to be with her! How can I win her over? Or should I even try?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 100 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - hey everyone, this is my 1st question on here and i dont exactly know how to say it, well in order to understand it 1st off, u need to know the basic story. we are incredibly close, she is the only one who knows what i truly am like, ive known her ...

I blew my chance with the guy I love and now he only wants me as a friend!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 96 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I am feeling so sorry for myself at the moment. A while back while I was in an unhappy relationship I met someone, a man and we became friends. I gave him the impression that I was in an unhappy relationship and just didn’t know how to get out. Well ...

We have a baby and he keeps cheating on me. I don't know if I should stick with him or move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 100 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hi There, Well the story goes like this. My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 2 yeard and we have a 9mnth old baby as well. last year while I was pregnant I found out that he cheated on me and that the girl was pregnant. I ...

How do I date someone at some point when a male friend still likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 100 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - So I have chatted casually to Andy, same age as me, 2 kids too in the pub for a couple of months, just amongst others too. A few months ago i met a guy, Jack, 8 yrs younger than me in there and we txt most days, just asking if we've had a good day. ...

Can I have my cake and eat it ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - Hello, I've been in a relationship for nearly 3 years, is a long term friend that went further, she is married and has intended on leaving her husband but we have had set backs, we've had our ups and downs as any normal "proper" couple go through,...

I feel like I'm cheating again! Will someone please help me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 95 days ago

28 September 2008 (?) - Im in love with my boyfriend of 1 month and my best friend of.....over a year. Im soo upset, because of everything thats been said between my boyfriend and I...things like...I'll always love you, your mine forever....ect. I always said i love you to ...

I dislike girlfriend going out clubbing until 4 am with her male friends, is this unreasonable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - hi, hope someone will help, been with my gf nearly 2 years and we both left long term partners to get together.she's 22 i'm 28. where as i have stopped going out much without her except mainly cos i dont want to, but she still goes out clubbin...

We are having an affair, I got divorced recently and she is in an unhappy marriage, I realised I love her, your opinions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - Hello All. I never thought I'd fall for a married woman since I 'KNOW' how wrong this is. However, I realized that it is possible even when you're 30 y.o to fall hardly for someone regardless of that they're married. The thing is that she's falli...

I need my job. So how can I cope with my ex courting another girl? We're all coworkers.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 101 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Hoping someone might have input on this. I split with my boyfriend about three months ago. I do have to seem him each day because we both work a second job. I felt bad about the breakup at first but am moving on now. Lately he has been a little ...

Is it possible for a marriage to survive an affair when both partners are willing to try?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Is it possible for a marriage to survive an affair when both partners are willing to try. I had an affair and no longer love my husband - I do however feel great affection for him and love him very much as a friend. He still loves me and is ...

I turned down my coworker as I am married and love my husband, but why then can't I stop thinking about my coworker?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Hello. Just a quick post before my husband catches me using his computer! There's this guy at work who had the cheek to ask me out a couple of months' ago. I turned him down *of course* - but have not been able to get him off my mind since. In fact ...

My best friend has fallen for the one I fancy, he admitted he liked her too, I said it's fine to me although it's not, how should I react further?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 100 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - dear all you awesome agony aunts and thank you for your help in advance. i have liked this guy for quite a while now and learnt from past relationships that its worth the wait anyway just the other day he decided to like my best friend and as so...

I like her and I want to be her secret lover for as long as she is here (she has a boyfriend back in her hometown). How should I go about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 101 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid, I'm confused, excited, nervous and thrilled at the same time. I feel overwhelmed. Yesterday night/Earlier this morning I slept with a beautiful woman that I meet last week. It wasent love at first sight, but more like ins...

My dad is dating this girl that hates my guts!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - My dad is dating this girl that hates my guts and has no respect for me. I don't really like her when she's over I just igorne her pretty much or go a friend's house. She treats everyone like crap (cluding him). He treats her like gold. Befor...

The idea of my wife being with other men doesn't make me jealous outright. But I don't know how I will feel on the night?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - Hi my wife are i are 26 and have been married for 3 1/2 years. We were each others first but both had one other sexual partner before we started officially dating and eventually got married. My wife has recently lost a lot of weight she had put...

Now I am back on my feet and well able to perform but my wife wants to continue seeing this guy-Any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - Due to an injury I was unable to perform sexually for several years. The problem has since past. During that time I allowed my wife to take a lover. Now I am back on my feet and well able to perform but she wants to continue seeing this guy because ...

I like my friend's boyfriend, he likes me too, now I'm wondering if I should tell her what happened or keep my mouth shut?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - ok heres my problem well my freind she has this boyfreind right so we were having this party and latley i have been having feelings towards her boyfreind but i figured that since she is dating him i keep my mouth shut so like were at the party an...

Which one do I choose? My girlfriend or my work mate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 102 days ago

27 September 2008 (M) - i have been with my girlfriend for two months, this is is my first serious relationship since i broke off with my fiance who i was with for two years, a year ago. In the year between the break up and this current relationship, i had a fling with ...

I'm happily engaged and want to help my ex with coping after recent divorce, but HOW, when both of us have a problem with impulse control with regards to one another??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 102 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - Forgive me, this post is long, but I feel that there is information necessary so that people can answer my question. I am engaged. I am very happy in my current arrangement and have no wish to leave my fiance. With this being said I have also been...

I cheated on her and she now has someone else. How can I get her out my mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 102 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - hi?i just want to get some advice cause i don't know what to do. There is something that i can't let go. It's that i cheated someone. Someone that became special to me. I know that it's not right to love in the same sex but i did. It starts when i ...

Betrayed hurt confused and angry!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 98 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - I started a new relationship with a guy who I thought was the one, it got intense very quick and I believed in him so much. He was like no other guy I knew before and I had experienced a pretty horrible relationship before that. He works away and a ...

My ex sex buddy doesn't talk to me since he is hooking up with another coworker. I thought we were friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 103 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - My coworker and I started messing around with no strings attached. I just broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago and am still in hopes of re-patching things up. However, one day we all went out and I invited one of my other girl co workers to ...

I told her I needed time to get over her but that just makes her upset! What's the best way to handle this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - i recently started liking my best friend who is a girl. we found out that we both liked each other and things were going slow but good for a week or so until her ex's dad ended up in the hospital. to make a long story short i told her that she ...

He yelled "I know you miss me and you want me back!" in the school cafeteria. Problem is I also like my best friend who's asked me out.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 103 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - okay i just got dumped by a boy! but now he wants to go back to me..at lunch he yelled out"i know u miss me and u want me back" but he broke up with me and he said that...well anyway...i really still like him and i also want to get back with him but ...

I'm in a LDR, but seeing someone near me, is this wrong? I just need some love but I'd break up with him if need be, but how should I do it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 64 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - Ok well Im a young girl. I have a boyfriend in the philippines I love him dearly. But about 5 months into our relationship i began dating a guy here, is this really wrong what should I do?? I cant see myself with the guy here, but I just need so...

What should I do about my ex who says has feelings for me but... loves his girlfriend? She has treated him horribly!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 104 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - I was in a relationship with my ex for 4 years that ended a year ago. We have a 3 year old son together, and he is now dating a girl he cheated on my with. For the last year he has been telling me he still has strong feelings for me. Over the ...

I know he may never leave his wife but the way he treats me is unreal! What should I think about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 103 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - i have been seeing a married man for around 9 months now and he loves her and there is a baby invovled.... im starting to fall for him but we talk anytime we can and we see each other when we get the chance... we have a blast together its almost ...

Why does the girl I like stay with her awful boyfriend? She says she'd rather be with me, but won't break up with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

26 September 2008 (M) - I am in a very tough situation. there is this girl who i like and says she likes me back. she has a bf. 6 months ago she told me that they might break up...so i should wait it out... i waited and waited...six month later its all the same but now ...

Why does my friend hit on every guy I date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - I have a close female friend--I'll call her "Anne"--whom I've known for about two years. Anne and I get along very well in most regards. Since it's rare for me to find a girl with similar interests, I've forgiven her things in the past that would ...

Do you think my friend's girlfriend is jealous of me? I admit I like to tease her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 78 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - My guy friend's girlfriend hates me. She thinks I'm going take him from her (not true .) We both tried tell her we're just friends. Me and my friend flirt a bit when she isn't around. We don't get along at all. I lip off to her a lot (shes so ...

I fancy her but she has a boyfriend, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

25 September 2008 (M) - I really like a girl who's the same age as me and she is going out with a kid who is 17 and has been for about 7 months. I like her a lot but what should I do?...

He said he loves me, but doesn't want to go back with me, and has sex with another woman!

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25 September 2008 (F) - Hi, I don't know what to do. I was going out with a man for 1 year...it wasn't easy....we fought a lot....so from time to time we decided to take a break....but everytime we went back together because our love is too strong. Recently, we decided to ...

Swinger's story: We are two married couples that exchanged partners but we handled it badly; bitterness and fights followed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 90 days ago

25 September 2008 (M) - We started out as friends. Five years ago, we were a DINK couple who doted their two kids and found the parents to be sincere, loving, simple but honest. Over time we got to know each other even better when we were between houses and moved in with ...

I found flirtacious texts on his phone, he said he did it because we were on a break at that time, I understand that but can't get the texts out of my head!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 98 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 1yr 7 months.Last night i went through his phone i know this was wrong but... i found texts he sent about 3 months ago to this girl saying "i enjoyed our sexy kiss last night etc.... I got really ...

The guy I like just asked my friend out... What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - im a freshman in high school. been through a ton of boyfriends, but never felt the way i do about this guy..i am seriously madly in love with him, but the thing is, he just asked out my friend and they are going to a movie....how the heck do i tell ...

Am I doomed to stay with this man -till death do us part- just so I can keep my kids together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 100 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - I dont know what to do. Can anyone help pls? about 5 months ago my husband suggested we try a 3sum to spice things up in our sex life, to make matters more complicated my husband said it should be with an ex of mine (well i say ex, i had an affa...

I got them together... but my heart skips a beat whenever I see him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 94 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - Ok, so I go to school with this guy who is a year younger than me and has a crush on my best friend... well I think I may like him, but I don't know why. Everytime I think about him, I see him with my friend, and I'm the one who kinda got them ...

My ex and I had an on/off relationship with him going back to hsi ex every time. I felt horrible and insecure to know they are together soon after our break up. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - I broke up with my ex two and a half weeks ago. Since then, I've been very good about not calling, and I was finally feeling good about myself and the situation. Then, yesterday, his ex-girlfriend's boyfriend wrote me a message over myspace telling ...

"Well, if you're not happy then I can't make you, but call me sometime if you want sex"?! How could he tell me that after all the nice things he said?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 105 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - I was dating a guy for 3 months, he is getting divorced but still living with his wife until the house sold. I had been uncomfortable with this from day 1 but until now it never bothered me as I didn't know things would progress. He said she ...

My ex kissed me twice, though he has a long distance girlfriend. Do I continue hanging out with him and see what happens?

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24 September 2008 (F) - I have not seen my ex-boyfriend in nearly 6 years. During that six years, I have had two very serious relationships and he was engaged (and broke it off) and then living with a girlfriend (and then moved away from her.) He currently moved ...

I am falling for the girl at work, she is married so I'd never act on these feelings, any comments or similar stories?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 105 days ago

24 September 2008 (M) - I guess this is just a confession. I have been with my gf for six years. We are close and everything goes well. We communicate and work well together. Recently I met a girl at work that I have become infatuated with. I was not looking or asking for ...

He makes insecure comments now after our threesome, and now when I want to interact with one of my friends I don't tell him. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - My Fiance and I had a threesome with one of my friends. Everything was beautiful, but now he makes these insecure comments when he knows i'm going to see her alone. I think its unfair, because she was my friend before this episode. I was open with ...

I feel like being the "other man", what to do? Give her a reasonable time to leave her controlling boyfriend? (she said she would, but it has not happened yet)

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

24 September 2008 (M) - I met this girl some months back. Initially we were friends and spent lot of time together. Then, she slowly disclosed her problems with her controlling long distance boyfriend. I helped her out as much as possible, and in the process we fell in ...

I don't trust myself around him, how do I find an easy way out without anyone getting hurt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 34 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - Ok, Basically i met this guy a few months ago we came really good friends then we kinda started seeing eachother it kinda went sour and we fell out majorly. Then he started seeing my best mate i was quite upset by this this caused more conflict...

He and I have been dirty texting, but he's getting married soon to a good friend of mine and I have a boyfriend! Need help getting him out of my head!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - Dear Aunts i am in a bit of a pickle i am with someone for the last four years, but a few months ago me and a male friend who is getting married soon to a good friend of mine started flirting with me, we have always got on really well we have bee...