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Archived questions from: April, 2009 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

I am not high on his priority list

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - my boyfriend is good man,gives me lots of affection. yet i can't help but feel that i'm one of the lower priorites in his life.whenever i wanna do something,go somwhere,ask him to do somthing,it's always wait,i'm tired or i have plans with my ...

I know I can't trust him now.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. We share a computer, and whilst looking through chat logs to find a phone number, I stumbled across some rather shocking information. I found a conversation between him and a guy, 7 months ago,...

Please help me I feel so torn

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 206 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - 2 months ago I met a man online that lived a few hours from me. We ended up talking on the phone every day. He told me was single at first but a few weeks later I found out he had a baby girl and I asked him if he was married but he told me he wa...

I'm not anyone's girlfriend but all these guys keep getting mad at me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 206 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - fucking men give me a head ache. i have always had my fair share of men. all kinds of guys. i havent been single for a very long time it used to be days before i had found me a new one. and now since i moved to the boonies of up state new york i ...

I told my crush how I felt but I still don't know how he feels!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - So I finally decided to tell my crush how I feel. Didn't work out well. I tried speaking in our native tongue, but I ended up stuttering so I decided to speak in English. I actually planned everything I was going to say, but they all slipp...

I'm terrible at reading women!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - My problem is, I am terrible at reading females. Unless it is very obvious, I can't always tell if a female is interested in me or not. There is this one female that I am interested in; the first time I asked her out she told me she wasn't single, ...

Thinking of having a three-some!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend are thinking of having a three-some. he of course is the 1 with the idea and im half there for it. i do want to experience it but of course there are reasons that put me off it a bit. i know we need to set boundaries, but does...

Gay man married to a woman....now I want her to sleep with someone else!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - Hi, i am a gay man married to my wife for 8 years, we have two kids. I am not very active in sex with my wife, for the past 4 years i had hardly had sex for 5 times. She keeps on insisting me, but i just jerk off when she is asleep on our bed. I ...

His bit on the side is returning to work in the summer....how do I stop these doubts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 207 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Need a bit of advice to cut a long story short my h/b had an affair with a married girl at work i found out he finished it straight away he was off work himself for 6 months we spent all these months together 24/7 she stayed with her husband and ...

Is he cheating? please let me know what you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Is he cheating? pls tell me what you think..thanks..? Hey guys..I need an objective opinion asap. I have been going out for a guy for 10 months. For the last 2-3 months we were on and off and every time we had a fight he would dump on me. I gu...

We broke up... why did she come to me for help? Is this karma at work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - okay this is my dilemma. Me and my girlfriend of 3 months have recently broke up. The reason why we broke up is because she had feelings for another guy and he has feelings for her. I was devastated and heart broken. We didnt talk anymore for a ...

I cant stand living with my ex now he has a new girlfriend but he doesn't want me to move out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I'm really confused and am wondering if anyone can help me understand my situation more please. I split up with my boyfriend in September 2007 but we stayed friends, then in November 2007, after a short relationship with another girl, he asked m...

My boyfriend told his lover that I was a homeless transient who slept on his couch!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I met my boyfriend through my brother in law and he came from NC all the way to MO to meet me. We fell in love and he wanted me to move to NC with him. I quit my job that I had for a long time and left my family and friends to be with him. ...

Baby daddy crap!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 207 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - my girlfriend of 1year has two kids(9 and 10). their dad is in prison.he wants my girlfriend to come visit him.She claims that him and her are best friends.the problem im having out of the situation is that I've been feeling disrespected by her kids ...

Pretty obvious she has been cheating but I cant bring myself to break up with her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - Ive been with a girl for a month or so (known her for alot longer) but recently ive had my suspicions that she might be cheating on me. Things like saying she was at a friends because she wasnt feeling well and needed to stay with her(i heard guys ...

I'm stuck watching as this guy uses and abuses the woman I love!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - ive been on here before asked a question about a girl. "this is my life is there something wrong with me?" i unfortunately got stupid tried to drown my sorrows in a nice tall bottle of jack and top it off wit some hard tequila. i drunk texted her. i ...

How do I show this married man I'm over the affair?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I mistakenly had an affair with a colleague that lasted half a year. We became extremely close but I ended things with him because I wanted more and knew it would be an emotional dead end and the whole act was beating me up inside. Now this man a...

Confused about 2 guys I love...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 208 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I'm really confused about two guys I love, I've known a guy for three years and we recently just started really talking about serious issues with our lives about a month ago and started getting closer he's a really good friend, he listens and a...

My wife of 20 years wants a threesome...I may want a divorce!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - Let me start by saying my wife and I have been married for twenty years. she would like to have a threesome or swap with a couple. When she told me this i was shocked and hurt. i would like someone to help me understand this. She is forty im forty ...

Should I worry about my girlfriend's guy friend in our long distance relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

28 April 2009 (M) - I feel like my girlfriend is drifting away, shes away at college and i come see her a couple times a week, i do everything and anything she asks, i even help her with her homework in which i never took the classes for, so i read her text book and do ...

He says he only cheated for sex...can this be true?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - My question is can a man (or woman)who cheats on their partner with the same woman and says it was only for sex nothing more over seveval years can it be true? He would go to her house for coffee and sex,and have gropes in the car if he gave her...

If we're just friends, then why is he jealous?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 209 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - I always seem to be in this situation! This time it’s a guy I work with. He has a girlfriend who he’s been with for 3 years now... but always seems to complain about her, they always seem to be on the verge of breaking up. At work he flirts with me, ...

Do I meet him... or do I say no and stay with my husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - I am married and have 2 kids. I have been with my husband for 5 years and married for 3. We have been haveing a lot of arguments and even got close to being physical with each other. So in all this i started chatting to other people. There was this ...

DID I MARRY A SERIAL CHEATER ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 209 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - Dear Aunts My husband who is 49 had been having an affair with a younger women(28 years old)he said he was going though a mid life crises i belived him and gave him another chance,he is no longer seeing this women but i have found out that this was...

My partner fancies someone else and is constantly texting her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 209 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - Hi, Right, my problem that I am struggling with at the moment is that my partner of 1 year who I love so much fancies another woman and yes I know this is normal for people to fancy others as long as nothing comes of it but my partner is constantly ...

I have very strong feelings for my son's teacher.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - I've been with my partner for nearly 3 years and I do love him very much but he won't commit, but now I have really strong feelings for my son's teacher. I asked him for a drink he said no but every time I see him he gives me a certain smile and ...

He's torn between two lovers -- should I trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 210 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - hi. i have this problem. recently, i became addicted to some kind of online game here, i met many different people out there. until then, i fell in love with someone who's also playing that online game. he's the first one to say his feelings for me, ...

If the father marries someone other than the kid's mother, will the kid eventually understand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - We were hanging out the other day drinking and just talking and maybe sex. He said the reason why he's not married to that b* is because she's not fun anymore and he doesn't love her. Is this wrong? I want to provide a better life for him and I ...

Help! Why do I feel so guilty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - So, there's this guy (we'll call him Sean), and his brother (we'll call him Aaron) and I have been very good friends for years (over a decade). "Sean" had been flirting with me for almost a year, and then one bad night of drunken tomfoolery led to ...

Help! I'm in a no win situation...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - I've been with my lad for 10 monthish. I left a guy(x) I was happy with to go out with this guy (y)because my mum convinced me that he would be better for me. (x)his imperfections but i didn't want to end it. she didn't like him but i gave it a ...

I think I'm in love with this married man

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 208 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - I’m in a relationship with a married man for the past 2 years. I have been pregnant by this man 2 times but had abortions. He tells me he’s in love with me but I don’t think he truly is. I believe that he does have feelings for me the reason ...

I feel he's getting too friendly with this girl...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - Okay I'm new at this so I dont really know how to write what I want to so I'm just going to give it a go. In November my boyfriend of two years left to go travelling around the world for a few months and he will now be back in four weeks. I didnt go ...

Crush feelings for a close friend when I'm married... How can I stop these feelings taking over?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - I am looking for advice and people's input not harsh judgements are moral imperatives. I am married and happy, even though we've been together a long while I can honestly say we are not only loving but still very demonstrative of our love. I ...

Started dating my ex gf's friend but now she wants me back! I want heer back too,, Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

26 April 2009 (M) - Hi. Please help! I'm 21 years old and in a relationship which is seemingly going no-where. It all started 4 years ago when i dated a girl, who i was madly in love with. I lost my virginity to her and everything seemed perfect. Then one day, ou...

Playing games with my heart

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - Hi, i hav a problem with my ex. We were together for 6yrs and we have a child together. Our relationship was a bit rocky towards the end but i never thought ov being without him tho he thought differently. He started going out a lot and staying ...

Does he play with me or what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

25 April 2009 (F) - i have loved this boy the same age as me, he lives next door and i have loved him from the day i met him. quite recently on msn after playing in my garden with him a my sister he asked me to come outside again. where he asked me if i would ever get...

She seems keener on her ex's than me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 212 days ago

25 April 2009 (M) - hey everyone, thanks for your time. Me and my girl have been together 8 months, we are doin great have our problems just like any other couple. I seem to be feeling jealousy at the fact that she is chronically texting to and talking to two of...

Friendship of many years is starting to cross the line - but he's married! Is this worth it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - I have recently seperated from my husband of 20 years. I have confided in lots of friends through this seperation for support and comfort. One of those friends happens to be male. He is married and I am also friendly with his wife, although I've ...

Please help me and tell me: am I in love, stupid or confused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 209 days ago

24 April 2009 (M) - I'm in love, stupid or confused? 2 years ago i joined my firm, and we have a very beatifull secretary who i got attracted to the first day i saw her. Then i thought it was a typical reaction so i figured i will get over it. It has been two yea...

We watched sister & boyfriend having sex!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 209 days ago

24 April 2009 (M) - last week my girlfriend and i returned home after a night of heavy drinking to walk in on my sister and her husband having sex in the living room ( i live with my sister). because of the awkwardness my girlfriend made a little joke about joini...

Is this how it is at the nude beach???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 202 days ago

24 April 2009 (M) - Hi i'm just your average guy and i am lucky enough to have an awesomely hot girlfriend. She is 23, a bit younger than me and we have been together for 18 months. Just recently we decided to go to the nude beach together. It was really beautiful and ...

We broke up over my friend. How do I get my ex's trust back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 213 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I moved from Michigan to Maryland 2 years ago to be with a man I truly loved. We were supposed to get married but it never happened. Whenever it was close we would argue and call it off. He travels a lot for his job or just to go back to Michigan to ...

My boyfriend's "ex" is returning to the city and I'm feeling very jealous/insecure.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 213 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend's "ex something" is returning to the city and I'm feeling very jealous/insecure. This girl my boyfriend used to have a huge crush on during high school is returning to town. I fear that she's more perfect for him than I am. Let me exp...

My wife thinks she is in love with another man yet our marriage is still good!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 213 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - My marriage is in trouble again. My wife had a fling last year with a guy she used to bump into while out clubbing, all very casual, but destructive and hurtful nonetheless. I gradually uncoevered the whole thing, and...I forgave her. She said she ...

I'm too naive and I always seem to make myself to vulnerable to guys

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I had and on and off relationship for about 5 years. It started when we were quite young, so it was nothing too serious and neither were our arguments. But as it went on, just him breaking up with me and getting back with me when he felt like it. i ...

My ex has threatened to beat me up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 213 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I have a massive problem!! My ex-boyfriend Jack has threatened to beat me up just because I added his present girlfriend on Facebook. But I also know that he is cheating on this girl. This girl, let's call her Shelby, has told Jack that I've said ...

Is my boss coming on to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 208 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - my boss and i spend alot of time together and have come very close, we tell each other almost everything and we even talk about sex,but recently he has been very flirty with me and rings me alot, he askes me personal questions that relate too sex, ...

Is he over his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 213 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I am really into the guy in my life, we have both been divorced for over three years. the problem I'm not sure he is over his ex. Whenever anyone mentions anything about what their ex's did that ended the relationship he walks away. He seems sad ...

Worlds apart but too close for comfort

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 214 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - I am 18 years old and have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. However, I have known this other man for 6 years over the internet. We've met up before and it was amazing, although nothing happened, I feel like I've betrayed my boyfriend. I...

I'm enjoying the best of both worlds...

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 213 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - I'm cheating on my husband with his best friend and I don't want to stop. I love him very much and our sex life is great... but I enjoy sex with his friend too. What should I do?...