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Three is a crowd: Help and advice

Husband's uncle is causing problems in our marriage!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

30 November 2013 (F) - My husbands uncle is very jealous of our relationship in fact some people have told me that he never stops talking about us like hes obsessed. He tells my husband to do things behind my back and he can get him another woman etc.. he never likes us ...

My girlfriend spends a lot of time with her gay male friend who's almost always semi-naked. Should I be concerned?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3786 days ago

30 November 2013 (M) - My girlfriend often tells me how her male fried walks around the house purely in his underwear. I know this sounds petty but I can't help but let it bother me. I even went as far as to ask what kind of underwear...they're the tight boxer brief ...

Its such a slap in my face that my ex would end up with this girl who had made my life miserable

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3787 days ago

30 November 2013 (F) - Me and my ex boyfriend broke up last December but we're still friends. However, during and before our relationship started this girl who liked him tried everything in her power to break us up, she threatened me and tried to get some girl to beat me ...

A guy told me he's been having sex with my girlfriend and while I know it's a lie, it's still bothering me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

29 November 2013 (M) - A bloke came up to me in my local the other night and told me he's been having sex with my girlfriend for the past 4 months. He explained that she was waiting for the right time to tell me it's over.I just burst out laughing at the thought of my ...

My boyfriend is too close to his secretary!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

28 November 2013 (F) - My boyfriend has a really lovely secretary who he thinks a lot of. There are eight guys working in the office. I have met her a few times and she is a lovely warm friendly woman happily married with children. She is 35 and my boyfriend is 38. He t...

I think my boyfriend of 7 months still has feelings for his ex girlfriend even though he says he doesn't.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3791 days ago

28 November 2013 (F) - Hi everyone I think my boyfriend of 7 months still has feelings for his ex girlfriend even though he says he doesn't. They broke up about a year and a half ago. I feel this way because he is still friends with her even though she treated him ...

I cursed her out, we broke up, I want her back, but she's moved on.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

28 November 2013 (M) - I never felt this bad in my life. This is the first time I ever truly loved a girl and the first time I've been genuinely heartbroken. We broke up because I felt she was being cold to me, plus I had no job and I guess the sex wasn't great and I ...

Should I stop flirting and let my friend have him since she's been dying for her first bf for ages? Should I tell my friend I like him too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - I'm 17 and I have a crush on a boy 3 months my younger (I don't usually opt for youngers I think its weird). He's in the RAF and he's a very funny, mature and caring guy who makes me smile. The only problem is that one of my friends likes him too. ...

What do you do when the girl you love, loves someone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3794 days ago

24 November 2013 (M) - I am single,the old adage is I have really fancied this girl at work for so long, over a year in fact.We always have such a laugh, talk for ages we have so much in common it just feels right talking to her. I never did anything because she had a ...

Am I wrong, or is she just being childish?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3792 days ago

24 November 2013 (F) - Well ok me once again. There's this girl and me and her was pretty cool with each other, but we didn't really talk to each other, but we didn't have no problems either. Until one day I guess she got mad because I was talking to a dude she once lik...

Should I marry a girl I love and have had a five year on off relationship with but has cheated and lied to me in the past, but has now said she has changed, or should I stay with my new girlfriend of five months who I have a steady relationship with

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3795 days ago

24 November 2013 (M) - Hi guys, Anthony here, I am looking for some advice please as I ‘ve go myself into something of a dilemma! Should I marry a girl I love and have had a five year on off relationship with but has cheated and lied to me in the past, but has now said...

Is it acceptable for other girls to seek comfort from my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

23 November 2013 (F) - Is it appropriate for other girls to come to my boyfriend for comfort and advice? My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. Early on in the relationship, he told me he didn't have many female friends and didn't have much contact with girls ...

The guy who had a crush on me doesn't even want to be friends anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3796 days ago

23 November 2013 (?) - Okay so I'll tell my problem as a story just to make things easier. "Annie" was friends with "Wilbur" since freshman year of high school. Annie liked another guy named "Elias" who pretty much ruined her life Sophomore year by telling everyone...

Is there still a chance for us? Should I contact him again within a few months? Or should I just forget about him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3795 days ago

21 November 2013 (F) - I'll keep it short since our 'relationship' was short too. I met this guy at a party 3 weeks ago. We had an instant click and an amazing evening. He told me he came just out of a long relationship and was single for just 1 month. He's 23, i'm 26 ...

Does my B/f still miss his ex? How often do they talk? Was their relationship better than ours? Am I a rebound to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3798 days ago

21 November 2013 (F) - Dear cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months and we were friends/talking for 2 months before we got together. When him and I first met and were in the friends/talking kind of stage, he still had feelings for his ex and they talked ofte...

My ex and I are back together but he was dating another girl during our break and I wonder things like if he "loved" her and how serious they were

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3798 days ago

20 November 2013 (F) - so my ex and i have started to rekindle things a bit. we have been broken up for about 4 months and i know through friends that he had a brief girlfriend sometime during the time we were broken up. i cant help but think about that other relationship ...

I think she might be the one, but she's with someone else

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

14 November 2013 (M) - have i found the one? i`ve met this girl 2 months ago n in 2 months we grown to be good friends and i am developing feelings for her trouble is she is already in a relationship but she seems to like me n spends more time with me than she does her ...

Married 4 years and she's unreliable. Over-spends. She lies to me. what can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3804 days ago

14 November 2013 (M) - So my wife and I have been married for four years and during that time we have had out ups and downs. We both work fultime and make close to the same amount. But my wife is very lazy around the house. Despite the fact I work longer hours I a...

Two potential guys, both with issues -- what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3677 days ago

14 November 2013 (F) - I've never had a boyfriend before, nor has anyone ever asked me out or vice-versa. I don't really know how to deal with relationships at all. I'm caught in a terrible predicament at the moment. It started on Saturday when me and a couple of my fri...

The ex came back and he has changed.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3637 days ago

12 November 2013 (F) - Hello I need some help in my relationship! We have been together for 3 years and were engaged but things are going down heal. He has two kids with another women, his ex just got out of prison for drug charges and since she got out she has been ...

I like her and she likes me, but what about him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3806 days ago

12 November 2013 (M) - I really like my best friends ex and I know she likes me. They broke up 2 months ago but he is nowhere near being over her and to make things worse I live with him. I don't know what I should do...

He has this friend who really has a thing for him and who would like me out of the picture

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3806 days ago

11 November 2013 (F) - I've been seeing this guy I met online since July (about 5 months), very casually, on and off. I like him a lot, I enjoy being with him, and the sex is phenomenal. He's a bit of a commitment phobe and so am I, so neither of us is rushing toward a ...

I feel like I've done everything I can to get over him. What else can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3636 days ago

10 November 2013 (F) - I love someone I cant have and I don't know how I can get over him. I was with my boyfriend for 8 years. I started working in a new job last summer. There was a guy there who I immediately hit it off with. We had so much in common and we instantly...

My girlfriend is a liar, bad mouths me but would not let me go.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3809 days ago

10 November 2013 (F) - My girlfriend is nothing but a liar and i resent her for it. I recently noticed she had made our relationship status on Facebook hidden, to which i asked her why and for whose benefit, she became agressive with me because she knows she got ca...

How do I deal with retroactive jealousy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3808 days ago

10 November 2013 (F) - Hi there, this will be long but I'm in need of help and would appreciate the time and any advice you can offer. I'm 27 living in Los Angeles Cali, working at a video game company. I have suffered from retroactive jealousy since my ve...

Could he really be happy with his wife and act that way with another woman?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3809 days ago

9 November 2013 (F) - I am single and met a married man recently. We spent a lot of time together talking and the chemistry was intense. We both said some extremely suggestive things we probably shouldn't have. We both wanted to go home together but he couldn't do it as ...

Which man do I choose? Passion or security?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3809 days ago

8 November 2013 (F) - Hello! I have to make the biggest decision of my life and I need some advice! I love two very different guys that have different things to offer and I don’t know who to choose. With Guy # 1 I will be able to stay home with my future kids and be the ...

Should I worry about my boyfriend being friends with this cheater?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3810 days ago

5 November 2013 (F) - My boyfriend is friends with a girl who cheats on her boyfriend with a lot of guys. (she even admits it) I'm not trying to judge her but I feel uncomfortable with her being friends with my boyfriend. I've met her and have been around her. She ...

Who should I go for? My fiance William or my soul mate Andy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3813 days ago

4 November 2013 (F) - I am at a relationship crossroads. I met my college sweetheart "Andy" when I was 18. We were friends for a year, and then dated for 3 and had planned to marry someday. We had typical young love problems and broke up when we graduated. He went to ...

Is my husband picking up vibes between me and another man?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3814 days ago

3 November 2013 (F) - The other day, my husband and I got together with a couple for dinner. I know the couple well enough, and my husband was meeting them officially for the first time. To make a long story short, I have shared a "look" with the husband of this other ...

I'm attracted to a guy who isn't my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3817 days ago

2 November 2013 (F) - So, this is my first post and I could really do with some advice. I'm twenty years old and have been working in a busy office for about six months. I'm a very quiet and shy person and barely talked at first, I'm only just starting to feel comforta...

I still hold some resentment for what she did, one day after we broke up. How do I deal with these feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3817 days ago

2 November 2013 (M) - let me start out that i have been with my girlfriend for a little over a year now. i love her so incredibly much. However, something happened not long ago that is really getting in my head and i don't know how to deal with it. my girlfried alway...

My gf has a friend, and apparently they like each other. How should I react?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3818 days ago

1 November 2013 (M) - my gf and I are in a long distance relationship for a year and a half now. We love each other and so far we have been very happy together. she met a guy in university who has been talking to her and messaging her on fb. he has been asking her to h...