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Archived questions from: 10 February, 2011 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

Retroactive resentment?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4829 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - Is it normal that I feel "retroactive resentment"? I don't know how else to describe it. But back when I was with my ex, he did many hurtful things, but I forgave him every time because I was really in love and attached. We've been broken up for ...

Ex came back into my life but I don't want to hurt my new boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4829 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - I was with my first boyfriend for 4 years and during the last year we broke up. During that separation I met another guy. It’s only been 3 months and I think I am madly in love with him. My ex-boyfriend came back and he wants us to have a second ...

What are the odds my ex will want to come back to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - Super fast, speedy, short version: We broke up after a 2 year relationship. I always treated her well and loved her more than anything, but she felt we were becoming too "routine" despite how much I cared for her and thought we were growing apa...

Is there any way to salvage a friendship from this mess?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - Well, there is a much longer story, that I already explained earlier (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/her-family-situation-has-made-her-push-me.html) with lots of vital information, but I'll skip most of it: Basically, a longtime friend ended ...

I want her back, should I write a letter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - Hey guys, so was dating this girl for almost 2 years and she broke up with me. She never told me why though, but I could figure that out a little myself, we've always been fine but lately both of us were feeling depressed. And seeing as...

Tired of having sex on her terms. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - Here's my dilemma: I've moved in with my girlfriend of 14 months. She's had numerous (unknown number) lovers in the past, and she has been my first and only sexual partner. I DON'T want this to be a retroactive jealousy post, but what ...

If I have feelings for this girl, what do you suggest that I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - I posted on here a while ago saying how I was really struggling to forget my ex of around a year ago, and how I was really out of ideas on how to get over it because it was driving me crazy. Since then something has sparked in my mind and the pain ...

Will my ex come back to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I would really appreciate any answers and advice... My boyfriend broke up with me about 10 days ago. We were together for over 5 years. We are both 22 and had all of our firsts together. The reasons he broke up with me were that he ...

I have to appear in court because of my ex and his new woman! I seriously want to forget about him for life, but how do I go about doing that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - the last time I wrote on Cupid was in January. It was about my ex boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me the week before Halloween of 2010. When he had broke up with me he told me he wanted to be free, and just live life to the fullest with out any ...

Former boyfriend wants to be FWB but I want our relationship back

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - So. I broke up with my boyfriend nearly a month ago now. Our breakup didn't end with the passion leaving our relationship, he just doesn't want to be tied down to a single person anymore. We're still good friends and we talk every day. We also hav...

My past love who I'm obsessed with? Or my caring husband? Can you help me sort this out?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (?) - I have been married for almost 6 years to a wonderful, caring man who loves me very much. We have 5 kids (2 are from my previous marriage, 3 are ours). My husband and I got married after only 7 weeks and yes I know that is very soon but things have...

I've snapped. I can't stop obsessing with the girl I devoured.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - Can someone tell me what I need to do to become a monk. I can't cope. I want to stop watching another man love the girl who's heart I ripped out then taunted. I'll never find another girl like her. I'm driving myself crazy trying to figure out ways ...

The ex--will this all fade away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - Me nd my ex just brokw up a few weeks ago, but she still calls me in the middle of the night when she cant sleep, calls me baby, and stuff like that. Should I expect this to all fade away soon? Will she suddenly stop one day? I am fine with it right ...

I'm finally with my GF, but after fending off her vicious ex and a lot of drama in the past. How do I heal myself after all this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - Alright, here is a quick background of myself. I moved around a lot as a kid, (parents divorced when I was 6), learned all about marriages from the multiple ones my mother has been part of. I am an intellectual, a man of principle, and an ...