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Archived questions from: 7 July, 2008 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

(More questions from July, 2008)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

She gets text messages from an ex. I'm not comfortable wiht it. Should I feel this way?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

7 July 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years now. The whole time, she would get these random text messages from an unsaved phone number. It turns out it is a person (an X for lack of a better term) she had a fling with (before me), and found ...

My fiance was telling his ex how much he missed her just 2/3 weeks before we met. I can't shake the feeling he would go back to her.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

7 July 2008 (F) - I was going through my fiance's profile on another site, and saw that about 2 or 3 weeks before my fiance and i met, he was telling his ex how much he loved and missed her. And days before we started dating (after we had already told eachother that ...

Boyfriend is with ex and kids - I'm feeling fed up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

7 July 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, we live together and he splits custody of his kids(13 and 14) with his ex-wife. History: she left him for another(the gardner) and he wouldn't take her back when she realized her mistake. I've ...

I'm disillusioned and heartbroken, why can't I stop thinking about my troubled Ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

7 July 2008 (M) - It's been 7 days since I sent my ex girlfriend a letter saying we need to stop talking because her stories about how high and drunk she was or who she had sex with were upsetting me when we talked on the phone everyday. Since I couldn't help her I ...

My wife had an abortion before we met, now I don't want her.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 35 days ago

7 July 2008 (M) - How to address this situation. I have been married for 23 years and very happily. We have 2 boys and they are now adults. I received an email from a site that revealed someone looking of my wife of 23 years. It turns out that the person is an ex ...

I tend to get attached very easily - should I hold back or throw myself in there??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

7 July 2008 (F) - Hello all, 11 years ago when i was 16-17 i had a relationship with a bloke of 18-19. We were good friends before (i classed him as a best mate) but we had AMAZING and very adventurouse sex. i was going to uni so was unable to continue to see him....

I was scared of commitment, now I want him but I'm scared he is playing with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

7 July 2008 (F) - Theres this guy im into. Lets call him x. we started hooking up last year, but ended things because i was scared of commitment. then x started hooking up with lots of girls and being a huge player. recently i told him that i still have feelings for ...

She wanted to know from me if I wanted her to go away, or stay with me and wait for me. I don't know what to do!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

7 July 2008 (M) - I am totally confused and I am afraid I am going to make mistakes and we all know you get older not younger. At the end of the year, I had my heart torn out by a girl I was completely in love with and ready to marry. I was really hurt and wasn...

My Wife is Hurt Since I Saw My Ex Girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

7 July 2008 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 13 years and the past two years have really been bad. Long story short, I became involved with my ex girlfriend who came back into the picture for about 6 months. There was never anything physical other than the ...

My Ex is Ruining Things Between Us

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

7 July 2008 (M) - dear cupid, my story starts in 2002 i met what i thought would be my future wife, within six months we had moved in together and was happy when we planned a pregnancy and she gave birth to my little boy!! i was so happy but soon after sh...

How Do I React To Flowers From My Ex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

7 July 2008 (M) - Has anybody ever received flowers from an exboyfriend after you had broken up with them? Specifically, if you had only been seeing eachother for a couple of months... Did they send them to your work? What was your reaction? Just trying to sort out ...

How can I advise him what to do when it comes to his relationship with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

7 July 2008 (F) - well here is one for you. i am in my fourties and for best part of my life i have been in bossy abusive marriages been married twice first was very violent and the second well he was a control freak and he only hit me a few times and one head butt ...

How do I get my ex back as a friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

7 July 2008 (F) - it started 2 weeks ago when this boy i barely know asks me out it was i dare i said no. then last week this other boy asked me out and i said yes so the 1st boy came up to me and asked why i didn'y say yes to him then today he was asking me questi...

When I tell my husband I don't want to come 2nd in his life he tells me to "do what I want"! Am I overreacting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

7 July 2008 (F) - I married a man 1 month ago. Dated him for 2 years. He was separated from ex 5 years ago. They were married 22 years. He and ex won't talk unless it is a text or through their children. My question: Last week we went to Sam's Club. He offered ...

He doesn't want me to give up on him yet, but also said if his ex wanted him back he would consider it. So should I wait??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

7 July 2008 (F) - I have been dating a guy for a few months now. Things seem to be pretty great between the two of us. We get a long and a have a lot of the same interest and goals. I enjoy being with him more than I have anyone else I have dated. But, for him it is ...

I don't know whether to move forward without her or to keep trying.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 185 days ago

7 July 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm in a a quandary with an ex girlfriend and would appreciate some thoughts on what to do We went out for 18 months and had a great first year together, whilst we lived apart by 200 miles that never made a difference as we spoke daily and ...

What does my ex mean when he says to keep our relationship friendly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

7 July 2008 (F) - What does my ex mean? I cut off all communication with my ex seven months ago by changing my phone number and telling me to never contact me again. He still emails me once in a while but I have never responded. I broke up with him because he was ...

I want my ex back, but she says I 'scare' her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

7 July 2008 (M) - Its been a year and a half since i split up with my ex who im still in love with. I realised i couldnt be without her and tried to get her back but she was very confused and possibly shocked at my revelation. she text me the next morning to reveal t...