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anonymous
writes:My ex,, i still like him loads,, but it was a complicated relationship before all because of the lies my uncle was telling my mam when he didnt even know the boy i was going with,, he never knew his name or out but my uncle was telling my mam that my boyfriend was 18 when he isnt he has just turned 16,, when my uncle told my mam that she dissaproved of me going out with him but i tried to tell her my uncle was lying but nothing changed so sooner or later i finished him but i still really like him and i want to get back with him. i need help on what i should say to my mam on how to get her to let me get back with him? xx thanks whoever helps me :) Reply to this Question |
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reader, sunnycomet  + ♥, writes (10 November 2009):
 I'm so glad it worked out for you! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for helping iv done what yous have said and it worked :)
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reader, quiet-echo + ♥, writes (6 October 2009):
 You didn't tell us your mum forbade you. Just that she disapproved.
Tell her what you told us, EXCEPT do not say your uncle 'lied' (even if you think he did). Just say he's mistaken. Saying he lied creates sides and forces your mum to choose. She is more likely to believe an older relative who appears to have your interest at heart and nothing to gain by lying than a young girl who'll say anything to be allowed to see a boy who may not be good for her. THAT is how your mum will see it.
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reader, xnickx  + ♥, writes (6 October 2009):
 Tell your mam this. Explain it basically the same way you said it here. If she doesnt believe you, then have her talk to him, or surely one of your friends or his friends could vouch for him.This is a tough spot, but i wish you the best of luck =)Nick
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2009): You can't just repost your question because you don't like the answers you got the first time...
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reader, sunnycomet + ♥, writes (5 October 2009):
Do you know how your ex feels about you? Talk to him to see if he is wants to get back together with you. If he doesn't want to then you will have to move on. Now about your mom, can you give her proof that he is 16? Some form of ID or get his parents to confirm it with your mom. Also your uncle, if he is lying you need to confront him about this and let the whole family know. This shouldn't be accepted. Good Luck!
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