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writes:Basically last Saturday I slept with a guy. I really cannot remember anything of what happened but i do know we slept together 3 times that night. I have no clue also but i think it was definately unprotected sex, i do not really know the guy and so was to embaressed to ask him. Anyway then on the Monday i came on my period which i was happy about.Then on the Friday i slept with his mate. He used a condom but it split and i dont know if his sperm went in me but it was all over the bed?I took no morning after pill and i am also not on the morning after pill.What i'm wondering is what are my chances of being pregnant?And also could i take a pregnancy test now for the first guy as i came on my period on the Monday?Also if i was to find out i was pregnant, is there any way i would be able to work out who the father is?Thankyou.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (9 February 2009):
 Annieapple is right, you wont be able to tell if you are pregnant until your next period as it is too early to tell for the second guy.
With regards to the first guy, you had your period which means you cannot be pregnant from him. However what you definately need to do is get to the doctors and fast for an STD test, god knows what these guys could have given you, especially if you had unprotected sex three times with the first guy.
I would also recommend that if you are having regular sex and want to continue with this in the future then you start looking after yourself a bit more! Take the contraceptive pill (you cannot take the morning after pill as a form of contraception it is only to be used in emergencies when you have had unprotected sex). The doctor will be able to prescribe you with the pill so you wont have any chance of getting pregnant in future until you decide to stop taking it.
If you are worried about forgetting to take the pill, then you can get a contraceptive injection once every 3 months at the doctors which works in the same way as the pill.
So please, start using two forms of contraception; the first being the birth control pill and the second condoms! Carry one in your handbag at all times if you think you may end up having sex after a night out - STD's can have all sorts of horrible effects; from infertility to even getting HIV and this will kill you. You are putting your life at risk with your behaviour.
You are too young to be getting pregnant or life threatening diseases - enjoy being young but be careful too. One other word of warning; having a high number of sexual partners from an early age (i.e. before 18/20) significantly increases your chance of getting cervical cancer. Look at Jade Goody - she has this type of cancer and she has had a large number of sexual partners. It doesnt take a genius to put two and two together. Dont put yourself at risk of getting something as serious as cancer or HIV.
Good luck and be safe - you only get one life so dont take any chances with it!
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reader, Annieapple +, writes (9 February 2009):
As it was so soon after your period came on the chances are that you are not pregnant. You won't be able to take a test until your next period is due as any pregnancy won't shpw up. You can have an IUD fitted up to 5 days after unprotected sex, is that an option for you? Also even if you are not pregnant you should get tested for STIs.
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