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writes:Alright i have a few questions.... i have liked this girl for a few years now and we have just been good friends. we have alot in common, and i have the sence that she likes me to. she is always giving me random hugs and what not. so i think its time to ask her out and quit waiting. to tell you the truth i am scared to ask her out so how shoul i go about this.Question#2 Even though i like this girl alot and really want to be with her more that i can explain. I dont want to end up breaking up and losing her as a friend. cus as friends we go together like a PB and J. we both love racing and muscle cars. we both hunt. we both love poker and pool. you name it we both like it. and this is why i am attracted to her. but i dont want to lose her. what would you suggest?
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reader, miss jane  +, writes (9 February 2009):
DO IT if you dont you'll regret it you've only got one life you might as well live it. and if you break up you might still be m8s my ex is one of my best m8s and we're even closer now than before we went out. and a friendship is one of the best places to start a relationship coz you already know you like her and you can talk to her and its not awkard
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2009): Make a move or you'll regret it! Even if it does not work out you can still be friends afterwords. One of my boyfriends best friends is his ex-gf! Don't assume the worst hon. Assume the best. Don't miss out on a great thing just because you're afraid to take a chance. She sounds lovely and you already have a great friendship in place which is so important. Being best friends with your gf/bf is so important.
In short- Ask her out!
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reader, brokenandconfused +, writes (9 February 2009):
 i say ask her and see how she feels about a relationship first. if you talk to her and tell her how your friendship matters to you then she won't let a break up tear you two apart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2009): SHE IS WAITING FOR YOU TO MAKE THE FIRST MOVEThe longer you leave it, the more inclined she is to think of you as "just" a friend.
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