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writes:i have been talkin to this guy for almost two months but we arent datin or bf or gf or anything bc we both just got out of long relationships and are scared to get close to someone else. well weve had sex a couple times and i missed a couple bc this past month and now im late on my period and dont know how totell him.what do i do??
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reader, bettynotsweaty  +, writes (22 February 2009):
take the test.
sort out in your mind first what you would do if you are pregnant (and i mean you own mind).
then, let him know, (when i did this to my boyfriend (thank god, false alarm!) i think i just came right out and said it while we were walking home).
give him time to sort his own head out, and then ask what he wants to do (that part is only relevant if you want to keep the baby).
do not put up with any nonsense from him, but be supportive, cos if you are in this situation, you will be terrified too.
you could also try skywriting, but i hear thats expensive.
also sort out your contraception - if you are going to forget/miss things, get something you cant forget from your doctor.
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reader, MissKin +, writes (21 February 2009):
 Find out if you are pregnant first - don't tell him anything until you know for sure.
And if you're pregnant, just tell him. Old enough to have casual sex, old enough to deal with the consequences.
Best of luck. x
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reader, ButterflyKisses +, writes (21 February 2009):
I would recommend taking a pregnancy test before you create unnecssary strife between you and this guy.
Good luck. I hope everything works out for you.
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