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writes:I'm 16, and theres this girl i've known for about a year and really really really like her. We are good friends and she considers me to be one of her best friends, but she drives me crazy. Like a couple of weeks ago we were at a party and both got drunk but by the end of the night she was practically sober and invited me into her tent. She wanted me to lye next to her and she was wrapping her legs around me and stroking my stomach and face and kissing my neck. I was still kind of drunk so i went along with it and didn't point out what she was doing. but the next day she barely spoke to me, and when she did she was talking about her bf who she loves and how she missed him. Of course this killed me inside but i just smiled and went along with what she was saying. Now i keep thinking about that night and have these foolish thoughts that perhaps it means she might kind of like me more than a friend, but then she will talk about her bf or this other guy that she likes and any thoughts i have just get blown away because i know nothing could ever happen between us. I've tried getting over her but i just like/love her so much that i can't do that and it just kills me to know that these feelings i have for her will always be locked up and never acted upon. What should i do to make the pain stop?
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reader, MinionServatis  +, writes (21 February 2009):
 You know what she needs to know her truth, you said that she was practically sober, and you were somewhat drunk, so she did the wrong, you were just buzzed, so you went along, so that means that she is not speaking to you because she feels guilty about what she did.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2009): ohh... maybe you should talk to her about it, avoiding it won't make it go away. trust me, i should know
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