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I don't think marrying someone I can't have sex with is a smart choice... do you?

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Question - (29 April 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 April 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

okay so i was confused and was with a guy for a year and 2 months..still had feelings for my ex..and i felt bad..everything was just wrong so like i was saying before here i was confused didnt know who to be with..now i broke up with my bf and my ex is like w/e and im crying cuz i miss my bf? what is going on with me? when im with my bf i think about my ex and wen i was with my ex i didnt want to do anything because i felt bad for my bf,,,so i left my bf and now is like i miss my boyfriend..i thought i wanted to be with my exx but he is being an ass and i miss my boyfriend/...i really dont know what is going on.. the reason why i broke up with my bf was because i was thinkin bout my exx, sex was bad, and i didnt want to hurt him..he wants to marry me but i dont think marrying someone i cant have sex with is a smart choice..but now is like i cant live wihtout him what should i do??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009):

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i was having sex issues with my boyfriend..and i still had feelings for my ex..when i wrote this here alot of you guys suggested to break up with my boyfriend and go back to my ex because i love him and the sex was great..i love my bf 2 but the sex was gettin us farther apart..so i broke up with my bf because i didnt want to hurt him anymore...now im "single" but i miss my bf and i want him back..i want him back but i cant picture myself being intimate with him because he just doesnt do it for me..what should i do?

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A female reader, niki20 United States +, writes (29 April 2009):

niki20 agony auntsex can be enhanced. can be made better. talk to him. forget your ex hes an ex for a reason.go back to your man tell him the sex doesnt satisfy you and you would like to do more things and expieriment w new things.

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A female reader, sexseahot United States +, writes (29 April 2009):

sexseahot agony auntSex shouldn't be everything in a relationship. If he isn't good at it, teach him a little something then. But you really need to make up your mind. If you keep thinking about your ex with your bf and keep breaking up with him because of the other guy and trying to come back, he's not going to be there much longer for you to keep going back to. Maybe take some time to yourself and figure out who you really want before you keep bouncing back and forth between them. Before long, you won't have either of them. Don't keep going back to your boyfriend because your ex is being an "ass" and then go back to the ex when he's being nice again. That's not how relationships last.

Good Luck and seriously take some time away from both of them and decide which one you really can't live without.

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