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writes:okay here's the story. my girlfriend and i went out for about 2 years. were both 15. and we broke up 2 or 3 weeks ago idk because she has to many bad habits smoking,drinkin, and always flirting with her ex. yeah she may seem like a bad girlfriend but we had our moments a lot. and im goin out with someone else now and everyone says shes just "the rebound girl". i really have feelings for her but im not in love with her. do you think shes just the rebound girl? or can this really develope into something big? i really dont know. im confused about all this. ik i like her but idk. help anyone.
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reader, Mr Me +, writes (30 April 2009):
 It's potential that she is the rebound girl, to be honest. However, DO NOT LET THIS GET TO YOU!!! The best thing you can do in a relationship is determine if the person is right for you or not. This means to determine if their habits and ways and beliefs are good for you.
Yes, you should definitely listen to friends and family. If they tell you someone (girlfriend or not) is bad for x reason, listen and try to see that reason for yourself. However, if the only thing they are telling you is that because she is the "rebound" girl, then that's just ridiculous!!! They, and probably even you, have no idea what you two can develop into.
If you have feelings for her, then that's all you need to keep exploring how you feel about her. You may love her once you get over your previous relationship (which it sounds like you haven't yet).
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