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*hhsnapp
writes:Okay, hello.So, Me (a girl) and this guy have been best friends for maybe about 2 going on 3 years now and we just started high school together and got even closer. So, we have been hanging out a lot now. And my other friends would always say things like "ohh, you guys look so cute together" and give us compliments like that but we would just be like whatever about it. and come to think of it He does alot for me. We used to tell each toher who we liked and all that stuff But now i think im actually starting to like him!! And i get really jealous when he tells me about these other girls now. I dont know if i should tell him becuase i dont want to ruin our friendship but then again i do want to tell him and see where this goes!! Sometimes i get the feeling he does like me but im not sure! What should i do???? help me please?!?!
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reader, ohhsnapp +, writes (30 April 2009):
ohhsnapp is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you guys for your help!
I'll take everything you said into consideration!
And Just so you know, ill wait till I'm married to have sex. That's for suree!
But Thanks again!
you guys really helped :]
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reader, Blondie_x  +, writes (29 April 2009):
God this is a very awkward position 2 be in hun! Well. I was in the exact same position when I was 14, I adored my best friend we were so close, and whenever he commented on a celeb or anything I would get so jealous! So anyway I ended up kissing him and then we got 2gether, it lasted a few months but then we hated each other for a short period of time. It can go either way! You could loose your best friend. But your not me it could be different for you! I would say keep it how it is for the time being. Plan what u are going to say wisely. Maybe u could just say something like 'we have been so close for ages now, we might as well be a couple!' well maybe not that but something like that n u can giggle when u say it, and then u will find out how he feels. The thing is friendships are better than relationships, reason being friends dont argue. I dont really know what u can do, but i hope this helps! x
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reader, niki20 +, writes (29 April 2009):
 your bff is the best person to date, eventually you will marry and the guy you do will be your bff. this guy knows you "inside out" i think you should tell him, it couldnt hurt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009): I've had this problem before hun.
If you are really best friends with him, then you should have nothing to worry about, go and confront him about it, but do it in a subtle way. Do it when you talk about who each other likes and stuff.
If he does say no, you guys seem to be such good friends that it shouldn't hinder your friendship at all. Maybe initially things might be a little awkward but after a while things should be back to normal.
Good luck!
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