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Archived questions from: 23 October, 2008 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

It feels as if we're in a relationship... but we're not! We broke up.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - Where do i begin.? I'm 17 and me and my boyfriend split up about 7 months ago, and it took me soo long to get over him but with the help of my best male mate i did it. BUT ive got a problem, i think im falling for him. Hes 19 lives with his dad an...

Are we meant to be together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - I've been "with" my guy for 3 years now. In that time we spent a year "broken-up" but we were together anyways just not officialy you know becuase we wanted to resolve our issues etc. before we went any further now that we are back together it's ...

Who should I choose... my best friend or my crush?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

23 October 2008 (?) - Yesterday my personal life hit a little snag. I've had a best friend named 'Brian' and crush named 'Nick' for a long time. Well, Brian told me yesterday that he's been in love with me for the past three years and then Nick came up and told me he's ...

How can I tell him I'm crazy about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - I've liked this guy for 4 years now and it basically started like he would throw stuff at me and call me names and he'd act like he hated me and now when I see him he doesn't say a word to me. I asked him two summers ago if he liked me and he said ...

I'm friends with a guy that I adore...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - I'm friends with this guy I adore. His friends say that he likes me but is too shy but his friends constantly hit on me and one even grabbed my behind! Last week they tried to get him to talk to me but he wouldn't I'm wondering if he really likes ...

DON'T SECOND GUESS YOURSELF...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - Many years ago Indian braves would go away in solitude to prepare for manhood. One hiked into a beautiful valley, green with trees and bright with flowers. There as he looked up at the surrounding mountains, he noticed a rugged peak capped with ...

How can I prevent us from arguing all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for approximately 20 months now. We were so happy the first year, but then he starts talking a lot to a girl, one of my good friends, and he says that he thinks she's pretty and sweet and nice. I got jalouse and ...

This guy kissed me (I'm male) and more has happened since!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

23 October 2008 (M) - Me and 5 other mates went to South Africa for a holiday which we said that we had been planning and talking about for nearly 3 years. 1 of the guys who came with us was openly gay. He wasn't camp or anything like that lol. The group, myself ...

I'm terrified of losing my virginity.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for just over a year, and everything is going so well. It couldn't be going better except for one thing; I'm a virgin and am still scared of losing my virginity. My boyfriend has been so understanding, and we ...

Can one person bully you, or is it only when a group gangs up on you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - What is bullying, i'm not sure if i'm being bullied or not. Is it when a group gang up on you, or can it be just one person?...

I am feeling depressed because I want someone to love me.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - I wouldn't say I'm fully co-dependent because I don't have to have a boyfriend 24/7. I know I'm young but I really need help. I'm on depression pills, but I haven't taken them yet today and I just feel pathetic. I don't understand why none of the ...

My friends and my boyfriend hate each other.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - Hi Guys, I'm in a sort of sticky situation. I love my boyfriend to bits and I love my friends too. But the problem is - they hate eachother. When I first started going out with him, my friends made fun of us and kept on saying nasty things abo...

I love him, but hate him also. Is he just playing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - There's this boy and ever since i was 13 we have been seeing eachother on and off and now i am 16 i have finally decided to end it full stop..we stopped all contact! He then started seeing this other girl, leah, for a few months. i bumped into him ...

Here are a few new signs hes giving out. Do you think he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - Hey! I posted about this situation a while back: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-tell-him-and-risk-our-friendship.html Things have actually progressed recently, i'd like to know if any of these signals mean that he really likes me!...

My parents arent supporting my decision to have this baby

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - please help me! im 15 and i am 38 weeks pregnant. my parents arn't supporting me at all and they are threatening to throw me out once the baby is born unless i have an abortion. my boyfriend died just after i became pregnant as he got ran over so ...

How do I get over being afraid of a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - I'm 16. It's been 3 years since my last relationship.I think I'm afraid of being in a relationship. How do I get over it? =\...

I am so sick of being the only single one in the group!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - I'm so fed up of being alone. Every single one of my mates are either in a relationship or have been in one. I feel so left out of it, yet I just can't find anyone who is interested in me. I know I'm only young, and I'm not asking for some to marry, ...

I think I'll let him use me for sex as I like him so much.

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - I've known this guy now for about a year, we met at a friend's birthday party and I fancied the pants off of him! He told me he liked me too, we ended up kissing, dancing etc.. but we didn't see each other again until June, she had another party and ...

He took my virginity but he'd already slept with 7 other girls!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - Dear cupids. My boyfriend lied to me for 8 months about being a virgin, but then after he took my virginity he confessed to previousy sleeping with 7 girls!! He told me he didn't want to hurt my feelings, which he did twice as much by lying! W...

He used to have chlamydia but he says it's gone now.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - This might sound like a daft question but does chlamydia come and go? I know he HAD it, but he said he doesn't now :s does it just go? or does he still have it?? He wants me to sleep with him but I'm really unsure about him although I do like him, ...

Is this a healthy 'friendship'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

23 October 2008 (?) - when i was in the 5th gd. i had a crush on my twenty three year old coach. well, i'm naturally a flirty person so of course i flirted w/him. well, we spent a lot of time alone together because he gave me rides home everyday because we were ...

My 60 year old teacher crush that I can't get over, someone please help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - I've had this problem for a very long time, and I've tried asking for advice from many people, but no one has cheered me up about this. When I was in 7th grade, I somehow developed a crush on my PE teacher, even though he had white hair, wrinkles...

How do I ask him to hang out without it being awkward?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - Ok long story but I'll try make it short and please dont judge. Last year I performed oral on a guy, let's call him Bob because I really liked him, but he only wanted sex, so I said no and he stopped talking to me. A week later, foolishly I got ...

How can I prove to her that she is the one and only?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

23 October 2008 (M) - Okay me and my girlfriend love each other very very much. And I know for sure that this is true love and not a high school crush. I am currently 14 and my girlfriend is the same age. We have been going out for 6 months. When we first got together ...

During sex, should I put up with the pain to please him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - I'm a 16 year old girl and i recently lost my virginity to my 17 year old bf of 3 years. My problem is that i enjoyed my 1st time (and the other time after that) but i'm very tight so i experience a lot of pain during and after it. My bf luvs that ...

Scared to ask him out because we hang in different cliques at school. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

23 October 2008 (?) - my problem is that i'm very much in like with this guy who is kind of an..well, actually the only word you can probably use to describe him is, well, asshole. But i think that he is a very sweet person... deep down inside. But the thing is i'm kind ...

He's well endowed..how can I handle him comfortably in regards to oral sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - my problem is that my fiance and i recently started to get intimate. yes, he is well endowed,but ive learned to handle that. what i havent learned to handle is giving him fellatio. he is often aggressive,and sometimes tries to deep-throat me and ...

It was just a kiss with this other guy! Should I tell my bf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - hey i am dating this sophmore and i am a freshman. we went out once before but for only a few days. a month later we are back on again. i do like him and i know he isn't with me to get in my pants. but i do like somebody else who is a sophmore. this ...

Can't tell what the 'status' is between me and him! What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - hey im a freshman and me and this sophmore have been talking for over 5 months now. we have talked about dating each other and how we both like each other but once school started in august he started dating this other girl. they are broken up now ...