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Archived questions from: 18 October, 2008 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

About Puberty and stuff..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

18 October 2008 (M) - I'm a 14 year old male going through puberty and have some questions... I have attempted to masturbate but nothing comes out, I guess I would say... Is that ok? I have some hair under my armpits and other places I shall not name and I was ...

Broke up with my boyfriend for this other guy... now he doesn't want to know!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - I don't know where else to turn. I was with a guy for a year and 7 months. I'm 17. Hes 25. meaning I got with him when I was just gone 16. I believed I was mature enough to handle him, his daughter, and all his baggage. He cheated on me several...

Tips on how to flirt please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

18 October 2008 (M) - Hi im 16 and i want to know how to flirt? because i get really nervous when approaching women and dont know what to do and say....

Can "dry sex" make you pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

18 October 2008 (M) - Hey my girlfriend and i recently had "dry sex", i never came and was dry(ish) she is due for her period, but 30 min (ish) ago she was complaining of pains in her abdomen. Could this be pregnancy or is this normal, thank you ...

Straight... or gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

18 October 2008 (M) - I absolutely love women, and men i think. i want to have the greatest sex but i dont know which gives the better sex. i know that men turn me on more than women, and that is simply because men have better bodies when they work out. i want a n...

I feel as if I don't get a lot of his attention any more...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - This is kinda long, but I feel as though I need to explain. I have been with my boyfriend since december 2007. He is now 24, I am now 19. We became really close really fast. Everything has always been great. My dad loves him, my mom loves him, his ...

Does she still love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

18 October 2008 (M) - Does she still love me? Me and my ex girlfriend have only just recently split up, i love her with all my heart, we were best friends before and still are, we went on a break just before we split up. she used to treat me really well at the begi...

I've had offers to be with other guys but I want to stay with him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5670 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - I've been with this guy for over 2 months now and we got on so well at the very start and we have told each other that we love each other. I dont no if i do love him because i have never felt love with a man before but it feels real. He is 25 and i ...

I shouldn't need to justify myself to my parents all the time!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - hello everyone... i kinda need some help about my parents... so here goes... last year i stayed out for my first year at university... i was based in uni halls and loved it so much... i did what i wanted came home when i wanted to and everything was ...

Are they jealous that I was getting all the attention or was I really behaving slutty?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - I went to this party with my girlfriends. There were about 5 guys there that I used to be friends with and havent seen in a long time. I said hi and started drinking and dancing with them, while they were hugging me and flirting with me but I ...

I'm not sure I want to be a doctor because the guy I fancy does so, or because I really want to?...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - I have wanted to become a doctor for a while now but i never really decided if i could really be one. For the past year i decided to become a doctor. but i think the reason that i want to be one is because the guy i love is going to be a doctor( ...

Am I wrong to be so calculating about losing my virginity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - Hi I am 16 and literally the only person I know and am on a level with that hasn't lost their virginity. I dont think this bothers me too much as i DONT usually conform to peer pressure. However I am ready and do want to lose my virginity. The thin...

Is my 'gay' best friend falling for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5546 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - My best friend acts gay, so I didn't care when he hugged or snuggled quite intimately with me because I didn't believe he could have been attracted to me. However, he just told me that he's straight, and has hinted several times about making out. ...

Why hasn't he told everyone my real age?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 16. His mother's side of the family know I am 14 but his dad's side think I am 15. The two families don't talk. He has recently started a new job, and goes to collage once a week. He has told all of his new friends that I ...

Deep down I think she really IS the one...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

18 October 2008 (M) - Hi Guys and Gals, I really need some advice. Me and my longterm gf of 3 years broke up just over a month ago, we havent spoken or seen each other since the break up. Today i get a txt from her saying she has some of my belogings and i have some ...

Best friend or my ex???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - I'm 15 and I've got a bit of a problem. Earlier this year I had sex with my boyfriend. We only did it once and I broke up with him shortly after because I felt that the relationship was developing way too soon and he didn't want to slow things down. ...

We were experimenting... could she be pregnant?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

18 October 2008 (M) - Hi, me and by girlfriend were experimenting the other day. She was wearing shorts and her pants and I had my penis our rubbing against her (on top of her shorts). I didn't cum, and there was hardly any pre-ejaculation cum (was practically dry). ...

Is there any way of putting an end to this relapse of depression?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - Hey, For the last 2 years I suffered a lot of depression. But this year, I got over it as soon as I got a boyfriend, OB, who is absolutely lovely. But the thing is now, I'm having a relapse coz two of my supposed best friends, SM and AG, are bein...

Is she still a virgin if the penetration didn't succeed? Is it normal that we noticed blood later?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

18 October 2008 (M) - i tried to penetrate my gf but it was too tight and couldn't get in so we couldnt have sex. no blood came out right away but she was saying that she feels a little burning in her vagina. 2 hours later she showed me little bit of blood on her und...

He's giving me mixed signals... What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - I have a crush on a guy, but I can't be sure if he likes me or not. Sometimes he is really sweet, he's teasing me a lot, he smiles and sometimes it seems like he doesn't care. I'm really confused and I have to do something to understand if he likes ...

I am scared of sex!!!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - I am actually 13 and one of my friends has been having sex (or so she says she does) and I was thinking maybe I should but I'm scared and my parents are overprotective -- not toooo much but I want to, now will I be a virgin forever if I'm scared to ...

I can't get my boyfriend turned on... Guys opinions wanted!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend just doesn't get turned on! He won't get hard EVER. I do so many things. I spent over $100 on two little outfits to make him happy cuz he said he liked those but it didn't work very well. It's so frustrating and I don't know what to do. ...

My boyfriend likes his female friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - Me and my bf have been going out for a year and a bit more.. but recently.. he's had something going on (not cheating)his uni friend.. he likes her, like next potential gf. a few weeks before today he was suddenly cold to me.. from a buildup o...

My friend gave this guy my number but denies it when I asked.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - Yesterday I got a call by a guy I don't know. He said he was giving a good friend of mine shit for not being a virgin and my friend said 'I screwed this chick!' and gave a bunch of boy's my number. My friend denies it but then how did they get my ...

My boyfriend is allergic to condoms and our sex life is somewhat confusing to me...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend dont use condoms but are very careful on what we do. he doesnt use them as he is alleric to the lube on them. the thing is, we could be haveing sex, and all of a sudden he would stop, and then about 30 seconds later, he ...

My boyfriend is suspicious about my friendship with his friend, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - Recently, me and my boyfriends best friend has been texting, nothing about love or anything like that, just harmless chatting, we have become best friends and other people think we are cheating. My boyfriend has found out and is cross with the ...

Could it be true that he slept with the ex? I don't know what to believe after reading her text.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - I was out last night with my boyfriend, and I knew that his ex girlfriend was hassling him by sending texts and calling him a lot. She sent him one last night whilst I was there and I happened to read it. He'd previously sent her a text telling ...

Underage sex with someone who is under aged too and I could be pregnant. Please HELP!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - My next door neighbor is 14 years old and he and I have been dating for about 6 months. He used to just finger me but, a month ago I lost my virginity to him. We have sex early everyday cos both our parents aren't home when we get home from school, ...

I feel it's my turn to be happy after being nice and generous to all people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

18 October 2008 (M) - Hey you gus it's lotmoney13!!!! i'm not sure if this'll be my final or not question. everyone who reads my questions knows i'm in love with a straight guy and i can't tell him how i feel just yet. i just wanted to say that i've been so generous and ...

Why do I feel the need to be a mother at only 17? I'm aware of all implications of teenage pregnancy!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - Since I was a little girl i've been very motherly, I take care of everbody and I developed my period among other things quite early (10 ish) My dilemma is that lately I have been wanting to get pregnant. I'm aware this isn't normal considering i'm ...

Young love! On and off around other people, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

18 October 2008 (M) - Mkay, if this helps... I'm 14 years old, haha. Alright, so I have liked this girl for a little over a year and we so has she..... We've gotten pretty serious this month, and whenever I get a chance to talk to her, I do so. The main problem is ...

How can I get her away from these abusive dates of hers? I really do care for her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

18 October 2008 (M) - i have a problem with a girl i want to date. it seems that she wont even notice me. im nice to her, ive even asked her out once. i have listened to her problems but she keeps on going out with total dirtbags. she's abused in these relations - both...

....and that's the kinda relationship I want with an elder brother.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - I am getting a step brother and one of my friends had this problem, and I'm afraid it will happen to me: is it possible or likely that I will fall for my new step brother?It's been eating at me, and I just want to clear it up. I saw 'Life with ...

My masturbation addiction is affecting my life!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2376 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - I have just turned 18 and have had this habit since I was 3 years old, though it only got to be a problem around the age of 7. Usually when sitting at a desk, on a sofa or lying in bed reading, I have a habit of crossing my legs and squeezing my ...

I don't want to have sex for a while, but he gets angry and says I don't love him!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 7 months and were so in love with each other. im 14 and he is 15. Now dont judge me or think im a slut cause i really didnt mean to or want to do it. But we had sex and i almost got pregnant. My mom found ou...

I am wondering what this is doing to my body?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

18 October 2008 (?) - Hey, I was just wondering what this is doing to my body. At the moment I am eating nothing all week apart from on Fridays when I have a binge. After this binge I am sick but I only make myself sick three times after each binge, no more and no less....

Best mate's father... and me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - I don't know what I should do as I'm in an awkward postion here.. I am actually in love wih my best friend's father, and I know he feels the exact same way. We always talk to each other about our feelings but how we can't do much being around my ...

I'm now pregnant by someone else and fear I'll never get him back now...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - This guy broke my heart a year ago and since that day I just cant stop thinking about him. I want to see him everywhere I go, I want to have him back. However I got pregnant with another guys boy who just doesn't care at all and in my mind tha...