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Archived questions from: 21 October, 2008 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Is he playing this game because he's wondering if I like him? Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Hey there! This last Saturday, I went to Homecoming with three of my girlfriends - all of us dateless - and kind of "bumped" into this guy that I sit next to in Spanish class. During class, he usually will tease me a bit, or at least start small ...

Could I be prosecuted for this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - I got in a relationship at the beginning of this year after we had been dating we started to do sexual things to each other a month later I myself turned 16 but we didn't stop our sex life. A couple of days ago we fell out and my partner's parent...

My boyfriend acts like my friend, but that's it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (?) - I really need help! I have been going out with my boyfriend for just over a month, and I thought it was going really well. He always texts me, telling me that he loves me, and when he texts me he says the sweetest things. But then I suddenly ...

I'm not allowed hugs from my friends yet my boyfriend is???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - This is just about my boyfriend. He flirts and slaps other girls bum's, and hugs them and expects me to be fine with it, but then when it comes to me always hugging other people he gets really jealous and comes up and pulls me away and starts ...

I feel turned on by my uncle!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Okay, this is so gonna sound weird and a little sick, but if anyone has some advice I would appreciate you send me a message back. Me and my uncle have been close since I was a baby. I'm turning 17 and he is turning 40 this year. Since I was 14 h...

Why don't my parents like me...?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I'm 13 and the youngest in my family. Sometimes I feel forgotten or like my parents don't really care about me. Throughout my childhood I've always felt different and like I don't really belong. My parents get mad at me easily. I remember when I ...

How do I tell my dad I HATE the kickboxing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - This is a really stupid question sorry :( But I have joined a kickboxing class and I really don't like it. You have to do 40 press ups not stop, and 100 situps and countless other things. This is hard with d cup boobs ! But my dad really like...

Strange vagina!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I am a teen and I have had my fair share of boys, I have messed around like kissing etc and I'll do anything to him but as soon as he goes to touch me I hesitate and tell him to stop. There is a reason for this, I believe I have a weird vagina. ...

Now he won't go out with her and wants to date me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Something happened today which is totally going to ruin my last year at school! My best friend swept me away from everyone else to ask me advice about he and this girl. I'm very protective of him but have decided, despite feeling a little jealous...

I'm still tormented after being sexually abused as a child 7 years ago...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - As a child I was sexually abused. It started from the age of 12 I think and what happened to me as a child has most definitely affected me as an adult. I find it difficult to make friends and find it hard to talk to people. I don't really know if ...

Why is my boyfriend's mate saying he loves me???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Hey, I need help. I have been dating my recent boyfriend for 11 months and am very happy with him, however recently we had a stupid argument and split up for a couple of days. During those couple of days one of his best mates started texting ...

Should I date him to find out if I like him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I am 19 and a thirty year old graduate student at my school went with me to the movies. I wasn't sure it was a date but he paid and kissed me on the cheek afterwards. He acted like a perfect gentleman and suggested another movie we could see and ...

Can I get pregnant by doing this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - ok, so my boyfriend and i still havent had sex, and we have been together for a year and six months. well, we now have made some moves. like dry humping. i keep my pants on (which are sweats) and he pulls out his dick, so he can feel it b...

Could he get in trouble for dating me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (?) - hi. um, my problem is that i really like this guy who lives next door to me. well that part's not the problem. the problem is that i am only turning fifteen this saturday and that he is turning eighteen in three months. i have no idea what to do, ...

Is there any way of telling when you are truly in love?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Hey This is just a quick question but it is one i have been wondering about for quite a while now. Is there anyway of telling when you are truly in love ? Thanks x...

Is she playing with me or could she really like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - hello all, there is a girl which i know in my school for a week. first we made eye contact and laughed so i walked to her and talked and i knew her just her name cuz she was in hurry to go in bus. then next time i walked to her but she ma...

Now that I've let him go, will he come back to me after we spend some time apart?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

21 October 2008 (?) - hello everyone, ive been having trouble dealing with my recent breakup. two months ago my ex broke up with me out of the blue because he said he felf 'disconnected' from me and that the distance between us was too much (im going to a university in ...

Why do I get pain when he thrusts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i have had sex for about 7 months now. Recently, when he thrusts, it hurts my stomace so bad around my right hand side, and i mean really bad, but the pain does'nt last, it goes straight away but i get in so much pain. Any ideas wh...

Possessive boyfriend that makes no sense!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have recently broken up but he seems to be really possesive over me. He always checks my texts and my phone call list to see who i've been talking to. When im out he'll call me up to see who im with and where i am. One day he'l...

Am I taking the right course of action with this girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - I am uncertain whether or not I have been taking the right course of action with the girl I think I am attracted to in uni at the moment. Firstly, I have known her only a month now, and I am not yet suree how much I do like her, so I am being ca...

Any ideas on how to handle my self centered girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (?) - A lot of my friends (mainly my female friends) hate my girlfriend because shes too self center (she is working on it and trying to be nicer to everyone). My female friends can be really mean maybe even almost disrespectful to her. They even star...

Any ideas on what's up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year, and we've been talking about getting married next fall for almost 6 months. We've set a date, started looking at venues etc... We are great together, and we've started looking at houses... He ...

I fell in love in the library - but is he just following me around?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - i met a guy in my school library, we interacted a bit and i fell in love with him, he also seemed to like me because he wanted us to chat for long, the problem was he was buzzy and i was buzzy as well. when the time came for me to go home i left ...

Does hanging out with more than one guy make me a bad woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - hi..i have recently just hang out with three guys.we all had a drink together.i was told to hang with more girls than guys.but before i hang out with them i told them that I wasn't a hoe or a slut.they accepted that but i kinda felt left out at ...

I'm a virgin and worried that I will bore my boyfriend in bed... how hard is it to make a guy climax?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - hi everyone, i feel kinda wierd asking this, but my boyfriend and i are talking about sex, im a virgin, and he definately isnt. i want to be good for him, and not be known as the boring virgin who just lied there. i have no idea what to do. how hard...

I'm in love with a gay guy!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

21 October 2008 (?) - What do you do if you love a guy...and this guy is gay? I told him i loved him AFTER he told me he was gay.....so im tellin him theres no point to say what i want to say. I gave in and said what i wanted, when i did a few minutes later he said he ...

I told my girlfriends secrets to my friends, and she's furious!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

21 October 2008 (?) - My girlfriend (Im almost 18 and shes 17) made me promise not to tell that she stuffs her bra and wants breast implants when she finishes high school. To make a long story short, I was hanging out with my friends (most of them are girls who hate m...

Want to reassure my autistic boyfriend of my ongoing love!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I'm a seventeen year old with an autistic boyfriend. We've been dating for nine months and I've fallen head over heels, there's just one problem. Lately I've been having a hard time relating to him. He hasn't ever really talked about being autstic ...

My girlfriend wants to give me oral sex but finds it hard because she was molested as a child... any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - Hello, my girlfriend and I are in a rather unique situation. We've been doing sexual things for just over four months now. I've given her oral and fingered her, and she's touched me. We have never had sex and she has never given me oral. Here's the ...

My boyfriend keeps getting hit on by his ex, Should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I know I'm probably being paranoid, but should it bother me if my boyfriend keeps getting hit on by his ex? (who happens to be the school slut). He only dated her for a couple weeks and made the mistake of sleeping with her. She cheated on him and ...

In College and confused about my sexuality!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - So for as long as I can remember I haven't ever really thought a guy was, "cute," "hot," or anything like that, but I have always thought girls are pretty. I went all through out high school without a boyfriend, and didn't think anything of it. Now ...

How early is too early to admit love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I just started going out 3 days ago, and he's already trying to say he loves me! He's 16, I'm 15 and I don't believe that what he's feeling is love yet. I mean it's been a couple days, how is that possible? We hang out almost e...

Advice on giving head?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I need advice on giving head! I gave my boyfriend head two times already but I'm not sure if I'm doing it right. since I was shy to get it out of him. I lied and said I was never going to give him head but he said why not? I just want him to be sa...

Everyone wants me to divorce him, but I love him so much!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid , My name is Randee, I married a 42 year old man when i was only 18, and everybody wants me to get divorced. But i love him too much, we also had a baby together. He also did drugs. What should i do?...

I'm confused and I really need you to help me decide what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend sometimes seems like when were not hanging out, it seems like he doesn't like me. Like when we talk on the computer (I know sometimes you can't really tell how people mean to say things) but on the computer, he seems mad at me or like ...

Should I give him back his ring?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - okay this is going to sound REALLY dumb after my last post I just did... but my bf of 9 months dumped me last night.. He didn't even have the courage to tell me in person, or even through a phone call! He did it over texting, around midnight...

Does using tampons mean I won't bleed when I first have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm just wondering, I'm a virgin and I've used tampons for the past 2 years. Does that mean I won't bleed the first time I have sex with some guy?...

I'm afraid of giving a hand job...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm 18 and I'm not very experienced and I'm hopefully entering my first real kind of permanent relationship with this really nice lad. For some reason I am actually really afraid of giving a handjob! Not so much a blowjob because I've done tha...