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30-35,
anonymous
writes:There's this boy and ever since i was 13 we have been seeing eachother on and off and now i am 16 i have finally decided to end it full stop..we stopped all contact! He then started seeing this other girl, leah, for a few months. i bumped into him at pizza hut with her. i kept catching him staring at me. when i was on my way out he said hi and his girlfreind went mad. A few months later he sent me a text saying he finished his girl friend for me, and he loves me so much, and he regrets treating me so bad and he'd marry me tomorow if he could.(just as i finally got over him).i started falling for his crap again so i met up with him and we talked alot.he then asked me to meet him again soon. but after that he didnt contact me for ages and i found out he'd been mailing and meeting other girls! so i asked him about it and he lied and said he hadnt but i know 100% he has!!he's now started ringing me and asking me to get back with him. i love him but i hate him also.is he playing me? or does he really love me?PLEASE HELP ME!
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (23 October 2008):
 Oh, forget about that guy. He seems to crave attention, and he likes your consistency in his life. The fact that you're getting over him is probably driving him crazy because he knows he won't have a back-up plan for affection when his flavor of the month figures out he's a creep and dumps him.
Definitely ditch that guy. Tell him to stop calling you and that you're not interested anymore. Then, if he continues to call you, ignore him. When you see him on the street, don't be super ice queen with him because that's a form of attention. If your eyes accidentally meet, acknowledge him and then go on with yourself. Don't give him any more than that. If he comes up to you, acknowledge and then peace out. Don't give him anymore than 20 seconds of your life. he is not worth it!
DITCH HIM. You deserve wayyyy better.
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reader, for_a_reason +, writes (23 October 2008):
 He's playing you. He obviously enjoys having as many girls under his thumb as he can possibly get.
The way to look at is like this... boys, men, guys - whatever the age - like to be in control, or like to think they're in control. By stringing you along like this and giving you false hope by texting you that he wants to get back together etc... and marriage etc... he's controlling you and keeping you exactly where he wants you.
Take your control back - IGNORE HIM and treat him like yesterday's news - SO OVER IT. Soon he'll come crawling on his hands and knees wondering what on earth happened - by which time you'll be able to put your foot on his head and shove his face in the dirt.
Guys like this just aren't worth the bother. You're so much better than this.
Good luck hun!
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