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Archived questions from: 9 October, 2008 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

What to do when your perfect guy is with someone else...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - What do you do when your perfect guy is with someone else? It's really getting me down. ...

I just lost my nana, but haven't cried as I feel as if she's still alive. What's wrong with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - I previously asked for help in dealing with the news of my nana having cancer, through which I helped nurse her. She died yesterday and now I need to ask something and see if anyone can help. I cried when I was told and when I went in to see her. ...

What does it mean if someone says "you're not beneficial" to them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - Im 16 my ex is 17. What does it mean when someone says 'you are not beneficial to me?' while dating (unofficially). My ex said that and I think he meant i'm not going to go 'things' with him and so he doesn't think i'm going to benefit him? ...

I really love this girl, but I have had this gut feeling that she has or is cheating on me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

9 October 2008 (M) - Please read this if you have the time I'm torturing myself over this, THanks I'm 16, she is 16. We have been going out for almost 7 months, and its been pretty tough. She suffered from depression and anxiety in the early stages of our relation...

I'm confused, what would you do if you were in my position?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - I'm doing my A-levels at the moment and I have 7 months to finish them, but I'm also engaged to the most amazing person in the whole world, I love him to bits and he loves me too but recently he had to move another country for personal reasons and ...

She doesn't feel welcome with my friends and gets funny when I spend time with them instead of her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

9 October 2008 (M) - Hello :) Me and my girlfriend have been going out for over a year now. She's completely in love with me and i used to be so in love with her but everything's changed. Last year we had the same friends and she lived close to me so i could go ...

I love my former teacher, and we are both female!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - Since I was 13 I have had a massive crush on one of my teachers. I'm now soon to be 19, (Ten days today) I left the school when I was 14, I moved schools because I couldn't bare to be near her and not with her. It's really getting to me, I...

I am very inexperienced and have no confidence with guys, I kinda feel as if I'm cursed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - hey :) I am 15 and very inexperienced and have no confidence with guys. I've never even got off/made out with anyone. All my friends have. Guys say I'm really pretty but no one has ever really liked me. This as you can imagine is pretty depressin...

I don't want to ask him if he likes me as I don't want to ruin our friendship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - There is this guy I really like and I don't know how to tell if he likes me. He is always trying to hang with me every chance he gets and stares at me a lot (he tries to hold eye contact with me). He playfully pokes me and touches me when talking. ...

He broke up with me but says its because of him! Does he want to go back out with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - hi x there this boy who i really like and i know that he likes me because we just broke up and he said that its all his fault and that he still likes me and that the reason why he broke up with me was because he was a total fuck up and that and i to...

I like her, but how do I know if she likes me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

9 October 2008 (M) - im a 16 year old guy and ive just started college, theres this girl in my form that ive rly liked ever since i started there. ive recently started to hang out with her but i can tell if she likes me the way i like her, any ideas about wat signs to ...

I still love my ex and don't know what to do with my current boyfriend!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5638 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - Hey please cud i get some advice please !! Well, The thing is i am in love with my ex boyfriend, but he dosnt know this, he says he still loves me, but when he asks for me back i say no. The reason i say no is because i have a new bf, but i feel lik...

Should I give up my studies to become a model?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - Hey, I am 19 years old. Do you think giving up my studies and doing modelling is a good option? I really am interested in acting and modelling but I am doing medicine, pursuing to be a doctor. I don't know if its worthwhile. Advise please!...

My Dad cheated and I want him to be better!

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9 October 2008 (F) - My dad had an affair on my mum with a work mate almost two years ago, he says this was because he had a, "Split brain," he told alot of lies during this time. I convinced myself it was all my fault because I saw him on msn and then found the emails ...

I'm sick of making all the effort with this boy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - Me and A boy at school like eachother. He's really shy. and In school its usually me who makes the convosation and he just says he's bored. and On msn he said it was rubbish. when im there trying to make convosation. in school he says hes ...

I'm nervous about 'coming out' to my parents, can anyone help, please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

9 October 2008 (M) - Hi there. I am a 15 year old gay boy. Recently I have been thinking of ways to "come out" to my parents. I know they will take it well, but I don't know the time and the place to do it. As I am closer to my mum I was thinking about coming out to h...

I want to move on for my own sake but I don't know how to do it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - I was with this boy for 3 years and we were absolutely in love... couldn't get enough of each other, we were with each other all the time, and when we weren't together we wanted to be and talked on the phone. the only problem was that my parents are ...

I accidentally hit her with a ball in gym, and now there are rumors going around that I hit her!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

9 October 2008 (?) - Me and my girlfriend have the same gym class. We ended up partners for volley ball. We were just passing the ball to each other. I already throw the ball when one of her friends said hi to her which lost her attention for a moment. The ball hit her ...

I'm tired of putting in this effort in this crazy relationship while he sits and makes strange comments?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - Hello, I have a few questions actually. I have been in a relationship for 4 years now and it seems like things are slowly getting worse. I do everything i can for this man but he keeps saying these random comments like "I think i sould leave" or ...

I am scared I will lose my LD boyfriend again, how can I know if he really likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - I have a boyfriend that lives in palmdale and I live in south central and I have a feeling that he might cheat on me or scared that he will leave me we got together febuary 2008 and broke up april 2008 and now we got back together on october 2008 ...

Is he not answering because he doesn't like me at all anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5638 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - Me and this guy I met at a party, started flirting alot and next thing I know he's inviting me over to his house a few days later and is really into me. We talk on msn alot, although we don't see each other as much, but he left me with the feeling ...

They don't know I have a boyfriend. How can I keep that idea going?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - hey everyone i really need some advice quick... tonight my parents and everyone went out and i was ;eft home alone... so i decided to call my boyfriend round and spend the time with him... i asked my sister to call me as soon as they left so i could ...

I need direction. Something. Please.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - This is long, but I really need the help. Thanks. Um, well I'm 16 years old, and I'm a junior this year. I come from a very very very Christian family, who does not under any circumstances accept sex before you get married. I believe in God, and...

Standing Up for Yourself

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9 October 2008 (F) - I have just recently taught myself this so if it doesn't make sense for you, that is why. Do not let a guy call you names, or talk about you wrongly to other girls behind your back. I know you may love him/her but learn to consder yourself more ...

Utter confusion! Does he still love me or is this just a game?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - So me and my ex-boyfriend have been together for 11 months. In the beginning we have been doing fine and he was the most sweetest guy you cold ever be with. He would buy me flowers at random, open the car door for me, and lots of that good stuff. ...