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Archived questions from: 14 October, 2008 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I'm 15 and I am love with 18 year old boy who I have never met before.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I'm 15 and I am love with 18 year old boy who I have never met before. I believe he is my soulmate but doesn't want to get involved with me as I am so young but he claims he still likes me Please help :(...

When I find out they like me, my feeling of attraction for them disappears...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm 17 and I'v got a problem. For the past few month, when I get to a girl relationship wise to the stage I realize that they may in fact like me all of a sudden literally on the very same day that I find this out, all my feelings of attraction ...

He's only in love with me when he's drunk!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - my boyfriend drinks a lot. he used to be really nice, but now he's only in love with me when he's drunk. he's only a sweetie when he's drunk. he only wants to do sexual things when he's drunk. he'll only talk to me about personal things when he's ...

I'm fifteen and I plan on having sex with my friend on Friday, for the first time.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I'm fifteen and I plan on having sex with my friend on Friday, for the first time. Will a condom be enough to prevent pregnancy? What else can I do besides take birth control? and what is the morning after pill?...

I'm in love with my best friend. he's a pothead and I believe he's becoming an alcoholic.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I'm in love with my best friend. he's a pothead and I believe he's becoming an alcoholic. he's had a rough life. his mom just committed suicide last year and he found her and its just tragic. basically, I just want him to be happy. he can really be ...

He is driving me to an eating disorder! Please help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Hi everyone. There is this guy who I was "friends with benefits" with. Stupidly, I lost my virginity to him and after several months, I told him I couldn't do it anymore which is when he asked me to be his girlfriend. He even introduce me as his ...

Where can I find information on the web about learning to drive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I need to find a website that does driver's book info thingy online. Do you know any websites? I'm 16 and I want to get my driver's permit. I want my licence before I turn 18. I need something that's easy to understand, I get upset ...

I am a 17 year old male and I suffer from paranoia.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - Greetings everyone, I am a 17 year old male who suffers from paranoia. This has happened for a long period of time (1 - 2 years) and has started to wreck my social life. I have started to like a girl but I am paranoid people are speaking about me ...

I want him to stop talking to her but he's stubborn, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I need all the help I can get right now, my boyfriend is going to drive me crazy, he's talking and seeing one of his ex girlfriends and I know 4 a fact that she still wants to be with him and I have the strongest of feelings that he is cheating on ...

I truly am in love with my teacher!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Wow, so all day I have been going through everyones columns and reading the Q and A's about this topic and I have found some really good advice, but I figured it would be helpful to just get my story out there. Well to start out with I'm 15, alm...

I don't want to complicate our friendship, do I tell him I'm in love with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Hi. I'm in love with my best friend, but I don't know how to tell him, or if I even should. I'm certain nothing will come from telling him, since he's told me himself, he's not interested in a relationship. So I'm not sure if it would be a good idea ...

What can I do to help keep these friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - This year I am starting to make these really cool friends but every time I want to be with them it seems like I did something for them to get pissed at me, or like might be a bother. I'm not sure if they're just in a bad mood or something else..... ...

Any advice on how to get closer to him or should I just move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Well it's not a massive problem but it's something I really need advice on. When I was 11 to 13 14 I always prayed and wished for a boy friend and now in year nine I finally have a guy that really likes me and were together but have only been tog...

Terrified to get into a relationship again as my heart was almost broken last time...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I've just got back into a relationship after a year of being single, due to a very messy break up where my heart was left completley broken. I'm SO scared of being hurt by my new boyfriend and I'm so worried that he's using me because thats what hap...

How do I get him to notice and talk to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5670 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - There is a boy in the year above me at school (hes in sixth form and im in year 11) i really like him and i would like to get to know him how do i get him to notice me or talk to me. i saw him in the local shopping center the other day, h...

I want to move out of my parent's house but it's complicated.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Ok, here's my basic situation: I'm a 19-year-old artist who wants to move out of her parents' house. Said situation is complicated by the facts that my brother is seriously mentally and physically ill, my father has a drinking problem, and I ...

I'm breaking up with my boyfriend who is also a family friend, how should I do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - im breaking up with my boyfriend and ive never broken up with a boy before. i dont know how to do it. plus hes a family friend, will this make it akward when ever he comes over with his parents?...

It ended over bad communication... there's tension, do I say hello?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Long post but I really need help. You have to read this question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-has-moved-on-and-i-am-still.html ..before reading the current one you are reading. So i spoke to him yesterday for 2 hours! and I got a...

I'm not pressurised into sex but I'm worried he will cheat on me if I'm not good in bed...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months now, and we are both over 16 + virgins. we done nearly everything, like hand jobs and blowjobs ect, but im scared to have sex.. i feel im ready to and im not being pressurised into it, but im ...

My hair is fallling out, I keep getting headaches and feel sick, my partner says he will leave me if these are signs of pregnancy, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Okay, I have a problem here. My hair is falling out, and I keep getting these headaches at around 5:00 PM and then again at like 11:00 PM, never in the morning, also the second i wake up i feel really sick to my stomach, and then though out the day ...

He kissed me, got another girlfriend, then kissed my neck when we met again, what's going on and how to get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm 14, but I think I might be in love with this guy. He's in my friends band, so I have to be friends with him. But a couple of weeks ago we kissed, a lot. Then about a week later he got a girlfriend, then he sent me Instant Messages saying ...

He's 18. I'm 15. Does anyone think this is bad?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Hi I really like this guy but he's 18 and I am only 15. He is 19 in December, which makes it worse, but he doesn't want anything to happen until I'm 16, but I am not going to be16 until April. Does anyone think this bad ?...

I told him I wouldn't call her, but today I did. Please help, I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - i found love msgs from a girl in my boyfriends phone which he gave me to take for repair. i asked him about it he said that we would talk about it when i visit him (am currently away at school). i started going out with him in may 2008 and thos...

If you had sex with a girl that has chlamydia, what could happen?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - If you had sex with a girl that has chlamydia what could happen?...

I'm confused about my sexuality - do these feelings make me gay, bi or what?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Ok, I'm a 15 years old girl who's a little scared and confused about her sexuality! I'm attracted to guys by their appearance and personality. But, I'm attracted to girls sexually, appearance, and personality! Does this make me gay/bi or what?!...

I'm not a prude, it's just that no guy has the guts to ask me out - how do I stop focusing on this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - so my friends might think im a prude because they're always flirting with guys and kissing them, and i'm like always there without a boyfirend. dont get me wrong alot of guys find me very attractive but none of them have the guts enough to ask me ...

Could he like me, even though I'm only a freshman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - so i'm a freshman in highschool. and this senior keeps looking at me and stuff. everytime i pass by he gets red, and when i look at him he gets red too. i have no idea if he likes me or not. maybe he just wants be be my friend. and knowing me im ...

Why didn't she text me after the movie?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - I asked my girlfriend to txt me when she was done watching the movie she was watching with her family at her house and her brother started txting me around 8:00 and we got to talking and he told me the movie was done at 5:00! I talked to my ...

Am I obsessed or is it just a crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I'm in desperate need of help. I really like this guy, but he's too old for me (legally). I'm fifteen years old and I just want to know if I'm obsessed, have a crush, or am I a stalker? You see, this guy isn't like other guys. He's nice and ...

He tries to force himself on me, then tells me he loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - i really dont know what to do!! i cant even sleep. ive tried, and tried and its runnin through my mind like christmas does!! its awful! today, i was in school (6th form) and i got a text from my *friend* call him bob. and he said to me 'come to...