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Archived questions from: 12 October, 2008 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Are we a couple? How can I be more aggressive in moving our relationship forward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

12 October 2008 (M) - I started at university this past fall, and I'm having a great time. What is especially exciting is that I am "out" at university and have even started "seeing" someone. He asked me out and we've gone out a couple of times the past few weeks and we ...

Just thoughts please and general advice needed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

12 October 2008 (M) - Referring to the question http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-can-i-say-or-do-that-isnt.html Well since I posted that a couple of things. We have spent more time together and agree to meet at some point. One day as we were saying bye she wa...

How do I 'make the move'? He's still a virgin too. Does anyone have any advice they could offer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - okay, well i wrote a qustion on here in august, about being raped on july 18th, the moderator deleted the part of my question, but it was the worst experience of my life and i would not wish it on my worst enemy. i got some fantastic advice back...

How can I get my strict Greek parents to accept my boyfriend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - Hey everyone. please help me with this problem i have. i am an 18 year old girl who comes from a very strict Greek background. i recently met an amazing guy, but he is not Greek, so my parents do not accept him. i see him every weekend - but behi...

Am I just not mature enough for a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - Hi... I'm 14 and have never been in a proper relationship (basically i've never kissed a guy) I have "been out" with a few but those have only really lasted a few days becasue i got scared about it for some reason. Problem 1.I recently s...

I get jealous when my fiance looks at other women, for simple turns of the head, what's wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - I get really jelouse when my fiance looks at other women (and by looking i dont mean perving on them but just a simple turn of the head) because it makes me feel that im not good enough for him. I get a lot of attention and compliments from othe...

I really want to find someone for myself.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5538 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - I've recently started to have feelings for this guy, when before he was just a friend...well a friend of a friend really and that's half the problem...i really want to get closer to him and i haven't had a proper conversation with him before, so how ...

Do I risk telling my boyfriend and lose him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - I've been with someone now for a few months and we're very happy together, he's starting to become special to me and i dont want to lose what we've got. but the other day i ended up kissing one of my other male freinds and i know if my boyfreind ...

She says she wants to get to know me and meet me but I feel her attitude is unacceptable and I don't want to meet her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - ive been seeing my boyfriend for about 2months and we are really crazy about each other..it didnt go so smoothly in the begining i kissed another guy at a party i told him straight away and i though we had things back on track..our main problem ...

Feelings have gone completely...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - Long post but I really need help. You have to read this question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-has-moved-on-and-i-am-still.html ..before reading the current one you are reading. So i spoke to him yesterday for 2 hours! and I got a...

My boyfriend is going too fast and won't listen to me when I tell him to stop!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - I'm 14 years old and my boyfrined is the same age. I had never really had a boyfriend before, and I am still a virgin. I'm really innocent and have never done anything bad, I never even kissed a guy. Then about 3 weeks ago we started going ou...

We're 15, we consider ourselves married but our parents don't wants us to be together and I hate them for this! I'm thinking about running away!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

12 October 2008 (M) - Okay, let me start by saying I hate my parents! Now I'll explain why. I'm 15 and so is she. About 2 months ago I asked my girlfriend to marry me. We've never actually had sex but it has gone up to me giving her oral, she's never given it to me ...

I'm afraid my boyfriend might leave me when he finds out I'm pregnant!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - I have a couple problems that I need help with, so can somebody please answer my call for help? 1. I might be pregnant. 2. The father is a boy who doesn't even like me. 3. I've only had sex with two guys and now everyone who knows that tr...

Do other girls have hairy breasts?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - Right I have a bit of a problem I have some hairs on my breasts and although their not like armpit hairs or anything I think their quite noticable am I the only one with this problem or do other people have hairs aswell??? ...

My boyfriend is very stressed out with his work, how can I change that and spend more time together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a good while now, but here lately he's been very busy. He's getting signed(possibly)to a recording contract soon, so he's constantly been working on his album and he just doesn't seem to have the time for ...

My partner gives me love bites! I don't know why he does this.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - i keep getting love bites off my partner. hes 2 years older but i dont get why he still gives love bites as hes 17. i know that its not a goth thing as hes very into the jeans and hoodys. but he really bruised up my neck and i dnt kno why he likes...

He was tickling me, does it mean he's flirting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - i went on a second date with a guy i like from work, i had such a good time On the way home when we were on the train he put his arm around me and was tickling my ribs, and we were both laughing is this a good thing? was he flirting?...

My parents are interfering with my life too much and I can't take it any more...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

12 October 2008 (M) - I know this is long but please bear with me cuz I really need help. I am beginning to hate my parents because they never listen to me and because they treat me like some kind of kid and my two other brothers are given everything they want in a s...

I keep dumping one guy for another and can't make up my mind who to choose...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - What do I do? I was going out with this guy when I broke up with him because he's really pressurising and really mean sometimes, however we'd been in a relationship on and off for 11 months. But about 4 days after breaking up with him I started ...

My dad's girlfriend moved in, violates my privacy and tries to turn my dad against me, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - Hi my dads girlfriend moved in with my dad and I a couple of months ago and I am finding her unbearable. She is trying to take over my life and control me in any way possible. I am 17 and have been very independant for years. However she is ...

I have what seems like white skin all around the vaginal opening, is it because I've used soap and shaving gel to clean my inside? Sex is uncomfortable and I'm panicking!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - This is going to be long so ill apologize in advance! Im really embaressed about this, and im sorry but im going to have to tell you everything to get the answer as im going on holiday tomoro and im panicking! Ive been with my boyfriend for...

I want to know what's up with him and why won't he talk to me???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - The other day I was hanging out with a really good guy friend of mine. We were having tons of fun, but suddenly he leaned over and kissed me. It was a lip-kiss, and it was really quick. But now he won't talk to me! Whenever I see him, he'll turn ...

Does this this guy like me? He seems uncomfortable when I am around since the note I sent last year?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5678 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - ok this kinda a long story and I hope someone replies! theres this guy I've liked for a year now. last year when I first started liking him we talked some and were kind of friends. my best friend thought he liked me to and said I should ask him out. ...

Burning sensations during fingering, after period, any help? Also, how can I stop thinking about my girlfriend's past lovers?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

12 October 2008 (M) - First off, I'm young, and honestly inexperienced when it comes to any of this. Yeah, I'm a virgin, and a guy, get over it. My partner, however, isn't. It bugs me, yeah, but I live with it. I have three questions, and any feedback is greatly ...

Is my penis an average size?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

12 October 2008 (M) - hey im 15 and i have a 7.5 inch dick ... is that an average size?...

My child's father is abusive, I am confused, should I leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - I am currently staying with my daughters dad, in which he lives with his parents. everything was going great until we started arguing and now he is extremely aggressive. he punches me in my legs and threatens to kill me over the smallest arguments. ...

How do I approach this boy I like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - well.. ireally like this boy but i'm not sure wether he likes me should i tell him and wen?? HELP how should i approach him.?...

I need a step by step on how to kiss...any tips?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - ok so i know this is going to sound really stupid, but im ready for my 1st kiss and i dnt no wat to do. i dnt no anythink even were to put my lips (bottom or top lip) and i just need a step step detail on how to kiss. thankyou xx...