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Archived questions from: 24 October, 2008 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

My 14 yr old friends are planning to have sex....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

24 October 2008 (M) - One of my friends and his g/f are going to have sex on Sunday. They are both 14, and they are only going to use a condom... how can i stop them from doing it?...

Is what I'm doing illegal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and i are both 14, and we often just lie together snogging, and sometimes i put my hand in her bra... is this illegal?...

'From a Fairy to a King'...Please help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Hi agony aunts. I had planned to go as a fairy for halloween this year but at the last minute have decided it might be really unusual to go as Elvis. My halloween party is on Friday - and I need help pulling together a costume FAST! Help! Tips ...

I'm in a mess, and don't know what to do, please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Hey I need help. I know that this is going to be kinda confusing but keep in mind I'm really confused anyway. I love my boyfriend to death... or at least I did when we started going out. Please don't think bad of me, but we hadn't gone out for a ...

It seems that all the guys round me want the dumb, loud, big-chested girls and I get over-looked...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

24 October 2008 (?) - Hi. I'm 15, female. I think I'm an average looking girl, not UGLY but not exactly beautiful either. Lots of folk tell me I'm funny, got a good sense of humour, that kind of stuff. I reckon I'm quite a nice person and pretty smart [without meaning to ...

Does his behaviour mean he's afraid of me knowing how he really feels?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (?) - Okay, so I have a problem. I really like this guy, he's a bit older, he's married, and I know that I never, ever have a chance with him, just let's get that straight, I'm not looking to be with him AT ALL. The problem is that he has flirted in the p...

Where can my friend and I go so we can meet 'good guys'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Where is a good place for me and my best friend to go to meet good guys? We are both in high school and don't go to crazy parties. We work together and have met a few, but they give us mixed signals, and since the job is seasonal it ends in a few...

Can you help me curb my hunger for food? Would hypnosis help me with my problem of always wanting to eat?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Hiya, I know this isn’t a relationship question but I know that everyone could possibly help me with my problem. I don’t want to go to my doctor and ask because its not really serious and I think id be wasting his time. I went on the mini pill 3 y...

I really like him, but I'm afraid my moodiness will scare him away!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Hey everyone... i think i have a really weird problem... i recently got together with this guy and i love being with him. hes everything to me and i am to him (so he says). But the thing is i get really moody sometimes with him over nothing in ...

He has a lot of girls who are friends, and there are plenty of girls who like him so why me? Or maybe not...I can't figure him out.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - He always smiles when he's around me. He teases me a lot, but in a nice way. He comes up to me and talks to me now, which he never used to do (or at least not as often - I usually had to start the conversation). But I'm still unsure if he likes ...

He really hurt me 'down there', how can I stop him from doing this again next time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - I really like my new boyfriend, and hes one of the best kissers i've ever been with, but last night when we were together, he started fingering me really hard and rough. It was much too painful to be enjoyable, and today i'm bruised and swollen ...

I cried on my 18th because I wasn't 17 anymore! So how can I get over my fear of growing older?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (M) - On my 18th birthday I cried because I wasn't seven anymore. I've always been scared of getting older, one - 'cause it means I'll have less life, and two - 'cause I'm scared of losing my abilities. I work hard and I've heard that when you become fort...

I need help in working out what to do when I know these people so well, and when I'm involved.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - my two friends have started not getting along at all. one friend (lets call her A) has started going out with B's (my other friend) ex bf. B is with someone else but still winds A up by meeting with A's bf (her ex). i dont want to take sides, but ...

I kissed a lad after my boyfriend and I argued, I like them both, any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - The other night i was at a party,me and my boyfriend had an argument and he went off, that evening this lad that ive always thought was cute kissed me. And now i cant stop thinking about it. Im so confused and dont know what to do. I love my ...

Is there anything that might be stopping him from saying anything to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - So i really like this guy. and im pretty sure he likes me too! like ultra positive he likes me, he shows all the signs.... he gets red in front of me he shows off. he does things to try to make me notice him. i guess im just being a bitch by not noti...

Is it possible that we could end up bi or lesbians if we keep doing this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - hi, i have a question that is too awkward to ask anybody that i know. it involves me and my bestfriend. we are both girls, 15 years old and have been best friends since we were small. some in our family say we are cousins, but we aren't really. ...

Stressed about choosing the right guy without hurting the others that are interested in me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5636 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - im so stressed about boys, I have a few that i think are nice and they are intrested in me, but i need to see who i like by meeting them, and that makes me feel really bad cause il kiss them and then il have to hurt the rest i dont want to be ...

Bleeding and vaginal discomfort after taking the emergency pill... is it normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - So, on wednesday my bf and I had protected sex as always, but unfortunately the condom split. This happened just as is was going in, and we took it out as soon as we herd it rip. I took the morning after pill on thursday morning(13 hours later), ...

Is it weird that I asked my mum to put in a tampon for me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Hello, i am quite worried. I have had a period for 2 years, and i wanted to start using a tampon. i couldn't get it in, so i called my mom and she put it in for me. Is that really wierd :S I don't know, i'm just a bit freaked out....

I feel we should split up before University. Good idea???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - I'm having a huge problem right now about my relationship with my bf. We were together for almost 2 years but split up for 5 monthS. We got back together about a month and a half ago and things have been ok. Hes deffinetly more loving and carring in ...

Her parents have grounded her and taken her phone away...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (M) - Ok so I'm sure you all have heard this story a billion times, but I never thought it would happen to me. Last night I ordered some pizza to this girl's house that I don't like as a joke, and now my girlfriend tells me her parents said she is ...

I would kill to be with her but she isn't attracted to me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (M) - I met a girl a few months back and I have always felt a deep admiration for and care for her more than anyone. I consider her my best friend although I'm aware she has a lot of great friends and unfortunately I would not appear at the very top of ...

Is it okay for girls to make themselves orgasm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Ok, well this is very embarrassing to be asking about but is it ok for girls, at my age (14) to make themselves... orgasm? Becacause I have this thing I do where if I imagine certain things (no need to go into that though) and rub against my... you ...

Forbidden feelings...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Hello! Good day readers! I just wanted to ask if why are the teachers forbidden to have a relationship with their students. I admire my previous mathematics teacher. He not only taught me how to solve mathemetical problems but also he taught m...

What can I do to hurry / postpone my period?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Hi..I have my year 12 formal coming up and im due to have my period that night... is there anything I can do to move my period forward or later? Thanx ...

How can I tell my teacher that I admire him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - i admire my teacher and i want it to express or say it to him. when i was reading some of the questions, i noticed that the people who are responsing says that the student-teacher relationship is forbidden. i want to tell him that i admire him. wh...

Why is sex so important to men?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Why do men love sex so much? And dont try to tell me that women love it just as much. I mean sure if feels great to have that connection with someone is amazing but we dont think about it 24 hours a day and dont lie or say anything just to get laid. ...

I'm falling for my step-brother (not blood related) Is this wrong ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I need some advice please. I live in Queensland with my mum and I am 19 years old. My parents divorced 6 years ago and dad remarried 2 years ago and lives about 1100 miles away interstate in Victoria. By his marriage, I have 2 step brothers wh...

She asks me online to go out, then disrespects me to my face. I only want to be her friend. How do I make things right ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - This isn't really a question...well I need advice I guess. A few days ago someone added me and then wrote me a messege on myspace They randomly asked me out (it was someone I knew but didn't know why they "asked me out". So i kept asking the...

How do I stop being a push-over ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - I am such a pushover for everyone in my life! It's been this way since I was a really little girl and I don't know how to get out of that! Please help! It's really starting to annoy the crap out of me!...