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Archived questions from: 7 October, 2008 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

My aunt tells me that I should wait a year or so to have sex because she said the older you wait to have sex the better it will be for you.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - hi, I'm a virgin and I'm 18. I really do want to have sex but I take my virginity a lot serious. My aunt tells me that I should wait a year or so to have sex because she said the older you wait to have sex the better it will be for you. Do you ...

I will never like my bisexual friend as anything other than that... a friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - I have a problem... I have a male bisexual friend.... I am a straight female. He wants to have sex with me but I'm not interested because he is bisexual. He keeps asking me to come over his house but I keep telling him no but he is my best friend ...

What's the best thing to do when you get slagged off at school all the time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - What do you do when you get hurt by people slagging you a lot at school? xx...

What's your definition of love?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - Can someone please define love for me? Because I have this strong feeling for someone and I don't know if it's love or just infatuated love *-) xxx...

I'm 18 and have never had my first kiss or a boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - I am in college and have never had a relationship. I've never had my first kiss or a boyfriend. It's scaring me a bit because lately I've been thinking of myself as undesireable. It's not as if I'm drop dead ugly, I honestly don't know what it is ...

Do breasts look better pushed together or separated by a bra?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - I my bra size is 30G and when I wear a bra my breasts are pushed together into a 2 inch cleavage line (most of which I do not normally reveal as I am not a HUGE fan of overly low cut tops). However when I am not wearing a bra my breasts fall out...

I'm so confused. Is my flatmate flirting with me? I want to know where I stand?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5533 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - Im curious for other peoples opinions on where I stand with my relationship wth my flatmate. Now before anyone goes off on a "you should never date your flatemate" thing - that's not what I'm asking. Im simply asking for opinions as I'm not 100% ...

What did he mean by this comment? He would if he could?...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - Hello guys, quick question. There is this guy I liked but he has a gf. But we were talking about me and how guys don't really see me as thgf type. He text me back once saying "all I can say is I would if I could". I just said to him I do...

I think she wants me and is interested but why then does she refuse to talk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - hello, i just cant understand this girl. she looks at me everytime and also her freinds do that and play with her hair. so today i was walking and hit her quitely just for special flirt !! and i think she wanted that because she didnt move f...

I am her first boyfriend, she is very nervous when I am close, how can I help her relax?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - My gf is always very nervous when we are together especially when i hold her hand or touch her leg or when we kissed for the first time. She is very great to be around when she is nervous too but i sort of feel bad for making her feel nervous. And ...

I am a week late, should I take a test or keep waiting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - I am currently a week late from my period I was to have it Oct 1 and still haven't had it. I have take two hbt and they both came out negative. But move lower stomach is tight, hurts, my boobs hurt and i'm always tired. I had a Miss carriage like ...

If my ex said he wanted to be my best friend, why doesn't he talk to me at all?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

7 October 2008 (?) - My ex-boyfriend said he wanted to best friends....i broke up with him almost 2 months ago, and he wont talk to me. I asked if he was mad at me, and he said no. But if he says he wanted to be my best friend, why do you think he doesnt talk to me? Its ...

I don't get engaged in conversations as I am too shy to raise my opinion or even chat! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - i am incredibly shy and do not get involved in conversations with my girlfriend or even some of my best friends because i am too shy to raise my opinion or even chat. my social life is in ruins because of my shyness and i am good in most subjects...

Should I tell my mum before she finds out herself?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - Hi, well my question/problem is this- I am 15 and recently had sex with my boyfriend of 11 month. We both love each other and don't regret anything but recently one of my friends slept with a boy from school and her mum and dad found out via her ...

I am gay and frightened to come out... Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - I am 17 and gay. I have been since I was 15, I have a boyfriend, I have slept with him but no-one knows about us yet. I want to come out but I am frightened to death about what my friends and family will think. Also I haven't a clue how to come ...

How can I improve our weird relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - Hay everybody, I need advice because I really don't know what to think anymore. There's a guy in my class (let's call him Mark) who acts really weird. I'm not sure if he hates me or he likes me. We're both 18 years old. I like him because he's...

Should I ask my best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - Me and my best friend have been really close, she makes me smile and help her when she's down. My little sister recently started to get to know her and they've become fast friends. But she started telling me that me and best friend seem like we ...

Me and my girlfriend split three days ago, but I want her back...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - Hey, I've just broken up with my girlfriend, we was only going out for a short period of time, we broke up because she said we kept argueing. but i still want her back, is there any way to find out wether she likes me still, without out bein...

I don't know how to give a blow job. And do you remove the tampon before having sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - Hiya. My boyfriend keeps dropping really obvious hints that he wants a blow job. It's not that i don't want to give him one because he have had sex, but i've never given one before and i dont want to seem stupid. So any tips? Also my friend has sex ...

How do you ask out your best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - how do you ask out a girl whoe has been your best friend for a very long time?...

I think this girl is amazing and a personality to die for and I want to be with her but what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - Hi I have known a girl for 4 years. We were quite close but this year have really grown to like this girl and I eventually asked her out. We saw each other all Saturday and Sunday and we were brilliant together. But on Sunday night I got a call ...

Should I tell him and risk our friendship, or let him find out from someone else, which would perhaps lead to an awkward confrontation between him and me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - There's this guy at college, who I've become close to! At first I hardly spoke to him but now we never shut up and really get along - as friends!! But the thing is, I don't see him just as a friend. From the moment I saw him, I instantly had a crush ...

I feel so guilty that I cheated on my boyfriend of 3 years with his best friend, now I can't stop thinking about him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - hi, I'm 20 and I have a boyfriend. We've been together for about 3 years now. I really love him a lot, we're kind of a "happy couple", you know. But 2 months ago, I cheated on him with his best friend. We went to a birthday party together (my ...

Do I just block her out of my life completly or should I do something to try and get a relationship to work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5683 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - Hi im 18 I think I'm love with a girl but I can't be with her. I met this girl 2 years ago and we went out for 3 months. But she lives over 5 hours away by car. We tried a relationship but it didn't work and we broke up. I thought it was just a c...

We date on and off, but we can't seem to talk face-to-face.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5683 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - I am a high school student (first year)and it seems throughout the past 2 yrs me and the girl have been dating on and off for quite a bit (maybe 4 times) and we always get close over the internet and txt messaging, but at school it seems like she ...

I'm bisexual and my "friend" is coming to spend the night.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - I'm 17 and I'm bi. I haven't really done a lot with girls but this Friday my good friend is coming to spend the night her and we are planning on doing stuff with each other. I'm kinda nervous. Does anyone have advice on what it will be like? and if ...