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It was just a kiss with this other guy! Should I tell my bf?

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Question - (23 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 October 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *babi22 writes:

hey i am dating this sophmore and i am a freshman. we went out once before but for only a few days. a month later we are back on again. i do like him and i know he isn't with me to get in my pants. but i do like somebody else who is a sophmore. this other boy i have liked for much longer and we also both like each other. i cheated on my boyfriend with the other boy. during school me and him made out. i know that if i tell my boyfriend what i did it would be over. i don't want to tell him also because the other boy i kissed isn't someone i want to actually be exclusive with. i dont what i should do. should i tell my boyfriend even though it was just a kiss? i don't want to risk losing him. and i don't want anyone to find out because i don't want to be called a hoe or anything when im not.

what should i do with this situation?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2008):

first of all, decide who you want to be with but granted you are very young and relationships last all of five minutes at your age (not trying to sound patronizing) Don't tell him. It'd hurt his feelings and you'd only be telling him to get rid of your guilt. If it ain't broke, don't fix it.

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