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Archived questions from: 8 October, 2008 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I actually believe I am in love...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - Update. I actually believe I am in love. I am not going out with this guy, but he means the world to me. He has a gf so I haven't told anyone my feelings incase it caused trouble which isn't fair on his gf. But I just don't stop thinking about h...

Does anyone out there believe in Soulmates???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - This is more of asking your opinions... does anyone believe in soulmates? and if yes how do you know when your find your soulmate? Thanks....

I'm very hurt as my boyfriend doesn't trust me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

8 October 2008 (?) - I'm very hurt. My boyfriend doesn't trust me. Well he's always been jealous and when we first started dating he kind of "warned" me about this trait. He even asked me not to talk about my past when I let some details accidentally slip. He's my first ...

Should I tell him how I feel, based on this information?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - There's a guy I work with, we flirt alto, and he calls me every night to see how I am and stuff, we've been one date, and it was great and were planning on a 2nd date this weekend. He says he wants me to come shopping with him then he's going ...

Why do I regret NOT sleeping with this guy after knowing him and his friends for 10 seconds?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - Well I know this might seem daft but I went out on Sunday with a friend, call her *T* and we went out as we do, met up with some other people, walked into town, hung out for a bit and stuff, had a good night, and then we walked back up to T's and I ...

I am in a gay relationship but I cum after a couple of minutes, how can I last longer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

8 October 2008 (M) - I am gay and I have had a boyfriend for about 3 years now. We have sex quite a lot, but at the moment I have been cumming really quickly. I mean without being so graphic, I tend to do it to him, but I have been cumming really quickly, I mean like ...

Why am I cumming so quickly???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

8 October 2008 (M) - Ok I need an honest answer from the ladies and guys if you have been in my situation.. Basically I'm cumming pretty fast lately, like 2-3 minutes, and it's becoming a habit. Which is weird because I used to be able to last longer. But now I cant. ...

I have 3 main problems in my life at the moment and all of these are guy related!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - I have 3 main problems in my life at the moment and all of these are guy related! Well to tell the truth it is three different guys. All telling me different thing and getting me confused! Firstly how do I tell if he really does love me?? That's ...

She found it weird having a relationship with me as we were good friends before that, so she finished with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

8 October 2008 (M) - Hi I'm 16, I had a relationship with a girl who I think is amazing. She's funny, smart, gorgeous and has a personality to die for, but we broke up because she found it wierd as we were close friends before we started going out. I didn't find the ...

It's hard sometimes juggling mates and boyfriends and I'm not sure what I want!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - I don't know wether to stay with my boyfriend. Sometimes i think i want to be with him forever and then sometimes when im not in a good mood i feel like i dont want to be with him. Also its hard juggling mates and boyfriends. I just dont know what ...

I got drunk and ended up losing my virginity to my boyfriend, I don't recall this, have I been taken advantage of?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 months, a week ago i got very drunk and ended up going back to stay at his. The next morning my boyfriend told me we had had sex. i do not remember this at all and i felt he had took advantage of me as ...

I'm becoming really depressed since my mother passed away, I feel lonely and I want to stop what I am doing wrong but there is no one to help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - OK this isnt a relationship question or anything but... well my mum died 6 months ago.. and im becoming really depressed. Ive been to the doctors about it but they cant do anything because of my age (16) and ive started smoking drinking and ...

How does the contraceptive pill work exactly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - Hii just a quick one really. Not really sure if this has been answered before so any help would be greatly appreciated. Basically, the contraceptive pill..i know that there are about 20 different kinds, but exactly how do they work? I mean of cours...

Help me break up with him AGAIN... please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - Kay , well ive been dating this guy for a year now and he wants to get married ... and im only 18 ! I cant get married !!!! Dont get me wrong ! I love him and everything but like Crap .... i need to focus on my life . AND ive already broken up...

Why is this teacher being so strange? Is this allowed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - ok. so i'm gonna start from the beginning because it's easier. this teacher started at my school, and i fancied him, i didn't say anything to him or anyone else because lets just say he's not the most attractive person going. so then when i fins...

I need some advice, I'm 15 and might be pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - Ok im 15 years old and i think i might be pregnant... i havent gottin my period for this month and lately me and my bf have been having unprotected sex =/ i know i cant tell my family or friend because they'll all be very upset...and im not ready to...

How different does orgasm feel in comparison to ejaculation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has endured a back muscle injury and for the last while has not been able to ejaculate during sex. He said that he is able to orgasm. I am wondering if this is true because according to online information, orgasms without ejaculation ...

Is there a way to share your sadness with a girl without looking like a wimp?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

8 October 2008 (M) - I went out with my girlfriend the other week and I was really depressed about some stuff going on at home. But instead of telling her about it I just pretended I was having fun. I'm really scared to tell her when I'm sad cause she might judge me ...

My girlfriend always acts goofy, how can I motivate her to be more reasonable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

8 October 2008 (M) - I like my girlfriend but she can get pretty goofy sometimes! Like one night we were making out and I though she was going to give me a hickie but instead she blew rasberries on my neck. And then another time we were having sex and she karate chopped ...

This boy and I kissed and my friend spread the gossip so he is now upset with me, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - hi, meand this guy at my school kissed but he is 3 years older then me. i told my friend and she told every one and now all his friends are making fun of him and he tinks that i told them, i have tried to tell his it wasnt me but hes just not taking ...

I need closure with my ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

8 October 2008 (M) - I need closure with my ex that I've been on and off with for almost 6 years. We always go through bad things, and we end up flipping on each other. I need some help on how to handle this....

I don't know if it's right for me to always ask my boyfriend for sex, as I am always in the mood, could he lose interest in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - I have a sexual problem: i dont know if its right to always ask my boyfriend to have sex with me and i want him to do it everyday how can i stop this before he loses intrest in me?...

How to tell my ex that I want to get back together? He said it was my attitude and my arguing...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - i finally broke up with him...we thought i was pregnat, i'm not..ok..so the same day i found out..i wanted to have sex, he was scared...which i could see where he was coming from, but his whole attitude had been changing...now...its like i miss him ...

He has moved on and I am still stuck on him. I cant get over him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - I'm 16. I dated(unofficially) this guy (17 y/o) for 3 months - May, June and July. Things were great in the beginning and he had been in previous relationships, but I hadn't. We didn't kiss or do anything like that.. I used to hug only, because as...

We have a sexual history and now I want to be just friends. Is that possible or will he always see me as a sex object?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - I've decided that I just want to be friends with someone where the only other 2 times we've met we've hooked up. I don't know why I made it so easy for this person, I'm usually not that type of girl. We didn't actually have sex, just performed oral ...

Will the first time hurt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are planning on having sex for the first time, since im a virgin im scared to know whether i will bleed or it will hurt as ive heard from my friends, im totally ready for sex just have my worries that it will hurt, does your ...

I want to marry him, but what if this means tearing my family apart? They dislike my boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - I recently got back together with my ex bf of a year. I am more in love then ever. I am 20 years old, 2 years into college, and I am having a difficult time telling my parents that we are back together, purely on the fact that he was arrested this ...

I don't know if I am pregnant or not, should I take a test?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - I lost my virginity last month, on Sept. 13th, but a week before that I had my period. So I should be expecting it soon, but for some reason it hasn't come yet, and now i am worried that I might be pregnant. However, i just began university, and i ...

I dislike that my girlfriend hides things from me but she does this because she knows I'm extremly jealous!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

8 October 2008 (M) - my girlfriend knows me well and she knows i get jealous a lot...but its not to were i ask her to not talk to them or w.e...but she just doesnt tell me anything because she knows itll hurt me...I wont denie it..it will but i want to hear the ...

Who makes the first move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - How can you tell if a guy likes you or not? And if they do should you make the first move or wait for them to?...

I'm pregnant after a one night stand. Should I tell the guy? Should I tell my father? I feel so stupid, what am I going to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - should i tell a guy that im pregnant if it was a one night stand? i know his name, where he lives but i dont know how to approach him, or what to say. Im not sure what im going to do, i havent told anybody, is that wise? and if i do tell my father ...

He lies about smoking weed now, I don't want to push him away - how should I handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5683 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - yea hi am 14 and my boyfriend is 15 going on 16 this month.before we started going out he smoked weed all the time and then he told me he quit.but he still dose it once in a while and its not the fact that he dose it that bothers me, it's the fact ...

I don't want to be seen as her best friend anymore - I want more, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5683 days ago

8 October 2008 (M) - There's this girl I've really liked for 2 years right? She considers me one of her best friends. She's so open with me, she tells me EVERYTHING, (bra size, what she does, fantasies, everything). I could do anything and she wouldn't care. But she ...

When I look in the mirror I think I'm ugly.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - hello....... now that I'm growing up and all... i am starting to think I don't look as good as I used to... I used to be able to say I was cute... I never bragged about my looks... but when I look in the mirror I say I'm ugly and someone will say no ...