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Archived questions from: 12 July, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Did she just use me???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

12 July 2009 (M) - Hello im 14 and i have a dilemma. Well my really good freind.. lets call her christina, just broke up with her boyfriend..so she's been really down lately. and she's been hanging around e for a while, we're always together but alot more now. well ...

Should I walk away or should I hold a torch for him till he knows what he wants?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for nearly a year now, we tried to keep it casual and not be serious and seem to finish things every few weeks, yet each time we finish, we can't help but get back to where we were. He recently finished things with me and ...

Is there anything left between us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I met this guy, I've known him 4 years and think I love him. We work together and I was with him for a couple of months knowing well we both had long time partners. He got caught and I didn't but left my fiance. He stayed with his girlfriend and ...

I really need your advice on this one! How can I get her to open up about her feelings towards me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

12 July 2009 (M) - I apologize for the long post, but I feel that I’m experiencing a dilemma that requires some sort of a resolution. About three years ago I became the supervisor of a woman whom I found to be full of contradictions. (Currently I’m 43 and she is 39...

Did these guys like me... and other questions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - Ok, so where I work I am a cashier. So I run into different types of people. But I was curious with these two customers. Do they like me? Please answer all my questions! Here is what happened: Guy # 1: I actually see this guy come through the fron...

He was my first love but now my ex won't talk to me... Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - ok here goes!! just before easter my best friend introduced me to this absolutely amazing guy who was into exactly the same things as me. she was going out with his best friend who i knew from auditions at drama schools, and coincidently, the guy ...

Help with SADS.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I suffer from a mental disorder called Reverse SADS, which basically means that during the summer I become rather depressed, withdrawn and have trouble eating or sleeping. I hate going out during this time but don't like being left behind by my ...

Underappreciated and undervalued, she treated her exes better than me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

12 July 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm new to posting on this website, but i have come here for advice before dealing with my relationship. my girlfriend and i have been going out for almost 8 months now. things were amazing in the beginning. she would do anything to please me ...

I've fallen for him over the internet...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - Actually, I met an English boy 2 months ago on the Internet, and I think all the time about him, I've become addicted to him, to talk to him. I think i'm falling in love. He makes my day... But, i think he doesn't really care about me...'Cause, ...

I fancy my best mate's brother.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5413 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, I’ve got a problem and need some advice. There’s more than meets the eye to the problem, it’s not as simple as just, I fancy my best mate's brother. There’s more but I’ll try to keep it short. Basically like everyone in their first ...

When does teenage life start to get better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I'm sure no-ones had a perfect life as a teenager and I've heard it is one of the most difficult times in life, but I'm always getting told that it does eventually get better, but when? Ever since being around 11 or 12 I've just hated life in ...

Help! Have I ruined my chances?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I like this guy, lets call him ben, i met him a few years back and met up with him recently, when we went into town before a friends concert it started raining so we hid in a shelter. we started playfighting, poking and tapping and i pushed him ...

I really do believe he's my soulmate...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - There is a guy who i believe is my soulmate. Here is the history... We were in primary school and high school together. We spoke 4the 1st time in matric..finally! He said he has always liked me but too shy to talk to me. Anyway, it was great. We got ...

He said "we can begin as good friends with no hidden agenda" what does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I'm really confused. I have split with a long term partner. An old admirer has neen in touch, texting every day, bringing lunch over and flirting by hugging touching my hair etc. I felt a little overwhelmed by his attention and said I needed to ...

Is he really Straight?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

12 July 2009 (M) - Would a straight guy ever let a gay man give him head? I have a friend that I grew up with, we have known each other for over 15 years. We don't see each other very often but every time we do I give him head. He says he likes girls. Is he rea...

I need your help. What do I do next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5413 days ago

12 July 2009 (M) - Hi all, Mine isnt really a problem, but more advice what to do next. I have been very close to a girl for a number of months, however she has a boyfriend. The other day she came out she was going to dump her boyfriend because it just wasnt right...

How can I change her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I've been best friends with my best friend for 5 years now. I love her and she has always been a great best friend. Except for this past year or so. We've never faught or anything. But this year she's changed dramatically! I can barely even trust ...

I told him "I'm not a one day girl".

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12 July 2009 (F) - Hi, I met this guy, my godfathers' nephew a few years back. Recently i hung out with him for like a day and we kissed and cuddled. I told him i wasn't going to go any further with him because i wasn't a one day girl. he told me he wasn't a one day ...

If I don't make a move I'll always wonder "what if..."

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5413 days ago

12 July 2009 (M) - I have been going out with my current girlfriend for a little over 2 years. She is cute and very sweet but, there is a problem. You see my best friend and hers are also dating and the four of us always hangout together. Now I've always had a bit of ...

Frustrated and heart sick

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5413 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I have had a crush on the same guy since high school. As soon as I met him I found him charming, intelligent, hilarious, and really nice. He always set my heart aflutter when I saw him. I figured he was way out of my league as he was a grade ...

I'm totally in love and want to be with her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - Hello Everyone. I'm really confused and hurt over a situation that has literally taken over the past 5 years of my life. In a way I feel angry, because this has taken over and I'm afraid I'll wake up some day and realize that my young life has p...

She only sees me as a friend but I really, really like her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

12 July 2009 (M) - Well, I've liked this girl for a few months now and we've become good friends. She's always acted awkwardly around me in person but she's always talkative and social when I text her or we talk on msn. Recently I told her my feelings and she said ...

Why is my friend never available for me unless it suits her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - Hi, This isn't a romantic question, just a general one that I'd like opinions on. It was my birthday on Friday, and as part of my birthday present to myself I had bought very expensive tickets to a show which I would never get another chance t...

I'm 18, he's 16 and my parents will not be happy about me dating him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I have been single and content for a while now, and so has a guy friend of mine. He came over my house the other day for a haircut and to hang out afterwards, but what is usually friendly poking, hugging, and tickling (we are silly...and ticklish) ...

A one sided love affair

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5413 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - Hi Aunts, I have a friend.I was in one sided love with him. He is confused about his feelings for me. He says he just like talking to me. He says that initially he had lust for me but now his feelings has changed. He doesn't want to do any harm t...

Is she just being herself? Or could her flirting be more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

12 July 2009 (M) - Ok... well... maybe someone could clear this up for me. Im going to try to cut this to the chase because im infamous for writing 1000+ word questions. Never could figure out when a girl was flirting with me, especially this one. She's very flir...

Life is overwhelming, this lady's got the blues...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - Hey Cupids, I'm finally turning to you for advice, or maybe I'm just looking for some warmth and tips from those who have been in the same position. I'm 22 (nearly 23) and I'm bumming. It's been a really hard summer. My Grandma (who I'm very...

I like her but I'm not sure if I want to be in a relationship with her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

12 July 2009 (M) - Hi, I started talking to a girl who's a few months younger than me (I'm almost 17) a couple of months ago. At first, I was very excited to get to know her. We've hung out a handful of times and she seems to be very interested in me (and her friends ...

I have feelings for him but set him up on a date and now I feel badly

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5414 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I am a successful 39 year old married Business woman that developed a strong friendship with one of my single male contractors. When I was going through a rough patch in my marriage he was there for me and we would talk a lot about our feelings in ...