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*eliine
writes:Actually, I met an English boy 2 months ago on the Internet, and I think all the time about him, I've become addicted to him, to talk to him. I think i'm falling in love. He makes my day... But, i think he doesn't really care about me...'Cause, he's never the first to talk.I feel stupid to say that here 'cause what can you do? But i need tell my story to someone. I don't know what to do. I try to keep a distance between us but it's so hard... Well, thanx if you've read it and ... :)
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reader, Celiine +, writes (7 August 2009):
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I'm ok with this guy now. I talk to him but that's all.
I met a guy this week and i really like him :).
Thank you so much :).
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reader, sammi star  +, writes (13 July 2009):
 It's easy to become attached to someone you never talk to face to face because you feel you can say things with a kind of honesty that you wouldn't usually.
You may think you love him hun but think about it, how well do you know him? He can't show you his bad points over the computer can he? You can never know someone well enough by just talking to them online.
I really think you should try to forget about this boy. I know that's not what you wanted to hear but you're only going to end up getting hurt. You're so young-get out there with your friends and meet guys closer to home, boys you have a real chance with. Good luck x
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reader, betty_black +, writes (12 July 2009):
 I don't want to be a cynic but i've had two internet romances. Both of which i felt the way you do about them. One lived in the US and one lived a couple of hours away from me. I fell for them both, and both ended in tears. I met the guy from a couple hours away and shortly after we met he cut me out of his life and got another girlfriend. Turns out he was chatting up this other girl at the same time as me, met us both and made a decision. The one in the US was deemed impossible, mainly because of the distance. And as you have a great distance and are so young yourself, do you really see this going anywhere? You cannot create a relationship on the basis of chatting for a few hours on the internet, this wont go anywhere. And will you ever meet him? Will that be possible? And how do you know A) this guy is who he claims he is and b) this guy is even THAT into you? I'm sorry to be so pessimistic, but you may have to get over this, its just lust my dear and you WILL get over it. Carry on if you may, but you'll just fall deeper and deeper and he'll either stop talking all together or you'll become heartbroke because you wont get to meet.
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