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writes:Hi all, I hope you can help me with a cultural question. Sorry if my English is not very good. I speak English at home but I grew up in a Southeast Asian country.In my country I am considered a banana. This means I am yellow on the outside but white inside. This is because even though my ancestry is from China, I don't speak Chinese, I don't watch Chinese movies, I don't listen to Chinese songs. My parents also consider themselves bananas. But they are more typical Asians than me. For me, I prefer to escape from my 3rd world country to a better place. But my parents consider me betraying our Asian identity if I leave the country.Maybe it is because I have not many friends. Most Asian people here speak Chinese so I don't fit in. Maybe it is because I have a condition called Aspergers syndrome. It means I have limited social skills. Anyway, whatever the reason, I don't belong in my parents beloved country.Like most Asian parents, my parents made me study hard and wanted me to be a doctor. My bigger sister is a doctor. But my exam results were good but not excellent so I only got to study Computer Science at university.I worked for 3 years in CS but I didn't like it. My true passion is art. I like interior design, fashion, drawing, painting. But my parents said they are not real jobs and I should be proud of my achievements. They said I should also think of making them proud.When I was working at previous company, they sent me to Europe for 6 months for training. It was an eye opening experience. I found that western culture is more progressive. In Europe parents want their children to be happy and do jobs that they actually love doing. And there is more equality between men and women. Also, my country has the most conservative culture. Most women are expected to be virgins until married.Anyway I decided that I want to migrate to a developed country. I decided to do a Master Degree in New Zealand. Initially to support myself, I worked in an Asian restaurant. Because it was difficult to find other jobs. But the job was difficult for me as I am an introvert and it was very stressful to deal with so many customers in a noisy environment. Eventually the money minded Asian restaurant owners fired me.Deep down inside my true passion is still art. I attended some landscape painting plein air classes. I made some friends at these classes. We share a house and although they are more extrovert that me, we are good friends.One of my roommates works as a life drawing model at various art schools. She recommended I try modelling as she knew many art teachers. I was initially reluctant because 90% of these classes required the model to pose without clothes. But after attending several sessions as a student, I found the job was actually very positive and respectful. And it is actually contributing to society. Many of the students became professional artist who make video games, movie special effects, children book illustrators. And some of the students were children between the ages of 8 to 12, so it is not a shameful job.I worked as a life model for about one year and I really loved it. Because I am an introvert, the quiet environment was very suitable. Some art teachers allowed me to read books while I did a sitting pose. Sometimes I listened to podcasts or recorded university lectures with my earphones. The job also improved my self esteem. Although I am introvert, I also like to meet people. I made many friends in the artistic circle.I have not told my family about this as they would not be able to accept it.When Covid19 struck, I lost my modelling job. I still continued my Masters Degree, which is for me to become a UX designer. A UX designer is an Comp Sci job with artistic elements. I find it more interesting than my old CS job but meeting all these people through my modelling job has inspired me. I want to follow my dreams like my western friends. I don't want to follow 'dreams' like my Asian friends. They just care about the 5 Cs - Cash, Car, Credit card, Condominium and Country club membership.So I am thinking of starting a new career. Maybe as a painter or illustrator. But I think I don't have that much raw talent so I need a backup plan. So I will first finish my UX degree so I can still find a 9 to 5 job. But deep down inside I know I will feel miserable in a corporate enviroment. I am thinking of a career in interior design. But it will be expensive to start over again.But I don't really care about my job as long as I don't return to my conservative 3rd world country. I am thinking of migrating to New Zealand or Australia as I can use my CS experience to get a Visa. Even if my Visa says i am a software engineer, I actually don't need to work as an engineer after I get my Au or NZ Visa. My long term goal is to become an interior designer but I am prepared for failure. I actually don't mind my job as a life drawing model as it is enjoyable. I have been criticized that it is a lazy persons job and my salary will not rise no matter how many years I work as an art model. But I don't care. I don't care about status. I don't care about climbing the corporate ladder. I enjoy reading, meeting new people, and just being myself.I think this path as a life drawing model is difficult for me too. Ever since the Covid 19 pandemic, it was been difficult for me to get modelling jobs. It is easier for my roommate as she is local but even she works lesser hours nowsaday. She is very open about her job so she has an online CV with a nude portfolio, and she is caucasion and tall and athletic and can hold difficult posed for long hours so she often gets contacted by employers while I have to phone art schools to apply for jobs. I don't think I am ready to go public. My parents don't know about my job. I am keeping this a secret, I think it is not good for my mental health.Sorry for my long post. I hope someone can give some opinions. I hope no one will scold me and call me lazy or unambitious or un-Asian or immoral or weird. I have been called all those I sometimes feel like a subhuman.My questions are what do you think about me switching to an Interior Design career. Also, should I continue with my art modelling career and go public about it? Even if I do not continue modelling, should I tell my parents that I once worked as art model. I usually do not hide things from my parents so hiding this from them makes me feel very heavy inside. But if I tell them, they might disown me because i dishonoured them. They love me very much. But they are so typical Asians from Oriental backgrounds.I think if I manage to migrate to a western country things will be ok for me. But if I choose this new path I will never be accepted in my home society ever again.Thank you in advance.Regards,anonymous
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2020): I assumed you were from Malaysia based on the flag above your post; and note there is a large population of Muslims in Malaysia. There are also a lot of Chinese in Malaysia who live there, but migrate to and from China.
Everyone who disagrees with your choices are not misogynists or against you, my dear. You indicated your age between 18-21; so we gave the advice best suited for someone that age. I do agree with you about American politics to some degree; it is fortunate that we have a new administration, and we look forward to some changes in the next four years.
As I mentioned previously; everywhere we live different from where we've come from seems better. It's once you've lived there for an extended period, and have to make a living there; that's when you begin to realize what the society and their politics are truly like. All nations have their strengths and shortcomings. There is nothing wrong with nude modeling for art; you seem quite defensive about it. Being more experienced than you, and having been in the modeling profession myself; I also happen to know what can happen to young inexperienced naive girls and guys, if they run into the wrong people. That's what we all advised against, not nude modeling. You are entitle to do as you please. After all, you're the one who has to suffer the consequences.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2020): You have very long snarky posts and spend a great deal of your your narrative rebutting advice. Why did you write DC? If everything you wrote about yourself isn't accurate or to hide who you are; then I guess nothing you say really makes much sense. You didn't give your real age or where you come from. Then how do we know that anything else you've said isn't just a lot of stuff you've just made-up?
You seem to have all the answers. So why did you come to DC, just to write long passages and complain? We give advice to those actually seeking answers. It's not up to us to tell you how to live; but if you ask for advice, what's the point when all you're going to do is disagree?
I think you're just venting and exercising your writing skills. A lot of words, but very little to say. Maybe your story isn't real at all. I don't make it a practice to jump to conclusions, I base my answers on the information given by the writer of the post. If the post is disjointed and full of nonsense, we just do the best we can.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2020): I am on the autistic spectrum too. I am 36 years old. I worked for many years as a database administrator in a large company and earned a six figure salary but I wasn't happy. I quit three years ago and now drive for Uber. I am happier just driving around and exploring my home city and I don't miss office politics and my nasty co-workers. My parents were initially disappointed but they have accepted it. They say they are happy as long as I am happy! I envy your nude modelling job. Your art instructor must be a very nice person because he allows you to read books while posing. I think a UX Designer is a good job if you don't mind having to interact with customers. Lots of businesses require nice web sites. Everyone shops online these days. I am more of an introvert so I prefer the quiet drives and I only talk with my passengers occasionally. But I am an avid reader like yourself and I wish I had more time to read and pursue my other hobbies. I sometimes bring a book and read in between ferrying passengers. Unlike you, I am not very ambitious and I am perfectly happy with my driving job.It is nice to have an ambition. An Interior Designer job can be very lucrative. There is always big money in real estate. If you partner with a house flipper and renovate old houses, you can make a lot of money. I believe you are very talented and this job will suit you. You are intelligent, beautiful, and talented. It is uncommon to have all these qualities at once. I wish you all the best and I hope you do not give up on pursuing your dreams. I think there is nothing your with your nude modelling job. I know that it is difficult to balance between waiting tables and having to hit the books at night. However I don't think many people stay in this job forever. They usually do jobs like these to earn money while pursuing bigger dreams. Also jobs like these may be irrelevant in the future. Technology is actually gradually replacing the need for traditional life models. There are computer programs such as Poser that allow artists to pose a 3D human figure in various poses and use it as reference for drawing.Just remember to stay safe while modelling. Always work with reputable colleges or art schools. Try not to work late at night and try not to travel alone. Try to avoid sparsely populated locations. I mean do not walk alone on an empty street. If a dude asks you to pose for him personally, avoid at all costs, even if he is a famous painter like Picasso. It is better to pose in front of a large group of people in a well known institution. I think it is safer this way. Also, do not pose for photographers. Your photos might end up on the internet and it is impossible to remove them.I know that we people on the spectrum tend to be blunt and honest and we don't like to hide secrets from our close ones, but I agree with the other posters here. You should not tell your parents that you pose nude.Take care.
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (11 December 2020):
I get the difference for a woman in Muslim countries, though, of course not, to the extend that a MUSLIMS/ Non-Muslim woman would who has lived it, as I never had. I have been to a couple of Muslim countries (Tunisia and Morocco) but it was as a tourist and well over 35+ years ago. Being a tourist is VERY different from living there.
It is a big decision to make alone. Would your family cut you off from contact if you made this move? Is your family Muslims?
So if you can not return to your home country ever, are you ready for that?
Just a quick note to anyone who thinks a live model is always nude.... I have taken art classes with live models and maybe once or twice out of maybe 30? were they almost naked or naked. We had both male and female models. I see no shame in that. What so ever. A model doesn't HAVE to take of all their clothes it's negotiate BEFORE the class even start. It all depends on what is studies. Lights and shadows, fabric draping, odd positions, proportions can be done with a dressed model. A leotard can be worn.
With that said, I do think it is wise to get a job that you don't have to keep quiet, to your parents is best. And safest. For you.
Maybe look at book stores? Or campus shops?
Also there are many VERY good computer programs people can use in Interior design, something to consider.
And art and technology can go hand in hand too.
I do think talking to your parents about adding on to your degree, because you are interested in things like Interior design, maybe they will listen?
At 18-20 it's VERY young to go out on your own as far as immigrating. Especially if you do not have your family's support. It is not a decision to make lightly.
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reader, anonymous2020 +, writes (11 December 2020):
anonymous2020 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi WiseOwlE,I thank you for your advice. :-) But I think sometimes you jump to conclusions. And do not read my question properly. # You wrote: You still have to return to China!# I wrote: "I speak English at home but I grew up in a Southeast Asian country."Actually not many people do not realize that China is Far East Asia, not SE Asia. I did not want to mention my country. I am actually from a country near Singapore.# You wrote: Most western-parents don't want that for their daughters your age!!!Actually I did not put down my real birth date when I registered on this web site. I am actually in my late 20s. I am quite independent actually. I am not as naive as you think.# You wrote: Your income is probably supplemented by your parentsNo. When I was working part time when studying I actually sent back some money to my parents. My undergraduate degrees fees were paid by a scholarship. My graduate degree I paid using my savings from my first job. A restaurant worker in a western country can earn more than a restaurant worker in Asia. Though rents here are much more expensive. So i still need to work to pay my rent.# You wrote: All you need to do is a add an artistic-element to your computer science training; like illustration and animation; and you're pretty much on your way.# I wrote: I still continued my Masters Degree, which is for me to become a UX designer. A UX designer is an Comp Sci job with artistic elements. Yes it can be considered artistic, because I will design the menus and user interfaces and graphics of apps that people use on smartphones, computers. It is more interesting for me than being an programmer. Most programmers are very technical but they make user interfaces that are not friendly to use. I am glad that you agree with my decision. :-) But you did not read my question properly.# You wrote: If it was legitimate, you wouldn't hide it! Now would you?# I wrote: "I have been criticized that it is a lazy persons job and my salary will not rise no matter how many years I work as an art model."I am not doing it in secret. Many people know about my job. Some people criticize me, some avoid me, but many are supportive. I just don't tell very conservative people. Such as from my culture. Asians born in the west are less conservative, but they are still money minded and think I am unambitious. I don't care.# You wrote: Some of your choices are a bit questionable. Live-model?!! I would assume "nude-modeling?" # Why do you say some of my choices are a bit questionable? Yes it was nude modelling, but it is not porn. I model for art students and some elderly people who paint as a hobby. I do not posed for photographers. There is nothing sexual or degrading about it. Are you saying it is not respectable for a woman to take such a job? Are you saying nude models are failures in society? Are you also saying that a smart person who chooses a job such as a truck driver or janitor made a questionable choice. In my country, yes. A truck driver or janitor is considered a failure. Even a construction worker or plumber. They are paid less than "more successful" poeple like engineers or doctors. But that is in Asia. People are very status consious there. I have been to countries such as Australia and New Zealand where plumbers earn much more than engineers. They are less status conscious there. Did you know that Cherie Blair, wive of former UK Prime Minister worked as a nude life drawing model? I have been to art classes in Asia where the model was nude. I was a student there and not nude there but I observed that the other students did not respect the model the same way as in western countries. They were not rude but they looked at her with pity like they felt sorry for her, or some males were perverts and looked at them sexually. When I was modelling nude in NZ, I always felt respected. During my art classes during the breaks, sometimes the students would bring cookies they baked and they shared the food with me, and even though I was fully nude when chatting with them, I never felt disrespected. Even when a man was talking to me, I didn't even feel that I was nude when chatting with them. It was totally different when growing up in my country. I remember wearing a sleeveless top to the government office to get my driver license renewed. But the officer told me to go home and change into something more "decent"!!! Because my exposed shoulders were arousing? In my country, women are blamed when they are raped. Because they wear revealing clothes. The man should be blamed but the woman is blamed instead. We should not blame women for wearing revealing clothes in public. We should not blame women even if they are nude in public. Just because men are brought up to think of women as nothing more than sex objects. In more progressive cultures such as in Europe, it is common for men and women to socialise in the nude. I know this because I have been to some Nordic countries. In most health clubs and gyms, after exercising, men and women and go to the showers, sauna and swimming pools nude together. Women and men have more equality there. That is why these countries are so progressive. In Japan there also used to be mixed gender nude saunas, but they stopped it many years ago. Now men and women have separate baths. Maybe it is because Japanese society there is getting more misogynistic. It is funny because Western cultures are becoming less and less misogynistic. While Asian countries are getting more misogynistic. In my country 50 years ago women were expected to be house wives and not have a job. Even today some husbands look at women as filthy child bearing objects. It is still common for some families to have 2 washing machines at home. Because womens clothes cannot be mixed with mens. Because she menstruates. Even if she does not put her panties in the machine. But I am surprised that some western cultures are also so misogynistic. I have not been to USA but from what I read, the American people had voted for a very misogynistic President. I am happy that he is no longer President. I think among western cultures, European cultures are more progressive. When I was a child I always dreamed of immigrating to USA, but no more. They also seem like more racist because they supported a racist President. Actually I think Oriental cultures are also quite racist. Asians do not like to assimilate with other cultures. Asian parents do not like when their children speak English at home, do not like when their children marry a non Asian. But I am afraid of those White Supremacist type of racists in USA the most, they are very dangerous.I am curious about which country you are from WiseOwlE?Because there are many replies here but only you condemned me because of my nude modelling job. Are you from the USA? Do you enjoy watching porn or looking at nude women on the internet so you objectify women so the moment you see a nude woman you automatically get aroused and think of sex? I hope I don't seem like I am angry with you, I do not blame it if you grew up in the same culture as mine. I consider myself a feminist. Do you support the #MeToo movement? Will you vote for a female President of USA? Sorry if I asked too many questions, you don't have to answer them. I am just curious to know because I am not familiar with American culture.I still thank you for your honest opinions. Somehow I think you are a good and kind hearted person and just want to help. :-)I hope you do not get angry with me or take it personally. Regards,anonymous
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2020): Your story is very typical of the posts received from Asian and Middle eastern women, here at DC. I am very careful with my advice, because your internet-communications maybe be monitored, not necessarily to your knowledge. Your parents may also be more aware of what you're up-to than you may think!
The grass is always greener on the other side. When very young American, Canadian, European and other western-cultures head to other nations as students; they somehow find ways to identify with the locals, or want to adopt a new philosophy, consider a new religion, or become a citizen in their adopted country. What's new and exciting always seems better.
You cannot shed your DNA or your heritage. Everywhere you go, it goes with you. The problem is not that you want to grow and no-one allows you to; it is having some kind of disdain for your own culture. Seeing all that's good about elsewhere; and all that's wrong with who you are and your own origins. It is good that you are able to travel, and expand your knowledge and learn. That's how you make well-informed decisions.
In the end, your parents will acquiesce; and support whatever professional-path you take; because once you're old enough, they know there's not much they can do about it.
Some of your choices are a bit questionable. Live-model?!! I would assume "nude-modeling?" How on earth would your Chinese parents approve of that??? Most western-parents don't want that for their daughters your age!!! Whom are otherwise supposed to be pursuing their academic studies; not pealing off their clothes in-front of a room of strangers!
It's inevitable that when we go away to college; we will do everything we're forbidden to do! That's a given! It's giving-in under peer pressure and following the crowd. I hope you learn to be more independent when it comes to people other than your own parents! Others don't care for you as they do! Remember that, while you're being so wise and determined. I know, that's part of growing-up and gaining experience. Unfortunately, we also make some really terrible decisions! There is a complicated path to citizenship; no matter where you go in the world. The sheltered -life of a student isn't exactly the same as living in the real-world, struggling and supporting yourself 100%. You have parents on the peripheral ready to catch you when you fail, or do something stupid! You also have a government keeping an eye on you, as well! Don't forget that, sweetie!
You have to work to earn money, and you have to earn enough to survive. Your income is probably supplemented by your parents, or they (and/or your government) may be paying for your education and living expenses. You won't instantly be given a visa or free movement without undergoing some serious bureaucratic red-tape. As a student, it seems easy; but they limit your travel and the length of your stay on both ends.
You will eventually comeback down to earth; and see that no matter where you live in the world, you will not find a perfect society. Granted, women's rights are better; but they still have a long way to go. All over the world! You're growing-up, hence, it's normal to be drawn to anywhere different from where we've come from. I've myself have traveled and lived in many places. Not before I completed my education and had a job waiting! I also made changes in profession. From medical healthcare to finance in the corporate sector.
All you need to do is a add an artistic-element to your computer science training; like illustration and animation; and you're pretty much on your way.
For now, you have to concentrate on completing your grad studies; and add everything you really want as side-studies while working. Hiding things from your parents is a part of becoming an adult. Often, naive young-women move to foreign-countries; and become naively entangled in the darker-side of that culture. You are not experienced enough; and you might be placing yourself in danger. You are following the other students, thinking all they do is so cool. They're also making risky choices, and questionable decisions. Don't be a follower, while complaining about how controlled you are by family and society. You're contradicting yourself. You'll do just about anything your roommates will do! If it was legitimate, you wouldn't hide it! Now would you?
If you insist on the art-modeling, do not accept jobs outside of an artistic-setting in an academic institution. This is how naive girls get drawn into porn and prostitution. I think you're a little above your head, and trying to keep-up with people who were born and raised in a western-culture. Just not speaking Chinese and being what you've referred to as being a "banana;" doesn't make you ready to plunge into a culture that could overwhelm and totally consume you. You still have to return to China!
I totally disagree that art is unacceptable to your society. You don't want to take your parent's suggestions. That is the case! You want to defy the norms and limitations set on Chinese women. Sorry, but in every society it comes down to the Five-C's! Don't kid yourself!!!
Let me remind you, kiddo, that the most beautiful arts, crafts, and music in the world comes from China. They also have anime, modern sculpture, computer art, and everything anywhere else in the world has. It's not limited to the town you grew-up in. You're just the same as anyone who is impressed with another culture; because it's all new to you.
Once the novelty wears-off, the veneer fades-away, and it comes time to fend for yourself; you will begin to see all the similarities between cultures. Especially, when it comes to parents. Those other students you know, your roommates, are living in defiance of their own cultures and upbringing! What do you think would be happening if their parents were there? They've got you fooled that they have carefree-lives, uninhibited by rules, and they can do whatever they choose. That isn't the case at all! They also have to answer to their parents and society; as do we all!
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reader, anonymous2020 +, writes (11 December 2020):
anonymous2020 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi Honeypie,Thanks for answering my question.I will follow your advice. I have not been working at the art class for several months already due to the Covid 19. But I will stop that job and look for another part time job. Maybe I will work at the restaurant again.This way I do not need to lie to my parents again. Previously I lied to them that I was working at the restaurant when i was actually working at the art class.I also agree with you that omitting the truth is not really lieing. But I do not agree with you when you said I cannot return to my country if I do certain jobs. Even though I am not Muslim, the majority of the people in my country are Muslim. Some normal things are considered very sinful by them. But I do not blame you for not knowing because you did not grow up in my country.Regards,anonymous
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (10 December 2020):
I think this is a hard question to give advice on because we (you and I) have such different backgrounds culturally. I will try nevertheless.
First off, YOU have to live YOUR life. Not the life your parents think you should live or want you to live.
BUT do so with some respect of your parents, your culture and of course, yourself.
Which is why I would NOT tell them about the art modelling, no yet. I don't think it's a bad thing to keep SOME secrets to yourself. Especially, when you know it could lead them to disown you. I think you might feel by "omitting" the truth of what you have done for work, you are lying to them. Which I understand. But, can you handle being disowned? Maybe instead of feeling like you are lying, you can perhaps hold off on telling them until YOU are ready?
Just like YOU have your OWN ideas of what you want out of life, where you want to live and make a life, THEY (your parents) have THEIR own ideas and notions based on their own upbringing, life and experiences.
Just because your ideas and theirs don't overlap doesn't mean YOUR ideas or THEIR's are bad or wrong. Doesn't mean that their cultural norms and values are wrong per se, might be "wrong" for you. Just like Western culture isn't all great either. I think most cultures have some good and some bad in them.
I think finishing your degree is a good idea. And yes a degree in IT would make it easier for you to emigrate and find work. Does it mean you HAVE to work in that field only? no. But it will give you SECURITY when you are new to a new country and new culture.
If you then WANT to try other things, you can save up and do a degree in Interior decorating or whatever tickles your fancy! A job in tech will make it MUCH easier to save money for another degree.
I think your parents want you to be successful so you don't HAVE to be poor ever. I think they perhaps know more about being poor. And it's a status symbol for them to have successful children. If being successful means chasing those C's - then THAT is what they want for you. I think they believe it will make YOUR life easier.
Sometimes though, you won't FIT into what THEY want for you. I don't think you are lazy for not wanting to climb the cooperate ladder - I don't think everyone is cut out for that. and we can't ALL do the same.
It doesn't make you immoral for wanting a different life than what your parents want for you. Or un-Asian, weird or subhuman. You ARE you.
You sound like a thoughtful, ambitious person with big dreams. It's just not the dreams of C's that you parents have for you. It's your OWN dreams. They seem realistic to me.
I don't think you can never go back home, if you try something different, career-wise, down the line.
I think you have to decide FOR yourself what you really want and then GO for it. This is your life, how do you want to live it?
Not sure if that was any help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2020): Look,do you want an honest opinion although you might not like it? I think you should get married someone who is from a western culture who will fit your expectations and believes, that way you will be out of your parents jurisdiction and also he can support you financially to pursue your dream of becoming an interior designer. Until that happens continue doing whatever work you are doing now to support yourself so you have a roof over your head and food in you belly.Absolutely no need to tell your parents of what work you are doing now. They are far away from you and the chance of them finding out is very slim. So no need to cause them unnecessary pain and heartache. I hope you succeed. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2020): HiYou have to follow your own path and live your life not your parent's life, of course, they want what they feel best for you, but it may not be what you want.You studied computer science, great! this is the future fr you youngsters, web designers many creative industries. Just be aware that in the new medical careers the arts are very important and relevant, attracting high salaries. Just want to comment on the part you say that your parents have said regarding the arts not been a real job. The comments that I often hear about the Arts been irrelevant as a career. This astounds me sometimes and is based on sheer ignorance and a stereotypical vision of what the arts are about, the arts are ancient and of great significance in our world. we had sacred geometry, Leonardo Davinci, and the golden spiral connected to all nature and art. We had Pythagoras the mathematician who was the first person to prescribe music as medicine. He is considered the “Father of Harmonics”. He applied the principles of harmonics to everything from music, art, and architecture to running governments. This is how ultrasound came into our modern-day medical world. Artists are great problem solvers and visionaries with sensitivity and perception about their surroundings. They are pioneers who are not afraid to try new things, they are creatives and risk-takers, thinking out of the tight social structures that make people afraid to try new things.There is literature that explores the relationship between the arts and medicine and is going to be coming more to the forefront very soon, especially in health care and wellbeing, medical students study humanities studying the effects of arts on the brain and physical arts for rehabilitation. literature that explores the relationship between the arts and medicine can not be viewed as a wasted career.I suggest you start researching properly the creative industries and creative technologies that are developing and involve your parents in this research. Show them that there are possibilities to incorporate your passion for the arts.
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