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A friend has become obsessive and the guy can't see it

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Question - (3 December 2014) 6 Answers - (Newest, 4 December 2014)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi everyone im hoping someone can shed some light on what i feel is an obsessive situation, my friend has this friend who i have never met and everytime he puts something on facebook she likes it any photo she likes it he could just put a random word like 'paper' and she would like it, he knows she likes him but has told her nothing will ever happen between them ever , i dont think he sees it the same as me and other friends but its like a form of "facebook stalking" how can i get him to see its over the top n creepy

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A female reader, RubyBirtle United Kingdom +, writes (4 December 2014):

Stalking is only stalking if it's threatening to the target. (i.e if the target FEELS vulnerable or threatened by it)

If your friend isn't at all bothered by this girl contantly "liking" everything on his facebook page and she's not being malicious, then it can't be considered stalking.

If he is bothered, he can just block her from facebook. But he's an adult and he can decide when and if he wants to do that.

In your update you mention that she's also driving past his place of work. Does he know this?

If you're truly concerned I guess you could ask him if he's bothered by all her attention. But if he isn't, then you shouldn't mention it again because it's his business

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2014):

I'm the op , I'm closer to him than she is but I guess no1 understands stalking since everyone here says keep my nose out well let's hope none of you lot have a "stalker" in your life and friends who look out for you

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A male reader, lifesgreat United Kingdom +, writes (4 December 2014):

I am guessing he is close to your age?

In which case hopefully he can look after himself.

just leave it be .. as long as she doesn't start hassling you its none of your concern

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2014):

im the op , its called looking out for a friend , theres a few of us have noticed her behaviour and weve now found out shes driving past his work place and his house . she lives 15 mile away from him and works in her own home town and no she doesnt know anyone who lives where he lives or where he works

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2014):

I honestly don't think what she does with HER friend is any of your business. They may have a inside joke going on that you don't know about.

If he's not your friend, don't worry about it because you talking to him about it will make YOU seem like the creepy one!

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (4 December 2014):

Honeypie agony auntYou can but out?

If you think she is creepy and stalkerish... then HIDE her feeds so you can't see them.

If he doesn't think she is weird or creepy, then that is on him.

I can't really see what business this is of yours.

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