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30-35,
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writes:I started talking to this guy that I knew of through my friend at uni.We started talking on facebook about a month ago and hit it off right away. He always flirts with me and still does but his texts are getting very short and he's less attentive. He also takes a while to reply now as opposed to when we first started talking, I could tell he enjoyed speaking with me.He hinted he was going to take me out this friday but went partying instead and hasn't spoke of that since.He has been working and partying but he always replied right away to me previous. Even with a lot going on. He still flirts with me and today was complimenting my photos . Calling me boo, queen, beautiful etc. but still takes a while to reply. He said to me today:Him - 'feels like we haven't spoken for ages'I said to him 'I know. Quite weird'He said - You miss me?Me - depends...on if you miss meHim - of course i do.He then said he was going to take a nap and an hour later said he's back but didn't sleep :|I don't like playing games but I feel like I've been too available. I fell out with my best friend and have finished my summer job. I like him but I don't want to waste my time . Any advice on what to do?
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reader, 02DuszJ +, writes (11 August 2014):
 You're both very young and at the exact stage when partying, boozing the single student life is new and seems like the most exciting thing on this earth... Lol, just saying that something SERIOUS like a relationship is guna be hard to find with guys your age just starting out at uni... Maybe you're in a differ t place, wanting to go out WITH your S other to social events, parties is what you want- but understand that for a LOT of young single blokes at this stage, they're like excitable pups, don't mature as fast as girls and it's just apparent that any "romantic" action that get just ends up as another notch on their bedpost... And honestly... He doesn't seem like relationship material at all... For a start he's blowing hot n cold , never a good sign, and can't commit to plans... His attentions to you honestly seem a bit insincere and I would tread very carefully... A bit of fun if that's what you WANT, but if I was you I'd keep browsing for something better! Have fun, Look after yourself, and your dignity...:) good luck x
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