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Do men like biting and scratching during sex?

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Question - (11 August 2014) 9 Answers - (Newest, 11 August 2014)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Is it enjoyable for a guy to have his back grabbed/ lightly scratched during sex? Lip bitten? I just don't want to hurt or turn men off.

When I get excited, I can't help it!

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A male reader, crushed_by_love United Kingdom +, writes (11 August 2014):

If its in the heats of passion, then yeah!

If its premeditated, then its going into the realms of bdsm, which is something else entirely and something that should be discussed beforehand with your partner

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2014):

I don't see why they would. I have had a guy that thought pulling my hair and choking me would turn me on......mmmmm not so much.

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A male reader, Mark1978 United Kingdom +, writes (11 August 2014):

Mark1978 agony auntI would cry like a baby, need some anti-septic on my wounds and a cuddle from my mommy. Sounds like agony. Maybe some men would like that kind of thing, but personally I would not.

I agree that asking him is the best course of action.

Mark

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (11 August 2014):

eyeswideopen agony auntMake sure you ask before you bite or scratch, some reactions may be quite severe. Consider it another chapter of the safe sex manual.

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (11 August 2014):

olderthandirt agony auntIdon't know about other men but this man would probably not take kindly to that sort of action, a simple moan or yes yes is sufficient to let me know all is well.

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A female reader, WhenCowsAttack United States +, writes (11 August 2014):

It's funny to me when people ask do guys or girls like this or that during sex.

Everyone is different. Everyone has different turn ons. Your question is really unanswerable. Might as well have asked if your guy will enjoy being spanked and tied up while wearing your panties. How would we know? We aren't sleeping with him, you are. Ask him.

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A female reader, mystiquek United States + , writes (11 August 2014):

mystiquek agony auntIt will differ with each man. Some men might find it quite exciting and feel complimented by it. Other men would be horrified/freaked out.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2014):

I would just ask them, just a whisper and ask if they like xxx...I know they like their back rubbed and scratched, well my guy does, but the lip biting? I don't know about that one, just ask and giggle about it and test it out...

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (11 August 2014):

So_Very_Confused agony auntso do

some do not

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