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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why do women treat nice guys badly?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

27 March 2013 (M)

age - hi, to all you women who say you want to meet a nice guy, but when you do, you treat him like sh.t, but a bad guy comes around you fall madly in love, you all say thats not true, but think about it,a nice guy you know what hes going to say, what hes going to do, where hes at, ... (111 words)

Not totally sure if I am friendzoned or still have chance or even missed my chance.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

27 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, so I'm trying to get some help with my situation because I am quite confused. This might be a little long too so I apologize. Little backstory: I've met this girl in college about 2 years ago. She's since graduated and I am little less than 2 months away from my own grad... (839 words)

Please help! How should I act with my friend now that he has said we should just be friends.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

27 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I need some help as im not sure what way i should be acting with a certain fella. Im usually a push over so im not sure if im entitled to be angry in this situation or not. So please read and tell me how i should act now with this person. Me and a friend have know... (671 words)

Could It Be Possible That He Liked Me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

27 March 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, so it might be a bit late to ask this but I only suspected it now. About 2 or 3 years ago. There's this guy lets call him James. He always said hey(my name)! In a voice like he was happy to see me all the time. I loved the way he said my name. Every time he'd call me I'd ... (297 words)

Is it the wrong time to be marrying with dating sites in the background?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

27 March 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I am getting married in June. Two years ago I found her to be going on dating sites. First she lied about it, and then admitted she did it for a joke. I caught her doing it again and I left that time. We got back after she begged me and promised she wouldnt go on them again, ... (123 words)

Boyfriend of two years wont stay at my place

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

27 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been divorced for 3 yrs and I have two kids 4 and 13 I have been with my bf for two yrs. my xhusband and I had a two family home and when we divorced he lived in one half I lived in the other and I had the kids all day and he took them at night and they slept at his ... (478 words)

My boyfriend is becoming more annoying!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

27 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - hey (: okay basically me and my bf have been together for nearly 9 months we are absolutely perfect together, but recently he has been more annoying around his mates he brings up stuff like when I texted him quite late at night ages ago but he has told all his mates I text... (211 words)

My husband constantly criticises me. How can I get him to stop and show me more respect?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

27 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have married and moved in with my husband within the past year. I'm finding he constantly criticises me, mimics what i say or actions i do (sneeze, cough). I'm nearly scared to speak. I've told him to cut it out but he just laughs says if I did it to him it wouldnt bother ... (84 words)

She's detached, doesn't like sex, won't work on counseling, doesn't want to split, I'm confused, what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

27 March 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - my wife has been detached for maybe past 3-4 years emotionally. She will not kiss me or when we have sex might as well be using a doctor scrub outfit. just very maybe agonizing for her, i ask her why and she says shes just very angry with me which is about all the time. Mostly ... (248 words)

For females, are squirting and orgasms two separate things or when a female squirts is that the orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

27 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - For females, are squirting and orgasms two separate things or when a female squirts is that the orgasm?? I have squirted three times but don't ever remember feeling that big "O" moment where my body shook uncontrollably.. I don't know if I've truly had an orgasm. Can some... (52 words)

My boyfriend's friend hates me, why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

27 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now, and was introduced to him by his friend.. Lets name him Bob. Bob and my boyfriend were good friends when they were younger, then drifted apart, but since me and my boyfriend have been together they have got closer again. ... (318 words)

What do I do about this ring intended for my ex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

27 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey all, I have what I think is an unusual question. For Christmas 2012 I bought my then girlfriend a ring. Not an engagement ring, but a little bit of an expensive ring that has a heart made out of rubies filled in with diamonds. Well her and I broke up the week before ... (281 words)

She's flirting with my boyfriend right in front of me! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

27 March 2013 (?) age 30-35 - I have been feeling very sad and stressed out lately. I have a boyfriend of two years. For a while now, there is this girl who's mutual friends with my boyfriend and his friends. I've known her for a while and she has always had a problem with me and doesn't like me, etc etc so ... (208 words)

My BF was still hung up on his ex when we got together and I feel resentful. How can I get over it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

27 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Are breaks in a relationship ever a good idea? Just to give some background: my bf and I have been together ten months. We love each other, we've been honest with each other, we trust each other, and we want to make this relationship work. The problem is how we started ... (433 words)

I'm in a LDR and falling for another man. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

27 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my current BF for more than 2 years, but we've spent more than 1.5 years in LDR. Honestly, it's a torture, but we managed to pull it through and in a couple of months we'll be able to see each other again for good (i'm going back home), no more LDR. It used to ... (223 words)

Why don't guys approach me, and how can I become less shy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

27 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why don't I get approached by guys? I've been single most of my life and haven't really been in a proper relationship yet. I used to be really shy , now I'm still shy but not as shy. I don't know if I come across aloof or quiet. I do remember one time one of my friends was w... (277 words)

I love my friend but he's very flirty and it depresses me. Should I let him go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4047 days ago

27 March 2013 (?) age 30-35 - Hey guys so I'm just confused here about a situation I'm in. I really like this guy and he says he likes me too, but we aren't together. There's a couple of problems I've been having and I am not sure if it's just me or if it's something normal to be upset about. This guy I ... (371 words)

How can I make new friends? I'm very shy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4046 days ago

27 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This may sounds stupid, but how do you make friends? I'm getting quite jealous how inactive I've become and just sitting in all the time watching tv whilst my girlfriend is having the time of her life with her friends near enough every night. I'm 20 and I struggle as I am ter... (171 words)

Is he interested? He texts less since we met up for the first time, and he never initiates texts?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4043 days ago

27 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so I met a guy. Coincidentally we have the same name. Not like that matters. We texted back and forth everyday for 3 weeks. We went on our first ay this past Sunday night. He was a gentleman..held open doors...etc. Didn't make a move on me in the movies blah blah... (196 words)

Completely hung up on my ex, how do I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

27 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - So for the last few years I've been pretty hung up on my ex (let's call her Kate). I haven't spoken to her since we broke up over 3 years ago, but I can't get her out of my head, even now. I have a girl I'm seeing now (let's call her Amy) and she's the first girl in a long t... (461 words)

I am very much assuming she has already asked someone else to go with her...do I have the right to be at all mad about this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

27 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been feeling a little down recently over my girlfriend not inviting me out with her and she hasn't been spending an awful lot of time with me. This April she is going away one weekend with some friends and then the week after she is going on holiday for her birthday... (251 words)

She says she knows what she wants and won't settle for less, is this why she's still single at 42?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

27 March 2013 (M)

age - So I have been dating someone that is 42,never married and no kids.She is a very smart person,has a great job,has alot to offer.She says that she wants a relationship and hasnt been in too many.Then tells me she has dated alot but they only seem to last a month or 2.She says by ... (95 words)

Cheating, insecure, lying girlfriend refuses to come clean!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

27 March 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, and before reading this thank you for taking your time your imput will be greatly appreciate it. Sorry for the typos english is not my first lenguage. I been dating this girl for almost 2 years. The relationship has had its ups and downs. Her family never liked me b... (618 words)

I confessed to my fiancee about cheating before our engagement, any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4047 days ago

27 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone. First off I just want to start off with that I suffer and have been diagnosed with Pure-O (Purely Obsessional OCD). I am currently engaged to the love of life and we are about to get married in a few months. However, just less than two years ago I went to a ... (374 words)

How do I tell my sex-buddy I don't want to sleep with him anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

27 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - How do i tell my sex-buddy i dont want to sleep with him anymore? I live in a different city for university and when i come back we always meet up for drinks/cinema or we'l wobble back to each others houses after nights out. We've been sleeping together (par when weve been s... (345 words)

Is he just not into me or could there be a real reason for not contacting me for a few days?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

27 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy for about a month now, he's a few years older than me so I don't know if this is normal behaviour as I'm not used to dating! On all our dates we've had a lot of fun, enjoy each others' company, he's always such a gentleman and asks lots of question... (559 words)

I really like this guy why does he behave the way he does?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

27 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does he behave this way? I really like him:(? There's this guy that I really like. He's constantly staring at me when I'm not looking and looks away and runs off as soon as I catch him looking. Sometimes he's the sweetest thing ever and other times he acts like a... (183 words)

How do I get out of this? I lied and told my friends I wasn't back together with my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

27 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Sorry in advance for the long story ... I was with my boyfriend for 5 years when we broke up, it was a mutual break up but when breaking up he did tell me he had been seeing someone else, i was obviously upset, hated him etc, i ofcourse told all my best friends at the ... (263 words)

I'm 20 and I've never had a girlfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

27 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I know that this is the really long, depressing kind of question which has been asked hundreds of times, but I'm feeling pretty crap and i'd really like some advice. I'm 20 years old and I have never had a girlfriend, i've been on one date with three girls since the age of 1... (528 words)

Do I ditch my friend that wants to eat in the toilet

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

27 March 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi so I have this friend at school lets call her R on the first day me and her were besties with S and N. N ditched her. R was upset. So, me, R, G, S, Sh and sometimes Ao hung out at lunch. Then R started acting bitchy and started bossing us about. We'd be like let's eat in d ... (277 words)

Are my boobs normal they change with the temperature

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4047 days ago

27 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Ever since I've had boobs (about five years now and I'm a B cup), my nipples have always been very soft except for when they're cold. Most times during the day when its a normal temperature I can barely feel my nipples at all, and my left is always softer than my right. I ... (87 words)

Not sure if my BF will come back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

27 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all looking for some input with a crisis at the moment. Myself and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years we split for 2 months last year after being engaged, due to the stress. We got back together and moved in together. We were very happy. Then I had an ... (184 words)

I can't keep a job because of day care problems. Can anyone give me some advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

27 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 23 years old, I'll be 24 in July. I have two children a 4 year old boy and a 2 year old girl. I am very unhappy with my life. I'm always stressed. I live in low income, my sons biological father is dead, no social security for him and my daughter's father isn't fairing ... (186 words)

Mother, Baby, BF and financial Woes

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

27 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Been seeing a guy from work for past 3 months, everything's going lovely, he is 54 and I'm 22! Yeah big age gap I know, I have a one year old but he's completely fine with that my issue is my mum, I currently live with her as she looks after my baby while I work, we're stuck in ... (214 words)

Cant seem to get the right guy to ask me out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

27 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 21 and considered very attractive and nice but I can't seem to get the kind of boyfriend I would like. If I am out at a club, a party or whatever, the only kind of guys that hit on me are the really outgoing, overly confident ones or the really undesirable ones (extremely ... (241 words)

I want my Ex back but scared there is no Trust

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4047 days ago

27 March 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My lover of 2 years broke my trust by lying about a few things in the past for 3-4 times due to fear of losing me. Now she is genuinely trying to get back the same by sharing everything but its becoming very hard for me to trust her again. My instinct says she is telling all ... (101 words)

Is My Ex worth taking back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

27 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi is this man worth giving another chance? I miscarried beginning of february i was gutted the next day my boyfriend started arguing with me then 4 days later he split up with me i really loved him but he hurt me so much what should i do any opinions welcome thank you... (53 words)

Am I satisfying my Man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

27 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know if my boyfriend cummed while we were having sex. Usually I know when he cums by his reaction but last time I wasn't sure as we were having sex for a while. There was stuff in the condom, so was that cum? Or can that be pre-ejaculation fluid? I feel weird as... (70 words)

Am I in a genuine relationship or what is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

27 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Does my boyfriend really love me? My relationship with my bf is already 4 years.We met in internet dating and been dating 1 year before we met personally.His been living with me for 3 years.I have a son from my first relationship.My problem is,from 3 years being together I ... (432 words)

Is it really her reputation that she cares about or there's really something she is hiding from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

27 March 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - now, we have been in a long distance relationship for over one years. i think she loves me but that too she likes to flirt with other guys who are good looking. Plus, she never discloses in front of any guy that i am her boyfriend and give me the excuses that she doesn't want ... (209 words)

How can I convince her parents to like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

27 March 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - so, the story goes like this. I and my girlfriend had a relationship when we together with each other. Then suddenly, she had to leave me cause a bloody transfer of dad. now the thing is that her parents are so damn conservative, that whenever I ask her to tell her dad about ... (101 words)

How can I ask my customers politely to leave tip?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

27 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been waitressing at a restaurant for a few months. I've noticed that certain regulars don't leave tip regardless of service. And of course there are occasional customers that don't tip at all. How can I ask my customers politely to leave tip? I was planning to say next... (183 words)

Should I date a young single mother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

27 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 24 year old male. I have recently been spending a lot of time getting to know a young mother, she's 19. We have tons in common and we seem to be a great fit for each other. Does anyone have any insight for me as to why or why not to possibly date this girl? Any help would ... (63 words)

Is 23 years later too late to return to a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

27 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it ever okay to return to a relationship -in my case that happened 23 years ago- and try again? "John" and I were going steady (in our relationship) till his band went on the road. Well, true to most musicians...he cheated. I found out and left our home the next day. We ... (161 words)

Should I keep dating a man who moved to the same state as his ex to be with his son?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

27 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - should I wait for or leave a man that is in another state with his son and his son's mother even though he tells me nothing is going on? but he moved from one state with a job to the state that she's from he says to be closer to his son? ... (52 words)

Is there any way my girlfriend can make herself tighter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

27 March 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I have a girlfriend who i have been dating for 2 years now. We are sexually active whenever we see eachother. Heres the problem, when my girlfriend gets really wet the friction lessens a lot and the sensation is completely different. She doesnt feel tight and sometimes i can ... (157 words)

What does the term "significant other" means in the homosexual relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

27 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I would like to know what the term "significant other" means in the homosexual relationship. I used the term in an essay regarding interpersonal relationships. I stated that relationship of all kind can become complicated. whether it is with family, friends, spouses or ... (114 words)

It seems like a chore to have sex with my boyfriend because I hardly get pleasure from him and he wants it ALL the time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

27 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 5 months always wants sex. I'm 22 and he's 19, I can understand he's a hormonal teenager, but not only can I not keep up, I physically can't, I inflame easily therefore can only take it slow with a lot of foreplay. Although I'm normally very sexual, I find i... (329 words)

My brotehr is 38 and still still at home and interfers in my life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

27 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - This isn't a relationship problem so I don't know if anyone minds me posting about siblings? But anyway, I'm so tired of having drama at home I don't want to yell or scream at anyone anymore and just want to be peaceful...so one night my boyfriend was kind of drunk and ask... (528 words)

Is him "opening up" to me a good sign or am I reading too much into it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

27 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy I'm talking to, we are semi LDR (100-ish miles). We've met once, in person, when we first swapped numbers, have been talking ever since end of 2012, we are planning to meet in a few weeks, this has been confirmed. We have built quite a solid bond over the months ... (534 words)

Why wont my dreams come true

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

27 March 2013 (M) age 30-35 - I pray one of you might answer me. Since I started high school I've always had this feeling of inadequacy. I always felt too ugly, too useless, too unintelligent, to my own mother, I was never good enough. The fleeting moments of joy I had when I spent time with friends, th... (1053 words)

I am concerned my boyfriend has never been sexually attracted to me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

27 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend have been together for over a year. He was very shy in the beginning, and I was quite confident, so I was the one who initiated dating, but he was very interested and told me how much he liked me. We lost our virginity together, when we first had sex, we went... (641 words)