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Archived questions from: 9 March, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend wants a baby and I already have 2. If he spends time with my kids will he get over this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

9 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - We have been together for 9 months and now my boyfriend has confessed that he wants a baby. Problem is, I already have 2, and have no inclination to have any more. My kids love him to bits. We don't live together, but do u think if he spent more time with my kids he would get ... (79 words)

My girlfriend dropped me for her brother and now they're going to get married!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4059 days ago

9 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I have been a pretty shy guy,not because of any insecurities but that's me! I met this bold outspoken girl who brought me out my shell and I summed up courage and asked her out and she said 'ok' but we weren't exclusive and later on she met my family,my older br... (139 words)

Why do I always get used by people? Am I right to be upset by what happened with this guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4059 days ago

9 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, so there's this guy I've been seeing (for about 2 months), he hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend , but we meet up every other day. Anyway, he lives about an hour away from me and asked me to pick him up so we can hang out at my place. I agreed because I know t... (403 words)

3 days after our breakup my ex was dating someone else. Could he really care about her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4058 days ago

9 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex has now a new woman in his life we split up almost two months ago and three days later he was dating someone else. Could he really care about her as much as I am hearing from other people or is this just a rebound relationship. I was told they talk on the phone all the ... (67 words)

I'm engaged but find myself falling in love with others

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

9 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - This is the most difficult question I have ever had to ask. I believe I will be judged, harshly, but I do hope someone will understand and help me. I am 29 and engaged to a very nice man. My problem is that I keep falling in love at regular intervals. I usually don't ac... (196 words)

At work this guy won't leave me alone and they won't fire him because he's a good chef!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4059 days ago

9 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So there's this guy that won't leave me alone. I work part time at a Greek restaurant and he is the chef. He watches me when I'm dancing which makes me feel uncomfortable then after he always tries to talk to me after my dances where my boyfriend can't see him. I have told th... (184 words)

Should I tell him that I don't believe in friends with benefits?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4058 days ago

9 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy online, know him for 2 months, after a week emailing, he gave me his number, then he called, after another week he ask me out, i accept it, he was nice to talk. Then i got surgery, i could not see him for some time, but he will always ask how i was doing. Then we ... (303 words)

When exactly, should I confess my feelings to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4059 days ago

9 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - This is based on an earlier question I asked, and I now have better information of what is going on. Again, I've been seeing this one girl for about 2 months now, and its not exactly "dating," but not really "hanging out," either. It's more like, in-between the two (a "date... (322 words)

Breakup has left me heartbreak and I'm not coping. How can I cope?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

9 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Can you help me. I am in week two of being totally and utterly heartbroken... pretty mich the same as all of the above... he was unhappily married, chased me for 2 years and I said no, he left her (even though he had been cheating on her for over adecade whilst he was on... (378 words)

My friend is only 20 but thinks shes old and shes acting really weird!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4059 days ago

9 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend seems to be going through some very strange life crisis at the age of 20!! I'm really worried because her actions, the things she doing and saying are really out of character... My friend was telling me how she's realised that our time at university is nearly over a... (310 words)

Why do selfish people get what they want?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4058 days ago

9 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I know this is going to sound petty and ridiculous, and there probably isn't much anyone can advise other than to stop thinking about it, but I just want to vent and get some opinions on this. Why does it sometimes seem like selfish people get everything they want? I didn't u... (438 words)

I don't like anyone. Should I force myself to like someone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

9 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Growing up, girls usually didn't show much interest in me. Apparently they usually think I'm weird. Not weird as in, stay in my room all day and play video games and role play as the characters (Not that I'm judging), weird as in, I say and do things differently from everyone ... (940 words)

My wife makes me feel inadequate and I'm not sure its worth it to continue going on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4059 days ago

9 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - After everything I've been through, I decided to keep going with my wife. After Christmas, we kept fighting and she thought it was ok to take her anger out on me by smashing things in the home and destroying my property. It all came to a halt when she pulled my work shirt away ... (986 words)

I don't get along with some of my boyfriend's friends and its causing problems in our relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4059 days ago

9 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi me and my boyfriend are having problems because he wants me to fit in to his "group" and i dont know what to do. Iv known my boyfriend for two years and we love each other a lot. Usually when ever were not busy were always spending time together sometimes with his friends.... (303 words)

My girlfriend wants to adopt a child and I discouraged her. Should I have encouraged her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3654 days ago

9 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I recently started dating this girl,who I met thru a common friend and I one look at her and my heart literally started pounding,I jus couldn't take my eyes off her..everything is going soo well but nowadays I don't see her that much!cuz not only is she working but she also ... (148 words)

My crush is not fading, time is not helping! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4059 days ago

9 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - i had a huge crush on a girl. she is very beautiful. maybe thats the reason. also i dont have many female friends and she was the only one i could talk to so...i guess it was certain. anyway i tried t do something. i flirted with her many times. i even took her out for coffee. ... (258 words)

Major crush at the grocery store. Seems he likes me. Why hasn't he asked me out yet?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

9 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I really like this guy that works at my local grocery store. I usually go in there a couple times a week to pick up food on my lunch break and sometimes ill catch him in the aisles and we talk for a little bit. We sometimes get a little flirty and laugh and he... (209 words)

I'm going crazy here! And truly, what can a girl do to get a man to notice her once in a while?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4059 days ago

9 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - There is an executive man I work with that is very hot and cold with me. I can tell in his eyes that is attracted to me. He stares - sometimes quick glances, sometimes long ones that go up and down my whole body. His eyes practically bug out of his head when we have cross paths ... (311 words)

My boyfriend seems willing to jeopardize our future to play counsellor to his ex wife

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4059 days ago

9 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 3 years divorced 8 years ago. The ex wife remarried and now is fighting with the current husband, her third, and it looks like divorce again. She is phoning my boyfriend up and telling him all the detail and crying on his shoulder and he has even offered to talk... (273 words)

I need some techniques on how to control my anxiety

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4059 days ago

9 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi ya all, I really need some help with building my low self-esteem. I'm always anxious that my boyfriend is going to leave me or pulling away that I can't seriously go on like this. If he doesn't text me I feel physically sick and worried its taking over my life. so I've co... (109 words)

My girlfriend's reluctance to add me to Facebook has made me suspicious

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4058 days ago

9 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I never thought I would be writing to DearCupid about this kind of question. Usually when I see questions about facebook, my advice is to just get over it because it's just facebook. Relationsips shouldn't be based on what he/she liked on someone else status. But this probl... (507 words)

Does this woman really want to be with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4059 days ago

9 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, so here's the deal. It's very difficult for me to write about this, but I am in desperate need of some impartial view of the whole situation. I've been seeing this girl for the last five months, almost on a daily basis. Every time we are together, we have great time.... (559 words)

The man I've become friendly with has custody of his traumatized niece. Where do I fit in here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

9 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, On the surface this may seem like another question about dating a guy with a kid. This is a bit different, however. I moved into a new place and I'm lucky to have great neighbors. One of my neighbors is a guy who's 7 years older than me and who has a twel... (593 words)

I've lost interest in my boyfriend now that we're back together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4059 days ago

9 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - i ve been together with my guy for 8 months.everything was fine between us,till a a female friend came between us and he would not stop texting her.though my guy calls her as her sister i could not stand the sight of them sitting together chit chatting and laughing. i love my ... (282 words)

Sent him an email ending things hoping for a bit of resistance but he accepted it. I am so sad, what do I do now?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4058 days ago

9 March 2013 (F)

age - Hello I have been involved in a 3 1/2 year relationship. My bf likes to flirt a lot, he is in his mid 40s and in my opinion weak willed. We also work together in the same building and recently on the same floor for a period of time. In this time i saw another female co worker... (607 words)

Might the boy I like also like me and should I tell him the truth about my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4059 days ago

9 March 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - ..hey,i am 15 years and bi..i fall in love to a guy..he is not totally straight i think but he's not gay too...i want to forget hm..but doing ths is so hard.,everytime i try to avoid hm,he always comes near to me...i also caught hm staring at me so many times...in school,he ... (122 words)

What are the sexual needs of men and women???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4058 days ago

9 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - hi all, ok so i was going to write a long post about the issues between me and my partner but instead first i would like to hear some view points on sex and i would like if possible equal input from men and women, women... how important is it to feel emotionally stable within ... (309 words)

We fight all the time. And we broke up, then reunited yesterday. But does he still love me or is it a lie?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4059 days ago

9 March 2013 (?) age 26-29 - my boyfriend and me are in love but we fight all the time, mostly about me or him being jealous. Basically yesterday he broke up with me because he saw me hugging a boy (in our school we used to hug everyone but people in a relationships don’t hug other people) and he said tha... (182 words)

Is 2 years a long time to go without sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4059 days ago

9 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 25 years old and have been single for 2 years after the end of a 6 year relationship. Being single is fine, infact it's great but I haven't had sex in the last 2 years either and Im worried that my anxiety over this may prevent me from seeing guys. Sex wasn't great when I ... (109 words)

Would you attempt to ask out a shy guy like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4053 days ago

9 March 2013 (?) age 41-50 - I have a crush on my daughter’s teacher, I have posted a question before asking how I would get him to ask me out, but with several attempts I have noticed it is going to be a lot harder because he has all the traits of a VERY shy guy. He acts like he is interested in me but ... (169 words)

She is my brother's Girlfriend. So can I believe the comment I heard, that she might be interested in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4059 days ago

9 March 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok well let me get started with this thought because it's driving me crazy thinking about her, because I thank I'm falling in love with her, but she has a bf. Tonight was weird, so we had dinner with the family, and she gave me two hugs, one when we first saw each other, t... (151 words)

Should I just shut up about these women in my boyfriend's life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4059 days ago

9 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing my boyfriend for 5 months and we have so much fun together, we're very similar and like all the same things, I think he's great. But the problem is other people do too. His ex girlfriend post pictures of him on facebook, he wears her stuff she bought him and ... (304 words)

Do you think unwanted sexual fantasy can be caused by distress?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4059 days ago

9 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, Here's the deal. I'm 27, have always loved, adored, and fantasized about women. I've also been incredibly insecure, especially around women, and since I moved in with my woman about 1 1/2 years ago, I've been increasingly having unwanted gay desires. They r... (212 words)

My fiance no longer likes to drink and party with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4058 days ago

9 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance and I have been together for a year now. We recently had another deep discussion that lead to him revealing problems he had with me. One of the problems that I can't understand is the fact that he told me that he doesn't have fun drinking and partying with me anymore. ... (110 words)

Sixteen years together, eleven years married. Is he not being thoughtful and considerate enough to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4059 days ago

9 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married for eleven years, together for sixteen years. We recently celebrated our anniversary which is also St Valentines day.. I never ask for anything. This This year I suggested a Northface jacket. I've not had a new coat in a good six years and only have one. I... (116 words)

Why does he continue interact with and spend time with the children of his ex, even although he knows it bothers me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4059 days ago

9 March 2013 (F)

age - My husband continues to interact with his ex's children, even although the children are not his! I've asked him numerous times if he let go of the ex or still has feelings. Why do you think he continues to spend time with them although he knows it bothers me?... (53 words)

Did I give the impression that I was just too Easy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4059 days ago

9 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Did I come off as easy? I went over to the house of a guy I like and gave him oral (I was on my period) after he started making out with me. We never had any proper dates, but we had been flirting over the past couple of weeks and we hung out a few times with other mutual f... (143 words)

Help! Why does my bf have anger issues or is it normal for a guy to act this way?

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9 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone. So i need help. Ive been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a year and couple months. We do care about each other very much, i was so in love with him and i loved everything about him. Things have changed though. .. ive noticed a change in his ... (822 words)

Why is he being so unkind? How can I get over this? He met to tell me that I'd been 'replaced' by the 'perfect girl'.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4059 days ago

9 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with a guy since February 2012. We went to college together but he dropped out as his course was too much for him, he visited me regularly during the college year and over the summer he was the best boyfriend I could have, we were just like best friends telling ... (296 words)

How much do you share with your significant other about your work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4059 days ago

9 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf and I have very different jobs: I work for a very large corporation in management while he has a very manual job in a construction company. We talk a lot about our jobs and what happened at work and so on. While I get the type of environment he works in, I feel like ... (215 words)

He betrayed my trust by kissing a girl but I don't want to be the clingy girlfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4059 days ago

9 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - For the past 6 months or so I've been in a long distance relationship. It was fine, although I missed him (we saw each other every 4-5 weeks). That was until he told me he kissed someone at a party and on that occasion he also said that he 'kind of' liked the girl that he ... (522 words)

Wanting to try a tampon for the first time.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4059 days ago

9 March 2013 (?) age 26-29 - I'm going to the spring fling tomorrow and I'm on my period. I've never worn a tampon before but I feel like it would be a good idea to wear one instead of a pad. should I wear a tampon even though I'venever worn one before? I just want to do the thing that's most comfortable.... (56 words)

My boyfriend's female friend has a history of wrecking a marriage.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4060 days ago

9 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have a new boyfriend. We're been dating since January and things are getting serious and they're going good! BUT there is a girl he calls his "friend" she's like 19.. She home wrecked my friend (not close friends) family.. As soon as she turned 18 he divorced his wife and ... (201 words)

Did my Ex really care about me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4058 days ago

9 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I was in a relationship for 8months we lived together and everything. We split up about a month ago three days later he was seeing somebody else. When people ask him about me he say that we were just friends and that he was just renting a room from me which was not true. I ... (69 words)

Looking for a simple solution to my complex problem - life advice please

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4060 days ago

9 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I have a complex situation that’s ruining my life and I need some advice or answers to get me out of the hard situation I’m in. I’m depressed, stressed and so confused, and it all boils down to my past experiences growing up and the lack of freedom I have c... (1006 words)