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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Are his jokes showing that he doesn't want me in the future?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

11 March 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 7 months..we are in our late twenties and still living with parents due to us trying to save individually for the future..he is looking to purchase a house within the next few years. It is by far the best relationsip i ha... (345 words)

My boyfriend and his friends are all I have. I fear so much of losing this relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

11 March 2013 (?) age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with a man for a couple of years now. Like any other relationship, we've had some problems and stuff, nothing too major. I have some serious problems. I hate the feeling of being left and lonely. My boyfriend and his friends are really the only ... (247 words)

My friend is going through the pain of separation and is not coming out of his shell. Will he ever come around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - One of my good friends is going through a separation from his wife and I am not sure what to do. We have always gotten along so well, communicated regularly, and talked about anything and everything. However, the past few weeks I have noticed a drastic change in him, which is ... (454 words)

My boyfriend had disappointed me, when will I feel complete trust again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm still so doubtful of the future of my relationship. We had a lot of problems into the end of our first year together. And I broke up with him. But during the 2 month break he came to some realisations, and looked at his faults and decided he wanted to make changes to ... (611 words)

Please tell me what to do. My crush knows I like him but hasn't said anything to me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4062 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - A while ago, I asked a question on here regarding a guy I like offering me guitar lessons. I decided to take the lessons, and I went to my first one last friday. It was fine, we got along, it wasn't awkward at all. I told my friends about it and decided that it would be best... (211 words)

Could I actually be held accountable for her ending her life by her own hand and free will?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

11 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. Well I've been getting close to a woman online for about 5 months, we got along great and were planning to continue getting to know each other and see where things lead. However, last week I found out she is married with 3 children and of course, I was di... (250 words)

Am I Bi? Is it possible to become straight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

11 March 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - So I'm a 15 year old male. I've always considered myself straight and have been oddly sexually-obsessed before I even knew what sex was. I've always been very into girls. (That still weirds me out.) But recently I realized that I used to enjoy seeing other guys' dicks in the ... (227 words)

I thought I was gay but I'm attracted to this girl..is it just a one time thing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

11 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 19 year old guy. I've assumed I was gay since I was about 13. I tried to fight it at first because there was a stigma to being gay, but eventually I grew to accept it and had gay relationships and it really wasn't an issue anymore. But now I'm confused. There's ... (144 words)

Why do I always want the ex that I don't have?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

11 March 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Got a problem and i have no idea why i cant deal with it. So I've just got back with my ex(2), we broke up maybe a year ago but now i cant seem to get over the fact my most recent ex(1) is happy without me and i seem drawn to her again. However when i was with ex(1) i couldnt ... (95 words)

I gave my ex another chance and he cheated on me again! I don't know how to get through this

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I know what everyone will say while reading this, but please, please, pleasssse keep an open mind... Basically last year me and (my now ex-boyfriend) broke up as he cheated on me with a girl that we both knew, apparently it was only a kiss. Anyway we broke up after a three ye... (788 words)

Will my feelings for my teacher ever fade?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, so ive been besotted and in love with my teacher for 2 years. He is now my ex-teacher and we have been communicating online, via facebook and other things A LOT! Almost everyday, anything from a few minutes multiple times a day or hours for nearly a year since he l... (301 words)

Do I look for sexual pleasure elsewhere since my wife has no interest?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

11 March 2013 (M)

age - We are both 60, very active and coming up to 30 years of marriage but we haven't had sex for three to four months. She has become very sore down below and despite visits to the doctor things are not getting better. Understandably perhaps her libido has fallen off a cliff and ... (149 words)

None of my relationships have lasted a year. Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Is anyone else's love life this bad? I've had 6 relationships, 2 only lasted a few months and 1 of them 2 was rebound. The others lasted 8 months even though I knew something wasn't right. None of them lasted a year. I am 26, first relationship was when I was 17, is this ... (55 words)

Should I express my feelings to this new friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3654 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - i have recantley made a new friend i am a woman and so is she we have become very close. and im starting to have feelings for her should i tell her the truth or just stay quite.she really helps me out alot i just dnt know what to do ? help ?... (54 words)

No flowers on Valentine's day, but flowers for his ex's birthday??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - this past valentines day was the first me and my boyfriend spent together, I was going to buy him something, but we talked about it ahead of time, and he said he didn't really subscribe to the idea of valentines day, and so i shouldn't expect a gift just because of the holiday, ... (353 words)

Why does this man chose to stay around? I'm having hard times and I'm not especially nice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a great guy I have been seeing for a year. He has a job, a gorgeous daughter and is very responsible. He is caring and very good to me and tries to help and support me in everything he can. The problem is I lost my house, my job and now recently my car and it has all ... (205 words)

His actions are not what I would expect from someone who claims to love me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - During my freshman year at college i met a guy we are from the same country, we were friends but not that close we just greeted each other when we met in the collidors, and then a year passed by without seeing him or hearing from him and then last year during my third year we ... (358 words)

Could he possibly be saying the truth about condoms in his school bag?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Ive been here before for different reasons. Now I have a new question. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now. We live together and we have a box of condoms next to our bed. Well, yesterday I was cleaning up and when putting away his school bag I rea... (422 words)

She masturbated... without me!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

11 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Should I be upset about this? Basically, my girlfriend and I had not had sex for almost 5 days. While we had never really agreed to not masturbate before our next time in bed, we had talked about doing something like that before. (We have sex a lot and I like to hold off ... (146 words)

Should I welcome him back with open arms...?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I'm back so my man of 5 yrs went to meet his daughter she is 14 they are meeting for the first time he left on 2/12/13 and has been there since. He calls everyday or text to let me know what's going on. My problem is his "baby mama" she wants a relationship with him. He ... (128 words)

He's becoming too "friendly" for comfort!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all, I have a problem and would like some advice. I am a mum of 2 and have been with my partner for 15 years during this time I have also had a male friend who I met through my sister. Even though we are the same age I have always thought of him as a younger mate and no... (316 words)

Fiance did something stupid to "intentially hurt my feelings?"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my FI for 4 years, newly engaged about a month ago. Living separately with our families for now, until I finish school next month. My FI is usually very sensitive and never did anything in the past to intentially hurt my feelings. We were supposed to meet ... (980 words)

Help!!! I don't know if I've done something wrong...???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

11 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi dear cupid Well, I had been pursuing a girl for about a month now and I must say everything seemed fine and normal. she studies in same university as I am so whenever I saw her around, we use to talk a bit. The other day (last Thursday) she invited me for tea with her... (406 words)

I fell for my gay teacher...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4061 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello... please call me Jessie cause thats my nick name and i am turning 16 this month so here is my problem. One of my eldest cousin who was 21 years held a birthday party on a club and he let me meet his friends. When i was eating in the chilling area he dragged one of h... (675 words)

I just want to find a girl for myself. Is this not possible?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

11 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been trying to find someone to be with for the last six years and sadly it has never worked out. I have tried dating several females during this time but it never seems to go right,I caught the first girl cheating on me with four other guys,the second was more or less ... (142 words)

broke up with my boyfriend but he is still acting like one.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years about a month ago. He was jealous, controlling, he was lazy and lives with his mother. I was young at the start of the relationship so I was spoon fed everything he told me. I was young and silly so I flashed my chest on a chat website.... (686 words)

Should I say hello to my ex BF's close friend? I found out he got so many hobbies and lifestyle similar to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I know this is crazy and hardly to be acceptable. He is my ex boyfriend's close friend. Should I say hello and seek acquaintance with him? I have just got broken with my ex since last week. But, here are some points to consider about my case: 1. I had NOT got any notice o... (333 words)

He wants to get married this summer but I think we are moving too fast

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend(26) and i(20) have been dating for about 4 months and we are engaged. why so fast? partially because of religious rules in my family where "boyfriend-girlfriend" relationships aren't allowed, yes I am well aware that I am old enough to do whatever I want, but I ... (967 words)

Why does this guy and his friends watch me all the time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does he and his friends watch me all the time? So there's this guy that I really like and he doesn't speak to me much. He's friendly and chatty with everyone but acts so quiet and so calm around me. I asked him a few questions the other day and he said I'm diff... (202 words)

How do I handle this? My sister's husband hits on me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2853 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know if I'm seeing too much into things but please do tell me if I'm wrong! My sisters husband has been hitting on me lately and he has been doing this ever since he became my sisters boyfriend,at first I thought it was harmless flirting.. So I don't meet my sister a... (254 words)

I followed my husband and caught him at a brothel. He says he wanted to be caught??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - We have had huge financial issues, loss of business, things really stressful. all this definitely took a toll on our lives. Today I did something either brave or some would say stupid. When our business was going down there were alligations that he was having affairs. ... (769 words)

My boyfriend is so over protective and possessive. How do I help him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4062 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has been soo possessive and over protective of me,that's just his nature..his mom told when I met his family over christmas that he is very possessive of the people he loves! I'm trying to understand his behavior but I fail.. He hates if another guy spends time ... (226 words)

My friend had a break up and now won't eat. I'm really concerned about her health!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - What do you do when your best friend wont eat after coming out of a bad break up? I've never seen her this sad and hurt before, it's horrible to watch and i've noticed she hasn't eaten much since, in fact barley anything! She is refusing to eat and she's loosing weight quickly ... (187 words)

After being together for years I find out something about my wife that has shaken my trust in her to the core! I don't know how to deal with this

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4057 days ago

11 March 2013 (?) age 41-50 - 13 years ago, I met a wonderful woman in University who has now been my wife for 8 years. We have kids (with another on the way) and are happy however recently, during a discussion she elaborated on a story of how she hooked with one of her past partners because of questions ... (570 words)

Are people that take risks better off than those who play it safe?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Everybody is against him (Save for friends who support me), yet i love him by everybody i mean my family they dont like him because he has a baby mama However we love each other. its depressing sometimes.. i have been telling them that its just a fling, so they have bee... (130 words)

Yes I have a crush on this guy. I dreamt about him. Can anyone tell me if this indicates changes in my feelings towards him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - On general, I don't dream. When I do dream, it's usually when I'm ill, and then it's a nightmare. I have feelings for someone in my year. I'm not quite in love with him yet,(or if I am, I don't want to admit it), but it's more than a crush. Last night, I was thinking abo... (233 words)

My overweight partner has diabetes and he always wants the same position for sex. What can I do? I am losing my desire for sex with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age - My partner is overweight and has diabetes He always wants sex using just one position that suits him I hate it and have lost interest as there is no loving emotional togetherness. At first it was a novelty now I cringe and just don't want it at all. I get no sexual urges ... (71 words)

Should I break up with him? Will he ever love me like he loved his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

11 March 2013 (F) age 51-59 - I'm at my wits end, what do I do? Break up with him? Stay around for 1 more year? This is what I want - to be the love of his life, to hear him say he wants to marry me and be my husband someday. But it's been 2 1/2 years and his ex partner of 15 yrs seems to still... (164 words)

Will I ever find love with someone? What do I need to do to find love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4063 days ago

11 March 2013 (M) age 26-29 - Hey y'all, I'm 17, I'm from a small town in the south of Missouri. I'm gay (Closeted) and my biggest fear is that I'll never find the right person in life. I know I'm young, but what if I never leave this town? What if when I turn 30 all my friends are married and havi... (80 words)

I moved away to remove myself from a harsh lifestyle. So why do my family and friends, who are still there, now shun me when I try to make contact with them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello Cupid,I have lived in the state where I was born for many years but I decided I wanted to move on and see something new and different so I took it up on myself and left exboyfriends, friends, associates. The whole nine years behind me. Now that I have moved on the peopl... (203 words)

Is this normal? I feel less able to stand up for myself because my Bf always likes to be right. Plus I'm insecure about this girl flirting with him. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi ive been with my boyfriend for 8 months. I don't know whether im definitely happy with him, but he's always saying he loves me and wants to marry me an how i'm his soulmate and hes been saying these things since we started going out! He seems so happy when we're together,... (275 words)

My husband's friendship with a co-worker has escalated. Now that I know he wants to still stay friends with her. I said no. Am I wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

11 March 2013 (F) age - My husband's friendship with a co-worker has escalated to kissing and pet names and intimate vocabulary via emails. We recently became friends as couples and have enjoy their company on a few occasions. Upon noticing unusual private conversations between them I decided ... (172 words)

Is it OK to love my first cousin? He's told me he feels the same about me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4061 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So I love my first cousin, we met five years ago and i fell in love with him but it wasn't on purpose. We first met at my house when they moved over here. We always talked, played video games, and we each helped each other out. I started to notice that i started to liked... (225 words)

She thinks of me as a brother but I like her more than that. Do I tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4063 days ago

11 March 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Dear anybody who is reading, I'm a high school freshman, and i like this girl that went to my old school with me. Our story: I liked her, and eventually asked her out, but didn't really knowher to well, and we ended up breaking up, but we became really good friends. Thi... (166 words)

How do I deal with the sexual tension between me and my dance partner?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4063 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a dancer and I work with my dance partner. We are working on a dance production together and work on many productions together professionally. The big problem is the increasing sexual tension between us. He is married, no kids. I am single. We must work together closely in ... (170 words)

I want to break up with him. How can I manage this situation when he's threatened to harm himself if I break up with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - so there is this guy that i dated for a few months and i honestly cant seem to get over my ex (before him) , the new guy doesnt realize i no longer wanna be with him i told him over and over again but he thinks im just messing around he doesnt realize im being serious , hes ... (94 words)

I've hooked up with guys but I'm not experienced with dating. Advice please? I'm interested in dating but also scared of it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3666 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 24 woman who has been in 1 relationship. I've hooked up with guys after but don't know how to go about seriously dating. Maybe I am still not ready (after almost two years?)...or maybe I just don't know what I'm doing. Can anyone give me some of their experiences or advi... (449 words)

Would you continue with a guy after he told you he has genital herpes?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - So if you meet a guy that your falling in love someone you can see yourself with for a long time...would you still be with him after he told you he has gental herpes? Just need your thoughts and honest answer I don't want to be shallow because he is such a sweet guy..... But I ... (62 words)

What sort of support do I need? I feel like the only time I can be close to someone is when I drink alcohol.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I was at my best friend's house the other night, which was supposed to be a movie-night but ended up turning into a full-on boozefest. Needless to say, I drank way too much and my friends started trying to set me up with one of the guys there that I had seen a few time... (362 words)

I hate the guy because what drama he caused but have feelings for him. So how should I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4060 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I really love/hate this guy, but at the same time. he has caused so much trouble for me during the year. He claims that he hates me, and I know it. He calls me a horrible names. Before that we had sex, but he had a gf. but i told her. So he hates me. But I Really cant get ... (109 words)

Girl who came into my bar has left me a bit messed up. I rejected her advances because I'm in a relationship. But what should I do if she returns?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

11 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - About three/four months ago a girl and her party of friends walked into the bar, I was working at in Boston. Late into the evening, two of her male college friends approached me and informed me that she liked me, much to my colleague’s disappointment as he served her most of ... (528 words)

Is this permanent? I suddenly have no interest whatsoever in physical intimacy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4063 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I don't know what's wrong with me. I suddenly have no interest whatsoever in physical intimacy. My boyfriend of two years is confused and hurt. We have never had intercourse, because of his own physical limitations, but now I don't even want him touching me in an intimate way. ... (237 words)

People say we are too young to know what love is!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

11 March 2013 (?) age 26-29 - i hate it when people say that you cant be inlove at my age, when the things is i know how very much i am. I have know my present boyfriend scince i was 5 and he thought i was a princess(he told me) and i really liked him, as time when on an we moved through our school i liked ... (362 words)

I didn't want to break up, because I love him. But we argued and then broke up. How can I explain this to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and i just broke up, and I'm really hurting, we've been dating for 7 months. I felt like the relationship wasn't going right and we barely make each other smile and he was so cold towards me like I did something wrong, I asked what was wrong why was he being li... (348 words)

Are these double standards? My LDR likes it when I send a sexy video but he is refusing to send one back!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has double standards. We're in an LDR (it's relatively new - coming up to 3 months) and whenever he's horny, I will send him a picture sometimes, not every time and the pics are not fully nude, but something sexy and I have sent a sexy video before too. (Now, I ... (764 words)

After we broke up he may have made another girl pregnant. We are back together but how do I cope if he's the father?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4063 days ago

11 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So my ex and I broke up a few months ago and now were trying to start over. But a girl he slept with is pregnant and it's a possibility it's his. She married and has a kid with someone else but it still could be my exes. How do I deal with this if it is because I don't thin... (95 words)

I sometimes look at a pretty girl and am confused about the emotions that I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4063 days ago

11 March 2013 (?) age 26-29 - i am a girl and i have a boyfriend and until now have not questioned my sexuallity, but i have started thinking about girls in a sexual way but not at all in a relationship way, i dont ever mastibate about girls(or anything eles for that matter). i sometimes look a a pretty g... (150 words)