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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We are fine, until we go out with friends...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4055 days ago

18 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - So I have been with my girl friend for 17 months now. We are perfect for one another when we are alone, we both feel like we are weird in our own way and it is rare to find people who get me. I do love her but recently some of her actions are making me think twice about what we ... (307 words)

She's spending too much time with her best friend!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4054 days ago

18 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll keep this short. I hate my gf's 'best' friend. At first it was fine, until it was no longer me and my gf's time , it was me , my gf and her best friend's time...Our time together is important to me so I tried to talk to my girlfriend about how spending so much time with ... (140 words)

How can I meet girls that are into girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

18 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been bicurious for a while, but despite knowing there are plenty of lesbian/bi girls out there, I never seem to meet any. The only ones I ever notice are because they are kissing in public or holding hands (aka taken.) And I don't like the idea of falling for a girl ... (166 words)

What is the difference between loving and being in love?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4055 days ago

18 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am curious to have others view on this. What is the difference between loving someone and being IN love with someone? ... (23 words)

Should I go out with him? I'm scared of my safety because he's rich and influential!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

18 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - i like this guy and he loves me too. He is asking me out, he wants me to be his gf and lover. Yes i want that too, i want him to be my bf, but i dont really know, im confused. Because since he asked me this, i've been watching him, he doesn't call me, when i call him, he barel... (140 words)

How many things should you have in common?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4054 days ago

18 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I'm just wondering but in a relationship, how much things should you have I'm common with? Should you "think" the same way and have every interest or hobbies the same to make it work... (39 words)

My American wife has accused me of getting married for a Green Card, what should I do now?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4055 days ago

18 March 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - 6 months ago , I got married to US citizen in Pakistan. We met through dating site and after four months she came to Pakistan to marry me. After honeymoon,once she got back to US, she filled Spouse Visa Petition for me. One month ago, we had a little argument and she wanted ... (268 words)

A girl sent my boyfriend naked pics, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4054 days ago

18 March 2013 (?) age 30-35 - Hello everyone. My boyfriend and I have a really close relationship and we're always honest about everything. Well, this past weekend my boyfriend let me know that a girl sent him some naked pictures of herself. Which honestly I wasn't too shocked because this girl is always ... (244 words)

My parents are getting nasty because they'll never have grandchildren

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4038 days ago

18 March 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I've got a major problem with both my parents. They are acting like wankas. They think just because they brought me into the world and raised me, that I owe them something. Why do parents have this belief that they are "owed something"? My brother and sister don't want to st... (118 words)

My boyfriend talks to a girl who I am not comfortable with. How to deal with this confusing situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

18 March 2013 (?) age 30-35 - How would you deal with your boyfriend being friends or talking with someone you do not feel comfortable with? This girl who has recently became friends with some of my boyfriends friends has now targeted my boyfriend and is becoming a little too friendly with him and I'm... (438 words)

Guy friend keeps staring at me - does he like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

18 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm at university, and I met this guy through mutual friends before we broke up for Christmas last year. I've noticed he's always staring at me (to the point that it's embarrassing), but, when I talk to him, it seems awkward sometimes although he's quite nice. However, he's a ... (482 words)

How do I manage getting myself ready for a party after a long day trip! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

18 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I need help badly! I have a crush on a 17 yr old and I was planning on going to a party he's going to be at this Saturday but my trip to France got cancelled and has been moved to the same day as the party. I have to go to the trip because its already been paid for and my ... (377 words)

Is this a good sign that he would take me seriously?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4054 days ago

18 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - He is on a trip for a month or two. before he left we hung out together all the time he always hold my hand trying to get to know my friends, and also told me about all his friends and his life plan. he's really sweet. we kiss all the time and also he kisses my forehead a lot ... (213 words)

Am I being unreasonable? If so, how do I get over this jealousy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

18 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm at the end of my ropes and I need this jealousy to be gone. I am going crazy! I have never been jealous before so it's aggravating to me when I get jealous over little things. At first I thought my boyfriend was hiding something from me. He never lets me look through his ... (417 words)

Is he actually flirting with me and sporting some feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

18 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I know it's a lot but pleas read? I know there are lots of questions like this one but I really need your answer/advice. Maybe you've been there, know what to do? The problem is with a guy. Me, him and our group of friends have knew each other for about 10 years (we're 23... (550 words)

What can I text to him to keep the conversation going and get asked out on a date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

18 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - A few months ago I had a one night stand with a guy I met at a bar and it sounds stupid but I felt like we had a connection and he said he'd call but never did. I forgot about it and didn't think anything of it but I was out on Saturday and I forgot to lock my phone and then I ... (172 words)

Spends his money on gifts for himself before my Birthday and then he is broke

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

18 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I know it is wrong to have expectations of one's spouse. I am a big believer in the philosophy that our expectations determine our own happiness. I am trying to work on myself when it comes to this concept and even my therapist agrees with me that it's best to not have any ... (325 words)

Bad grades, ends relationship, and now I want her back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

18 March 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, So here's my story, My ex broke up with me last year. Our relationship only lasted for almost 1 month. The reason is that because our "relationship" is too distracting. She hardly focus on her studies and that she had many failing grades. She said that she's sorry... (312 words)

Is it normal to have a relationship with no differences in opinion?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

18 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys! You have helped me out a lot in the past so I am back again for some advice. I got out of a LTR in October last year and (I know it sounds bad but...) I hooked up with someone I had befriended from work fairly quickly, I recall it was about 3 weeks later. Mentally ... (266 words)

My boyfriend Thinks oversleeping and not pitching for date is okay

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4055 days ago

18 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is a loving, amazing guy. He stood with me when my life was falling apart and never lets me down. Except when he makes plans. He plans fantastic dates or meetings with friends, and they're awesome indeed. IF HE SHOWS UP. I've lost count of the times he just doe... (451 words)

Is my friend Gay

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

18 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a friend and we went for classes together and became great friends. She told me she was dating a guy named D and loves him but turns out that she was never dating him. Once I asked her if she found me more attractive than him, she said she found me more attractive. Her... (194 words)

Should I talk to him about our cuddling while we slept in the same bed?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4055 days ago

18 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a friend that I have known for 3 years we almost dated once, but chose to be friends and its made our friendship pretty strong. The other night I was visiting him at his house and he told me I could sleep over if I want. I made the choice to do so cause I did not know if ... (175 words)

Am I reading too much into it

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4040 days ago

18 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a brief question. I have a female friend who I enjoy talking to. However, at times, I ask her for dating tips, so I can simply be educated on how to date. Instead, she tells me she doesn't want to offer any. She says the same thing when I talk to her about girls in g... (92 words)

Is he in love with me or am I being played

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4055 days ago

18 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - About 9 month ago I met a boy, I fell for him straight away but he is no my bet friend. I told him a few months back that I liked him, to which he replied "I don't like you in that way", so I kind of learnt to see him more of a friend and see other people which took the ... (154 words)

Is this salvageable? Did I mess it up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4054 days ago

18 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I'm a bit of an awkward, weird guy, and I've been looking for love for quite some time (Ive only been in 1 LTR 4 years ago, and in the interim its only been sporadic hookups), except I always manage to f*ck it up somehow! Here's the latest, wondering if this is ... (426 words)

Why does he lie to me? How can I marry this man in two months?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4055 days ago

18 March 2013 (?) age 41-50 - I really need help. Its no secret to my fiance that I don't trust him. I have talked to him about being honest and earning my trust back. But he continues to lie to my fsce. I give him every chance to be honest. Why does he lie to me? How can I marry this man in two months? We ... (114 words)

My boyfriend is ignoring me because I wanted an early night!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

18 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf seems to be angry with me and i haven't seen or spoken to him for about 2 days. A few smaller things happened prior but it seems to be because i didn't want him to come back with me to my place on the weekend. It was late, i was extremely tired and just wanted to s... (316 words)

Why was he lying? I am so confused and heartbroken!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

18 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - heyy ...i need your advise please i know my story will be long but if u have the patience please read it ...thank you. so i was in a relationship with this guy for a year. in the relationship there was passion extreme love...but there wasnt trust from my side...he used to trust... (536 words)

Is it mean to ask my friend for this guy's number?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

18 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a friend who i've been close with for about a year now. But i have always had feelings for him. And i'm also pretty sure he's got the same feelings for me. I never told him this because there are a lot of complicated reasons that makes it impossible for us to be with ... (189 words)

Is there the slightest chance that my deployed exboyfriend with a pregnant ex will contact me or want to get back with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

18 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - 4 years ago I met this guy who I really liked, sadly we lost contact and even though I use to think about him loads i accepted it wasn't meant to be. 3 months ago I had a friend request from him on Facebook, I accepted and we got chatting. I went to visit him on his army cam... (460 words)

I'm not ready yet to start dating someone else. How do I tell this to the girl I met and made plans, to go on a date with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

18 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I need advice i've done something stupid and now don't know what to say to them! On Saturday night this girl I met asked me out on a date and I was still pretty drunk when I accepted it and I was sure at the time it was what I wanted and that I wanted to go on a date with her... (277 words)

What to do? I love her, I just don't want to spend the rest of my life with her. And I don't want to hurt her!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4055 days ago

18 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 18 months. We have had an amazing relationship, the best relationship I've ever had, but I do not feel that she is "the one". I don't truly believe there is a "one", but no matter what way I spell it out it is still the same. I don't ... (166 words)

Am I slow to develop? Because I have no desire to sleep around and l would much rather have a relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

18 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I am maturing at a very slow pace. I have never kissed a girl and i don't drink or go out. I know people younger than me who are engaging in sexual behaviour and it makes me feel like a child despite being older. I know who I am and I am working towards being the man I ... (150 words)

Does my girl friend love me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4057 days ago

18 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - My girll friend does'nt come anywhere close to me..she does'nt even tell me that she loves me not even a text..but she obeys my words and commands but she's never told me that she loves me both face to face and in text...my real problem is that she does'nt come close to me at ... (56 words)

Broke up with my BF because of his indiscretion, was I right

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

18 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years, I have left my jobs to. Follow him wherever his job takes him. Last year I had a miscarriage. Since then we have been living in qatar. I was unable to work without a visa so I have been a house GF for the last year. Our sex ... (295 words)

Is my BF genuinely getting a divorce or keeping as his mistress

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

18 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf's story...he met this girl she got pregnant they got married and before the baby was born she cheated on him, he tried to stay with her for the baby but he just couldn't deal with her anymore so now they are going through divorce and soon they are going to fight for ... (429 words)

Should I disclose to me BF that I model Clothes and post on facebook?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

18 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - hello everyone i have a serious queshtion wether what im doing is right or not. ok so ive been dateing this amazing guy for 4 years. and i would never wanna do anything to upset him or lose trust for me. so anyways me and my bf have instagram, we dont have fb we both del... (285 words)

How to get my crush to ask me out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

18 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - there is a particular guy in one of my classes. who always look at my direction, and sometimes I catch him looking at me also. He appears to be a legit, he has smart brains as well as a nice personality. Kind of rare these days, we've only spoken about 2-3 times since the ... (124 words)

We had a disagreement and now he won't speak to me or contact me. He's never done this before!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4057 days ago

18 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been seeing a man for two years now. He seemed in the past few weeks to be needling me for truthful feelings. About a week ago we got into a small argument. I said some things and he did as well, which has happened before... After that I asked to see him and for ... (222 words)

Am I wrong for being upset my girlfriend didn't prepare ahead of time to make time to see me before she goes away?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4055 days ago

18 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - general question. would you guys be frustrated if your girlfriend/boyfriend was going out of town for a week and you had planned in advance to spend the night before together, but it took them FOREVER to finally come over? my girlfriend has known she was going out of tow... (172 words)

He loves me but is moving away. How do I get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4057 days ago

18 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok I've loved my best friend for almost 2years now and he told me the same thing....he tells me how much he loves me and all his feelings towards me. He even came up with his own nickname for me. Now I've asked him to be mine but he told me no he doesn't want to leave me heart ... (106 words)

I'm married and a married hottie came onto me at work. What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3088 days ago

18 March 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I work in the same company as this woman. Never really took any notice of her or talked to her, but I knew she was married. One day we found ourselves alone together and she made it plain she fancied me. In fact she put her hand on my thigh, I reciprocated wasn't gonn... (265 words)

Will I ever meet the right man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

18 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been single for a year now. My ex boyfriend of five years left me for someone else. Since the break up I have not dated anyone. I'm starting to feel their is no one out there for me. I've waited patiently for the right man to appear seems he is never going to show up. ... (65 words)

What should I get my 16 year old boyfriend for his birthday?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

18 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - We have been going out for a year and a half, and his birthday is coming up (turning 16). I was thinking about getting him a football with different messages on it, like "I love you" or "MP + MF forever", stuff like that. I just wanted to know if you like that idea, or if I ... (72 words)

My boyfriend doesn't want to go down on me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

18 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend doesn't want to go down on me. We have been physical for about 3 months. He loves having sex and always wants me to go down on him. I do because I enjoy it and want to make him happy. But he won't return the favor. I only got him to do it once after lots of ... (164 words)

I can't stop thinking about my ex whom I dated for only about four months

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4054 days ago

18 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This is going to sound pathetic but I can't stop thinking about my ex whom i only dated for about four months. We broke up 8 months ago. He drug the relationship out for about a month before the split, and right after we broke up I cut contact with him completely. I lead a busy ... (158 words)

If this obsessive guy were ever to show up at my workplace again, how do I handle it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4055 days ago

18 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll keep this as concise as possible. At my summer job last year, my male coworker quickly developed a huge crush on me. Because he made it so obvious, we became a common joke amongst our coworkers which really bothered me. Thankfully, the joke diminished when I left my job ... (680 words)

Is this sexual tension? Or something genuine?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4051 days ago

18 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, A few weeks ago I was out with work colleagues at a bar to celebrate finishing a job. One of the guys with us , I have grown close to and we spend hours chatting (just general silly meaningless conversations) through mail , I was sat next to him and being quite drunk and ... (281 words)

I like a girl who's been through alot. Will she ever trust me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4056 days ago

18 March 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I just turned sixteen a month ago and started voluntary work around the same time once a week during term time only. I met this girl who has been a volunteer there for about 6 months or so and shes seventeen and a half. We only really have half an hour at lunch to talk I th... (494 words)