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writes:i like this guy and he loves me too. He is asking me out, he wants me to be his gf and lover. Yes i want that too, i want him to be my bf, but i dont really know, im confused. Because since he asked me this, i've been watching him, he doesn't call me, when i call him, he barely picks up and when he picks up he is not interested in the discussion, and he cuts off without saying goodbye. He isnt concerned about me, and i think he is selfish. I dnt know if i should accept his proposal, when he doesnt care about me but im just scared on how he would react, and im also scared of my safety because he is rich and influential. Reply to this Question
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reader, llifton  +, writes (19 March 2013):
 well a couple of things i noticed right off the bat. you said he loves you, too. but then you go on to say he doesn't care about you only a handful of sentences later. so does he really love you? or does he not care? the two don't go hand in hand. also, you say you're scared for your safety because he's rich and influencial. what do you mean by that, exactly? can you elaborate a bit more?
really, i think that if you can already say that he's ignoring you and not making time for you, it seems like this will be a norm for your relationship if you choose to be with him. it's possible he's just an extremely busy man and doesn't have a whole lot of time due to whatever his job is. but nonetheless, this doesn't sound like the life you want to sign up for.
lastly, if he makes you fear for your safety for whatever reason, you should under no circumstances be with him. end of story.
good luck.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (19 March 2013):
You've given so little information that I think some of the people here may be jumping to too many conclusions and assuming more than they know.
The guy may very well be upset that you are making a big deal out of his power. He likes you, you like him, you either date or you don't.
But of you don't think he treats you the way you deserve to be treated then leave.... It's really that simple!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2013): You should be afraid of this guy. Why would you allow yourself to be involved with a man like this. He reminds me of that famous james bond villain. You know any women getting involved with him end up bad shape or dead. If you want a bad boy become a biker chick at least those bad boys look after their women. Good luck..
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reader, oldbag  +, writes (18 March 2013):
 HiI don't think he loves you, not if he behaves as you say.What is it you like about him exactlyHe is rude to you on the phone,you say he is selfish,your scared of him, so why on earth would you go out with him.Keep looking
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