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writes:heyy ...i need your advise please i know my story will be long but if u have the patience please read it ...thank you.so i was in a relationship with this guy for a year. in the relationship there was passion extreme love...but there wasnt trust from my side...he used to trust me in anything but i didnt trust him at all... the things that he used to do all of them were making me doubt that he is not telling me the truth... the last few months we were having a long distance relationship so he visited me on new year ...he told me that he is bring me a promise ring and we will get engaged and we will go to las vegas ... so the day that that we were having our trip he told me that all his money and the rings were stolen and he is waiting for his friend to send him money...so i told him i dont believe u there is no such thing that anyone can still everything and leave the credit card and the passport... he told me that i swear to God that they are stollen and he acted in a way that everyone in our family believed his story...after that he went back to his country and i started to here alot of things about him, that he had alot of debt that he should pay and he is not paying them ...when i asked him he first told me that there is no such thing then he created another story to make me believe... after that my brother went and asked the guy who made the ring if he did so ,the guy told to my brother that he never made a ring for him(the guy was my brothers friend) so i talked with him again about this he tried to convince me that the guy was not telling the truth ... he called the guy and he was speaking with him on a loud speaker so that i hear what they are talking ...so the guy told him that i didnt know what to tell them...after few minutes my brother called me and told me that the guy just talk with him and told him that ur sister's boyfriend wrote me a text that i will call you just tell me that "i didnt know what to tell them" because my gf is listening to our conversation...so i broke up with him and told him u are a lier and he didnt admit that he lied ...he told me that i was believing everything that others tell me but i asked him how does he know that i was listening to ur conversation ... he told me he is jealous .... please please advise me i love him soooo much but i broke up with him cause everything was so confusing i think he acts in a perfect way to cover up what he did .....but i dont understand why was he lying ???????i love him so much but i cant trust him anymore and we had a great memories that everytime they are on my mind i hate ittttt
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (18 March 2013):
 I have no clue why he's lying. I do know it's NOT because of ANYTHING YOU DID OR DID NOT DO.
If you don't trust him now, you probably never will.
Even if you think you love him (and what part of the reality of him do you love... really do you love him or what you WANT HIM TO BE?) you must walk away from this..
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (18 March 2013):
 Sounds like you were the victim of a con artist. I would say he's lying simply to hide the fact that he isn't who he portrays.
I would gather up any mementos you have of him, conduct a little ritual and bury or burn them, so you can start fresh.
It sounds as though he was from another country? Definitely stick to people who live in your town for now, that will help.
Cry as much as you need, but after you cry, get up and have a nice brisk walk, talk to a girlfriend and plan some fun activities with family and friends.
I'd cut contact with him or anyone who knows him, you don't need to maintain a relationship with a scammer.
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