A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am maturing at a very slow pace. I have never kissed a girl and i don't drink or go out. I know people younger than me who are engaging in sexual behaviour and it makes me feel like a child despite being older. I know who I am and I am working towards being the man I want to be. I don't know how long it will take but I don't want to rush it.I have no desire to sleep with a lot of women or have sex now, I would much rather have a relationship. It's confusing because I am the only guy who doesn't seem to want casual sex.I am wondering if there is something wrong with me and if i need to change my behaviour and pick up the pace to becoming an adult
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (18 March 2013):
 Why would you let someone else set the pace for your own life? Perhaps you just need to broaden your friendships to other people, if you feel like the outsider.
Ignore the media and Hollywood stories and all that nonsense; they sell drama not relevant to people's everyday lives.
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reader, Dizzy Lizzy +, writes (18 March 2013):
 Mmm, who is to say what normal is? Yes your a male in your early 20's but having sex with casual people or in a relationship does not define a adult. But taking the responsibility of using protection while having intercourse or already having a mindset like yours that wants a real meaningful relationship when having any sexual activity already makes you a MAN & adult. We all have different sex drives, many think men are always horny and ready for action but I've seen quite the opposite. Men tend to brag about their sexual experiences and might sound like they are having many sleepless nights of hardcore sex but it might just be the opposite. Now is there any reason why you don't feel normal ? By that i am trying to ask if any dramatic events might had happened that you have no desire or maybe your spiritual beliefs? Do you masturbate to porn ?
I'm just trying to get more insight sorry for all the questions.
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