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Should I get in touch with the guy I like, wait until we're at the same social event again, or just leave it altogether?

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Question - (20 July 2013) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 July 2013)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *abycakesX writes:

I went to a posh boat party a month ago, and met this guy there, for convenience lets call them "Tom". We spoke and for about 20 minutes and I realised we had a lot in common with football, tennis etc!

I then went to a garden party and he was there last week but I only spoke to him briefly about clubbing.. but I caught us looking at each other with awkward eye contact later that evening!

A few of my friends knew him before and said he is on the quieter side hence why maybe he hasn't asked for my number etc?

He went out last night with a mutual male friend and a couple of other guys who I'm not that friendly with, I got invited by this mutual friend but decided not to go clubbing due to being tired and going out the previous night! I'm quite gutted I couldn't go as I was hoping something may have happened (not sex, just a kiss and conversation..)

He's very cute, and I would love to get to know him without being cringe about it.. Should I Facebook and ask if he's going to the footie match? Or wait until a next mutual event comes up? Or leave it?

Thank you! xoxo

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2013):

I think you should Facebook him and say hello. Tell him how you enjoyed your conversation at the boat party.

Then tell him that it would be nice to hear from him sometime.

Leave it at that. Now he knows you're interested and his response would prove he is too.

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