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writes:Hey I'm a 17 year old girl and I really like a 25 year old guy that has just broken up with his girlfriend. I'm aware of our age difference because he's had a live in relationship with a girl and I've only had a couple of boyfriends my age. I think he's interested in me too but I'm not sure what to do about it, sometimes I make a fool out of myself because I feel in ore of him but other times we have really long amazing conversations where I feel like we're exactly on the same wavelength. The problem is, as we work together occasionally but not often, I have to wait to see him the next time we just happen to work together and now I know I won't see him for 2 months. I'm afraid he'll forget about me, that he only showed an interest in me because I was the first girl that listened to him since his girlfriend hurt him and left him in a vulnerable rebound state and that most importantly, if he does like me, he doesn't make an effort to see me again because he is 25 and doesn't want to look bad chasing a younger girl. I really don't know how to go about this but I don't want to leave it long enough that he finds another girlfriend. What do I do? please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (20 July 2013):
 I suggest that you "leave it" forever, and look for guys who are closer to your age...... That image of the cool, suave and sophiticated older guys is fleeting. It's far more likely that a guy that much different in age from you really isn't much of a prospect....
Good luck...
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