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*enus1173
writes:Me and my bf have been in a relationship long distance for three months now, we met 3 years ago And dated then but then he got sent to Iraq twice and we lost cobtact over time, he got into contact with me at the beginning of the year by email and asked did I want to continue our relationship. He lives in Florida and I go to college in GA. He's 10 yrs older than me, and people know we're together . we talked about eventually moving in together, kids, marriage etc...he came and visit me 3 weeks ago for 2 days, we spoke that day I sent him a pic he said nice and that was it and now I haven't spoken to him in almost 3 weeks I texted and called, emailed, and sent him fb messages but he hasn't returned any of them.. But I do see he updates his fb statuses but only through mobile... We had planned for me to come visit NEXT weekend, but he's still not responding to any of my messagesI just dont understand, he gave no inkling something was wrong or that he wanted to break-up?
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reader, venus1173 +, writes (21 July 2013):
venus1173 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSorry for the confusion..
He brought up the whole marriage and kids subject.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2013): who brought up the topic marriage, kids and moving in together? Not that it really matters but maybe it was too soon to talk about it, maybe be he is not ready for a serious relationship !! How did he respond to that? who knows maybe be he is trying to think about it and that's why he distant himself !! You said he was deployed 2 times to Iraq, right? Do you know if he suffers from depression? I suggest you don't email him, call him or send him any messages on FB for few days and see if he will contact you to confirm your get together next weekend. If he does not contact you, which I am sure he will do -man normally are impatient - then you can email him one last time and ask for a closure. I really hope that helps and all the best for you. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2013): Sorry to hear about this, but I was in the same situation too. My LDR ex bf and I talked about marriage too and planed to move in together just two months before we could see each other again. He still said he loved me 2 weeks before we broke up. I could feel he was a little distant. He read my FB messages but hardly replied. I think what you're bf is doing to you is a sign. I suggest you ask him for closure then walk away and move on.
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