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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Help!!!! Where do we go from here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4175 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have only been in a relationship for a short period of time but we've been through a lot already. I miscarried recently and broke the news to him, I cried and he held me and kissed me. I think it hurt him too. He left and I asked why... he said he needed to ... (136 words)

Too shy verses too confident... can anyone relate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4175 days ago

19 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - When I like a girl I am really nervous and shy and when i don't like a girl i am super confident and make girls laugh etc, does anyone else experience this?... (32 words)

I deleted my LDR guy, did I do the right thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4175 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I started to like someone long distance on skype and he used to get upset if I was not able to speak to him for a while or was too busy and seemed to care. Well recently he had been distant with me, one word answers and really cold if lucky, most of the time nothing. I ... (195 words)

Trusting him isn't easy because I'm afraid he's trying to get into my pants

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4176 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Just started talking to this guy approx. 2 weeks ago and after a few days we got flirty. He came home Friday for Thanksgiving break and was completely excited to meet me.. so he drove over and we hung out and kissed a bit. During that he kept repeating how he liked me so much ... (235 words)

Is it possible for a 58 year old man to change?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4176 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age - Do you think it's possible for a 58 year old male to change? I, 50, have had a high/low relationship with him for 9 months. The highs are wonderful, but then he will flip out over nothing (this last time was the tv remote) and end the relationship again. He has had an extre... (86 words)

Should I tell this girl of my feelings or wait until she's older?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4175 days ago

19 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys,i realy want your opinions..i like a girl 4 years younger than me..shes 17.she had many male friends but never a boyfriend...she knows me very well..we had even traveled together and talked many times.and she showed signs that she likes me(nervousnes ,blush, smile ... (183 words)

Ex and I are going on dates, but no title now. Is he using me while looking around?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4173 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for a year. We were together every single day living together. Then we broke up cause we were fighting alot. He has asked me back in his life but not as his official girlfriend. He wants to take things slow and go on dates. This makes me feel ... (95 words)

I don't know what our relationship is anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4175 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi.. So i ve known this guy for about 4 years now. And eventually we have become best friends.. But before getting into anything, just a bit about the guy.. he is very affectionate with girls.. and is would do anything for any of his friends atleast thats what he tells me... (285 words)

Why can't I see my husband's computer screen? Why is everything a secret?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I had to live apart last year after he lost his job. He admits to having girlfriends while he was away. Now he is always reading twitter on his Ipad, and when I asked if could see what he was laughing about, he went ballistic. He admitted the twitter feed was ... (182 words)

FWB: Is there anything I can do to make him commit or should I call it quits?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4176 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So i hear friends with benefits dosent work and i am not usually the type to be involved in one but i think i got myself stuck in it! So there is this guy i have met threw a mutual friend and we kinda hit it off from the start and were flirting back and forth with each other. ... (275 words)

Gained weight since being in a relationship, it affects our sex life, and really want to lose it! Any tips?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4175 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, this isn't really a dating question, but it does effect my sex life with my boyfriend. I am currently 180lbs at 5f 6 inches, and this is the heaviest I have ever been! Before I moved in with my boyfriend I was around 140/150 and now I've just put on all this co... (256 words)

I want to be her friend but I'm worried about her group of friends. How can I get her to be my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4175 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - this girl in my class has the same interests as me because she want's to be a fashion designer, so do i. we both sometimes play the most random games online. we both always go on facebook, we have loads of interests, and i really want to be her friend because there hasn't been ... (149 words)

Boyfriend can't accept that I have to communicate with my baby's daddy. How can I get this to work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4175 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have just separated over the fact that I have to communicate with my baby's daddy. He feels that I am to only speak to him when it comes to the child face to face and not over the phone. I told him how this would be when my baby daddy was granted visitation. ... (105 words)

How can I boost my confidence and lose the nervous before this first date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4176 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I have a date this week with this drop dead gorgeous man who i met online, Im sooo nervous I'm even thinking of cancelling! I've had dates before but I am so shy its cringeworthy, i just don't have any confidence! I really like him and I would love for us both to want a s... (116 words)

Been with boyfriend for 7 years. Why won't he commit?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4175 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with a man for more than seven years now. He hardly makes the effort to call or ask to see me and I'm always the one asking when I'm going to see him or asking him to SMS me or I end up always the first to call or SMS. When i ask him if we will ... (127 words)

Why does my boyfriend lie and get angry when I ask about his friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4175 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hiya, im in love with my partner and adore him, he has said he is more comfortable with me than anyone, and i feel the same about him. but for some reason whenever i ask how things are, or what hes up to for the weekend he lies about what hes doing? he seems annoyed wheneve... (140 words)

I'm trying hard not to push him away, but have I lost my chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4175 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hello, ive been with my partner for nearly 3 years a lot has happened between us, good and bad, and i feel completely comfortable and happy when im with him. everything feels right with him. but because of his background with women and my inexperience in relation... (172 words)

I don't understand the way he's acting, please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4176 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my bf for 5 yrs only 3 days ago he changed he started telling me to shut up every time I spoke that he hates me. He didn't want me to stop at his mum house were he lives. So I went home and thought that it might be cuz he hasn't had his addiction so I went back ... (222 words)

Whats on this older mans mind?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4175 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - so quick summary : i'm 19 and go gym very often this guy lets call him 'S' is 30, yeah its abit of an age difference. ('S'works at the gym) we make alot of eyecontact and smile and flirt etc ...hes never too foward with the flirting, we have chemistry. there is obvious ... (249 words)

What would you do if your significant other said their ex's name during sex?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4173 days ago

19 November 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been together for 3 years. The other night we were in the middle of sex and she said another man's name. More importantly it was her ex's name. She tried to play it off like it didn't happen. Has anyone been in this situation before? What would you do if your ... (64 words)

Did I take things too seriously?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4175 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - There is this guy at work that I have been interested in for the past two years but never had the guts to talk to besides work related stuff. However I did ask another co-worker what type of person he was to help me decide whether or not I should try to get to know him. But ... (773 words)

Would you stay with your husband for monetary reasons only

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4174 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My friend has decided to stay with her husband for monetary reasons despite not being happy with him. He makes six times as much as her and she is barely getting by at her low income job. She got laid off from a great job and so did many others at her former company and she ... (272 words)

How do I get read of this "friends with benefits"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! Ok I know this is gone sounds trivial but I need help with it!! I met this guy a while back we went for a few drinks and hit it off , I explained to him that I was not looking for anything serious and that what I needed at the moment was purely sexual, we agree that if ... (265 words)

What is going on with the married man I'm involved with?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4176 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am involved with a married man who came on strongly via email and text. He has a very stressful time consuming job, but found time to spend with me on the phone, and write long romantic letters. We have seen each other twice. At the beginning, he spoke of finding " the one", ... (156 words)

My boyfriend dumped me... Should I take him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4176 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I had been with my boyfriend for 2 years, long distance for the majority, and he moved home. He began being very distant and stopped making an effort for me (this had happened before and we broke up). We went of holiday and he was still off with me, saying we needed to have a ... (269 words)

I'm from a lower caste than my boyfriend and I need to tell him, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hello friends! well i am from a punjabi family and i am in love with a guy who is also from same community. we are very serious about each other. i am 21 and he is 22, we have decided that we will tell about our relationship to our parents after getting our career set. we are ... (122 words)

Life has been hard...what should I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4176 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So, life isn't great. I need some advice on what steps to take in life. I'll make it as short as I can. I'm a 17 year old female and I am from the UK. So, when I was born my mam and dad where together but not married. My mam had another child to a different man (she... (754 words)

We've broken up but he has offered to pay for the operation for me to get my virginity back, should I let him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4174 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend got me loose my virginity, then he promised he would pay the money to get it back. i love him dearly and i'm sure that we are going to get married 4 days before now i read a chat between him and an ex in which he said "my love" and "sweetheart" to her. this is ... (256 words)

Am I in love and what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4175 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - [Mod Note: Question edited as original post was far too long] Dear cupid, I don't really know if what I am feeling is infatuation or true love. I met this guy at school, at first, I was mainly attracted to him because of his looks. I didn't know him very well at the time so ... (656 words)

Girls: What is more important, penetrative sex or oral sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4176 days ago

19 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi This question is for ladies. I just hear how much girls like oral sex, so I want to ask you(girls) if oral sex is more important and more enjoyable for you then intercourse/penetration? Thanks a lot.... (40 words)

What happened in 2 days for her to change her mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4175 days ago

19 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So i was talking to this girl for about 4 months. We went on plenty of dates and She always hinted that She wanted a relationship. She even hinted about sexual interests to me as well. This friday we went out and had an awesome time. Everything was perfect. Then on saturday I ... (86 words)

How can I carry on knowing he cheated on me for revenge, when nothing ever happened with me and my ex? Should I call it a day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4176 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Don't really know where to start with this but ill just give it a shot. Basically I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, he cheated on me at the beginning and I forgive him. The problem is the girl he had his affair with would not let it go and continues to harass me to ... (439 words)

I finally met a great guy - but he's so selfish in bed!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4176 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - After being single for over 2 years and meeting a string of losers, I decided to give internet dating a go and met a wonderful guy about 6 weeks ago. He makes me laugh, he seems to care about me and he has told all his friends and family about me. He takes me out and treats m... (363 words)

Looking for tips on how to give yourself an orgasm or help a man to

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4176 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm only 20 so not worried about this exactly, just eager. I understand an orgasm isn't often a part of sex for the female. Having read plenty of complaints like this, I'm not looking for reassurance that I'm not 'broken', just looking for a few tips on how to speed it up. ... (85 words)

Should I get back with my ex? We've both slept with other people but now we're both single.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4176 days ago

19 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, please help! I have a child with my ex gf who I was with for a few years. We lived together but fell out quite a lot and used to split up regularly. We ended a few times and about a year ago we split up for good, she moved on to another bloke and was seeing him for mont... (156 words)

Indian parents have found out about my American boyfriend and I'm in trouble.......

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4175 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My dad somehow got into my phone and read my messages with my boyfriend and my best friend (who I tell EVERYTHING to). He found out that I was dating him and that I had kissed him. My parents are totally against "casual" relationships. They think that relationships should b... (252 words)

In love and want to marry but our families are against it. Should I leave him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4176 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I love a guy from past 7 years and we wanted to get married but because of different caste our families are against us but we both cannot live without each other..... And he is one who earns in his family so I am confused that what should I do if I am getting married to him t... (124 words)

Will my cheating ex ever look back and regret her actions?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4176 days ago

19 November 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Having recently come out of a five year relationship where I have just found out she lied and deceived me from day one, where I have just learned she was seeing others behind my back; I was wondering if there will ever come a time when she will look back and think "oh my god ... (102 words)

What to do when someone likes you and is attracted to you (and you are to them) but they don't completely understand you?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4176 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy for about a month now and we like each other and he's made it quite clear he's attracted to me (and I am to him but I've made it less clear). Part of me would like to develop the relantionship into romantic direction but he doesn't understand one ... (184 words)

Is it possible to talk to a girl every day but not have feelings for her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4176 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - For a few months now I have been building these feelings for a friend of mine. It started with an evening in the summer, where nothing happened, but I just started thinking of him in this way. Weirdly we started texting and talking a lot on Facebook after that. And mostly it ... (226 words)

My boyfriend told me I could sleep with my ex because he didn't see us ever getting married

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4176 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age - The other night I asked my long term boyfriend if he ever saw us as getting married. I want to be married to him eventually and I wanted to see how he felt. He told me that he may want to but he is not sure. I was a little hurt as I think we have a good relationship. Well, ... (336 words)

Does evidence on his boxers mean he is cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4176 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I saw dry sperm stain on my hubby boxer amd he toil me when ever he urinates sperm comes out from his body. Am not happy because he has not make love to me for a long time and I feel he is cheating on me.... (46 words)

He says one thing, but does another and then other people say something even different! I'm so confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4177 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been down and depressed for the past couple of days because I fell in love with a guy who obviously is still hooked on his ex whom he still lives with and has a child with. But here's my story. I met him at work. He was my supervisor and told me from the beginning that ... (820 words)

My room mate doesn't understand why I don't want her to walk around naked in front of my boyfriend

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4176 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I asked a question awhile back, and now things have progressed and I need HELP! This is the link to my first question... http://www.dearcupid.org/question/our-female-room-mate-who-has-a-crush.html (RECAP: My female roommate has, on multiple occassions, come out of ... (247 words)

Am I being manipulated by my live in boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4176 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy through my ex n we were seeing one another and things were going good. My kids adored him n he always had time of day for my kids....the moment i moved in he stopped sleeping in the same bed had nothing to do with my kids n we have been together bout two maybe ... (173 words)

Oworker spreading my business and trying to upset me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4175 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I deal with my coworkers who is telling other coworkers I'm lesbian and other coworkers about my other job? For the record I am gay and do have another job but its none of her business. I found out she lied n told some coworker I tried to date her, the coworker she told ... (105 words)

How do I get him to try harder to know me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4176 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have been dating this guy for almost 1 1/2 month and known him for alsmot 3 months. We started dating after we slept together, after a party where we both were a bit drunk. Anyhow, I know he has a busy schedule with work, studies and training so we only see each other o... (278 words)

I'm interested in my neighbor. Do I make a move and risk compromising our friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4176 days ago

19 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone! So my problem is pretty straightforward - I need help approaching a guy. Usually, this wouldn't be so difficult for me, but the circumstances are a little stickier than anything I've ever had to deal with. Basically, I'm a freshman in college and I have a tow... (260 words)