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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My husband seems to prefer watching porn over having sex with me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

28 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I got married within a year of knowing each other and we have only been married for 6 months. Since I've had our daughter he seems to prefer watching porn to having sex. we only have sex if i basically tell him to have sex with me. a few months or so ago i found ... (175 words)

Orgasms out of sync with ejaculation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

28 November 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a question about an issue I've been having. Basically, it seems like my ejaculation and orgasms have gotten out of sync. This has only happened in the past 5 years or so, previously they happened at exactly the same time. I'll try to describe what I mean. When... (245 words)

I feel that I am not the best lover for my wife

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

28 November 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - First of all, I give my excuses for my English. I am from Argentina. I got married 3 years ago when I was 44 and my wife was 42. We met each other one year before our marriage. The thing is that I am extremely jealous of her sexual past. She insist that I am her best lover... (249 words)

What is going on with this guy, and why am I wasting time on him when there are other guys who put out more effort?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

28 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Back in June this guy I knew vaguely from high school started talking to me. We ended up going out now and then over the summer and eventually hooked up. Everyone warned me he was kind of weird, that he wasn't the type to want to have a girlfriend because he was too busy ... (463 words)

What's with the stupid games these women I work with are playing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4160 days ago

28 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, basically at work this I am sure this man "D" fancies me. However today this happened. I saw A- who told me K had told her we were going shopping tomorrow. But she was going to have a beer with D. She invited me, i said no. I went to work, K- a female who im sure fa... (217 words)

Why do I act this way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

28 November 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - hey guys im so confused i dont have any attraction to any girl nor guy when i get close to a girl i sorta hype myself up and think i like that girl but i have no true feelings when i actually think about it please help me try to understand (im a 15 male)when i do get close to a ... (115 words)

Why is he not picking up my calls or calling me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

28 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid My bf is not picking up his call for past 2 days. We didn't fight and I sent him couple of messages and no response for that too. I saw him online but he is not responding to my messages. I left voicemail. We are in LDR for 2 months and I can't visit him right ... (143 words)

I'm so confused. I feel so bad for his son and wish he cared about him more but I don't want to be unsympathetic to my boyfriend.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

28 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I wrote before about my boyfriend who has no contact with his son and there was a pretty clear response from you counties and uncles, that his behaviour is no good. Especially moving were responses from those of you whose fathers were absent. I'm writing again beca... (678 words)

My daughters are jealous of the time I spend with my boyfriend.

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

28 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok, here is one for ya. Been in a serious relationship with a wonderful man and things are great except for my two girls (ages 19 and 20) from a previous marriage. I thought it would be his 11 year old daughter that would be a problem, but no... My girls are jealous of me ... (92 words)

I think my boyfriend wants nothing t do with me.. What do you think??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

28 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So i haven't talked to my boyfriend in about 3 weeks.. and i feel as if he's ignoring me.. i don't know what to do.. this isn't the first time. He usually dosen't talk to me for a week or two then just calls or texts me and acts like nothings wrong.. Do you think he could be ... (111 words)

I have so many questions and so many concerns about whether or not I can trust him.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

28 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - part of my boyfriends job is to drag women into traps. he makes them think he loves them so they fall in his love and then he tests their real emotions towards some stuff. he promised to stop this job in a week, after the last file he is dealing with right now is closed. i... (446 words)

My boyfriend cheated...should I take him back?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4153 days ago

28 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of 1 1/2 yrs has cheated on me with another woman that he said he knows for many years. He said is nothing serious, he helps her out when she needs him and he can count on one hand how many times he had sex with her while we been together. I asked him why? he said ... (267 words)

I feel like I am competing with my boyfriend's own mom. She is insanely jealous of me. What's going on!? Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

28 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. I feel like his relationship with his mother is unusual (mostly on her part). When I first met his mother I thought she was very nice and apparently she thought the same of me. I am a very friendly person naturally so meeting ... (1007 words)

I think my boyfriend has been fantasizing about a co-worker for some time.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

28 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, just wondering can anyone give me some advice or input into something I an dealing with. I think my boyfriend has been fantasizing about a co-worker for some time. I think when he was in bed with me he was also fantasizing about her. I am now thinking that some of the ... (94 words)

Is he a better match for her, is she going to leave me? I don't know what to do!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4153 days ago

28 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a freshman in college and so is my girlfriend of 2 years. We are very close, but I attend college 7 hours away from her. I don't see her except on holidays, and recently she has been getting really close with a good looking Indian guy (She is Indian too, I'm white) I got ... (245 words)

Which one do I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

28 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a question.. Ok so there this guy. He says he's completely in love with me and I'm his soul mate etc. *D* Then there's my ex, *A* he also says the same stuff as *D* but. I think *A* actually means it. Because me and *A* have dated for 5months and he didn't cheat on ... (178 words)

Is it wrong to have a relationship that's going nowhere?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

28 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy online, we chatted for a couple of years on and off and eventually we met up and started dating. Before we met I was never really interested in him romantically but in person he was charming and kinda grew on me. We've been together for about 8 months now but as we ... (302 words)

There's always rumors going around that my man is cheating

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

28 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Am in a relationship fo 5years with th guy of th same age,we hav a 4year old baby gal and am nw 2months pregnant.the problem is thre always rumours of him n otha gals evn wen i caught him redhanded he said its bcoz he jst likes jokes..nw he insults me... (52 words)

I have a fear of existing. What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2422 days ago

28 November 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I know this isn't exactly to do with relationships, or perhaps it is but it's more about my relationship with life and the world. I could really do with some help. My problem started about 2 years ago, at least to the extent that I am suffering today. I began to experience pr... (279 words)

What to do - we're in love but I don't think I'm what he really wants.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4165 days ago

28 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Over the past 2 1/2 yrs, I've fallen in love with a wonderful man and he says he loves me too BUT I have this fatalistic feeling that I am not the perfect match for him. I feel like he should have a financially savvy (CPA or stock broker), younger, never married, childless ... (185 words)

I'm 14, am I ready for sex?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4153 days ago

28 November 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - I am a 14 year old girl...i am from india...the question i want to ask is that am i ready for sex?...i know this guy since 8 months..we are pretty much good friends...we share everything with eachother..no secrets...he wants to have sex with me...so do i..but im not sure ... (117 words)

Am I rushing the wedding bells?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

28 November 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a serious relationship for 10 months with a wonderful man. We see each other every day and spend weekends together. Our families have intertwined and everything is going great. When should I be expecting a marriage proposal? I'm 43 years old, and usually I ... (139 words)

What do I say to my ex when she comes to see me to get her back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

28 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend of a year ended our relationship over things I've done. I feel like a part of my soul has been taken. She has given me chance after chance, and I've blown it each time. All I need is for a fresh start, and one more chance to prove that I'll be the man she wants ... (259 words)

Why does he not want to chat with me anymore? He said he'd marry me but then started talking about sex all the time, since then I've hardly heard from him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

28 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - DC, I had a crush on a guy for close to four years; we flirted, and then when we(me) finally opened up, he told me he had a girlfriend, that he loves and would marry one day. He said we could only be friends..but he immediately offered to hang out with me for lunch or dinner. I ... (230 words)

Great girlfriend but emotionally demanding and has temper, what to do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

28 November 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I just need a bit of advice about my girlfriend whom I have been dating for 9 months. She's a great girl and we have very strong physical attraction to each other. We got sexual very early on in the relationship and still enjoying an active sex life, I feel that both of us ... (618 words)

I feel really jealous that he has moved on before me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

28 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - A year and a half ago I met this guy, we had a fling for two weeks and he returned to his home country. Four months later I went out there to travel, but ende up staying with him in his city for 7 months. We had an intense, unstable, emotional relationship full of jealousy and ... (476 words)

I have an unexplainable attraction to someone that I shouldn't have

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

28 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Just another psychological curiosity. I’m not quite sure how to describe him, I guess an old crush or attractions. He wasn’t my usual bartender or rock-star with rip jean n tatts[it a style that I am most attracted to] We notice each other from across the room at uni c... (545 words)

My husband cheated, the marriage is over but I'm afraid to end it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4153 days ago

28 November 2012 (F)

age - Dear cupid My husband had cheated on me in the past a few times i for gave him and we have tried to put it behind us. His affairs went on all though our marriage until he got caught,(20 yrs) no doubt he would still be cheating if he had not been caught (who knows)? I cannot ... (184 words)

I'm 22, he's 53. How will it look?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

28 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i joined dating site to think i can find a real man.. cauce i wanna settle down.. i met a man who is older than me he is 53 we will be meeting soon 2013.. i just dont know how it will look like if i am with an old man. were open minded in all things sometimes i feel like ... (113 words)

Do I love my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

28 November 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - I want to know if I really love my ex, we were happy and always knew if something was not right and we understand each other. We are still friends and its been 2 months now but he is dating my new boyfriends friend. There was never a problem between us but now he says I'm not ... (79 words)

I showed my online boyfriend a fake picture. Now I'm afraid he wont accept the real me.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

28 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - 3 years back i met this sweet guy through online.Hes very sweet, after 3 years of chatting i never expect i will fall in love with him and he told me he fall for me too. he always say im the sweetest gal he ever met he has my number and we talk and greet each other on special ... (242 words)

We dated long distance for two years. After finally meeting in person, he dumps me, and I can't seem to let him go.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

28 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in a long distance relation for about 2 years.. I really fell for this guy however he was so mean to me. We always argued and he would make me feel so low. However we did have some good times bt the bad definitely outweighed the good. To sum it up, I suffered from a lot ... (522 words)

Is she interested, or am I just too lonely?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

28 November 2012 (M)

age - Is she interested, or am I just too lonely? Ok, let me lay down the ground work. I must be twice her age. and yes I do have problems finding women of my age or any other for that matter. She must be about 25, 6 foot 3, very skinny with a tiny voice. I am none of these thing, a... (338 words)

Why is there such a double standard regarding men's and women's sexuality?

This question has 41 answers - newest was posted 4146 days ago

28 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am openly dating. And my brother seems to think that I am a potential hoe even though I do not have sex with these men. He's young and is influenced heavily by society and the media and the defintion of what a woman is "supposed" to normally act like. For instance, my ... (324 words)

All my life I've felt like something was wrong with me,

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4152 days ago

28 November 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - This isn't really about relationships, but it kind of does. All my life i've felt like something was wrong with me, and the more I think about it, the more i realize that I'm a loser, I'm a pathetic loser and nothing I do seems right, I know that Facebook isn't where I sh... (302 words)

I really like him, but I don't think he likes me, even though he flirts with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

28 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I met this freshman(I'm a junior) boy this year of school. He seemed great and all at first, but dorky and young. He started flirting with me, or so I and everyone else thought. He always spends lunch with me, he takes my phone, he messes with me, and he teases me.(Now, I'm ... (165 words)

I slept with my boyfriends friend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4151 days ago

28 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, So this may be a bit long, sorry for that. Basically I was with a friends with benefits for a couple of months, but I knew it wasn't going any where. So I went on a dating site just to see if there would be anyone. Fortunately there was. I broke it off with my friens w... (397 words)

Will I ever have children?? :(

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

28 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I had been on the depo injection for 5 years until may 6 months ago. There's still no sign of a period. Myself and my husband are trying for a child but to no avail. My doctor never warned me of any dangers involving depo. I have recently read of people on it only a year and ... (84 words)

My boyfriend is living with his baby mama...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

28 November 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is living with his baby mama... So my boyfriend recently (4 months ago) had a baby with his last girlfriend. We have been dating for seven months and I really like him. He is so sweet and really goes out of his way to make sure that I know I am special. He lives wi... (176 words)

Do you think he's lost interest or he's just mad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4166 days ago

28 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So to keep a long story short I've been dating this guy for about 2 months. Instead of getting hurt I was kinda pushing him away and hurting him by not even realizing it and he always chased after me (I know I'm wrong for it). We saw each other the whole weekend and I freak ... (216 words)

How do I get over this cheating guy? He's just found out his ex is pregnant.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

28 November 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok soo I have this really huge crush on a senior nd well we've been talking nd been friends for about a year now ok Hey asked me out over the summer but I said I wasn't ready I then asked him when I was ready. He said I'm not ready I'm starting senior year I want to party nd... (305 words)

Firstly, have I lost any chance with him? Secondly, after confessing my feelings our friendship has become very strained. If there is no hope, how do I salvage our friendship?

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28 November 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - One of my good friends and I have feelings for each other. The problem is, he lives in a different country and things have been very difficult between us. Even though he lives in a different country, he comes to visit a lot because he is best friends with one of my friends. W... (371 words)

Worried I'm gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

28 November 2012 (M)

age 22-25 - Well I'm 13 I like girls, but I'm scared I'm turning gay I kind of get excited when I think about a penis, I get hard when I think of a penis, but I would never want to have sex or kiss another guy I'm sure i was born straight, I mean when I was in 2nd grade, I had ... (171 words)