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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

None of the men I meet stick around!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

9 June 2012 (F) age 36-40 - Hi I would be really grateful for any answers to this I am a single parent to a little girl who is 4 I have no problem meeting men but they do not stick around here's some background info met a man fell pregnant after a year (my daughters father) walks out on me at 11 weeks ... (217 words)

Do you still believe that love is central? That love makes the world go round?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age - To be in love is pure magic,but lovng that special person maybe not be that easy. So it is very important to be true always to youself. Always remembering that we are treated the way we allow ourselves to be treated. We must know ourselves first before we have a hope of knowin... (86 words)

CAN SOULMATES OVERCOME THEIR OBSTACLES

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

9 June 2012 (M)

age - Does a soulmate relationship ever overcome the obstacles placed before it?... (11 words)

My Husband's Dreamhouse is my Nightmare!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Last year, we had to move, so we went house hunting. We looked for a couple of weeks, then my husband fell in love with a place that seemed a great bargain. Well, when we went to look at it again, I realized it is in a bad area. I talked to him many times over this, and he just ... (350 words)

I'm scard to be kissed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

9 June 2012 (F) age 26-29 - I am dateing a guy a few weeks now and he asked me if he can kiss me it was on mxit he asked me if he can kiss me and I said "yea sure I don't mind" then the saturday he visited me and tried to kiss me I turned my head so he can't kiss me cause I'm really scared to kiss someone ... (84 words)

He is gone, and I can't find joy in my daily life!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, here it goes. I have been with "J" for four years. He has helped me raise my children (none of which are biologically his) pulled me from a dark place i was headed down and showed me what a hood relationship could offer. The first year wasnt EASY but no relationship is all ... (473 words)

I think he likes me, what should I do next?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 and there is a guy I like. This guy is 14 and we have karate together and I think he likes me. He looks at me when I don't look at him but I catch him seeing me and I say what and he says nothing.we've hug 3x the 1st one and the last he asked me to hug and the 2nd I've ... (123 words)

Do men sleep with women just for the sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Will men really sleep with a girl if they don't fancy them? Not talking about beer goggles time when drunk. Stone cold sober, pre meditated chatting someone up in the expectation of having sex?... (34 words)

Is there anything wrong in cuddling with your cousin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i am single and dont want to be in a relationship ever again, but recently i have been staying with my cousin's cousin. We cuddle through out the night .is there anything wrong with just cuddling with a male 3rd cousin?... (42 words)

What kind of a problem is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 years old and when I pee, a small amount of goo(the ones when you blow your nose and lighist clear mucus comes out) after or during peeing.i don't have a boyfriend or did sex.it doesn't itch or burn when I pee but it does sometimes smells very little. I want to a doctor ... (143 words)

Is drinking too much pop bad?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 16 and i drink a lot of pop...a lot of people say its bad to drink it,so i'm not sure if i should be drinking it...sometimes i have 1 or 2 cans a day...is that bad?... (39 words)

He keeps trying to change who I am, and kissed another girl ---

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend is really nice and has been really good to me so far but the other week i found out he kissed another girl they've been friends for years so i pretended i didnt care but since then our relationship has been a little tense also he keeps try to sort of change who i ... (107 words)

Why would an ex want to spend the holidays with you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4339 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age - Hello I know the 4th of July is a little ways off but my ex and I broke up last August we lived together 8 months dated nine it had its moments he is a demanding type well he the other week after being in the hospital came by after getting out few days before that he brought up ... (184 words)

She wants to have sex with me, does that mean she wants to date me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

9 June 2012 (M) age 30-35 - basicly i have had a crush on this girl for a while now, im sure she fancied me at one point, we were talking on facebook and texting at every opportunity, we both live in the same area and met up on a few occasions, then our 'relationship' disintegrated, asin we spoke less and ... (424 words)

It takes forever for him to orgasm

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So my bf and i have been together for a little over a month now and whenever we partake in sexual activites it takes him 45mins or longer to ejaculate and orgasm. my problem is that i'm usaully done after 20 mins. i can turn him on just fine, he can never keep it down in fact ... (137 words)

I miss having him as my boyfriend. How can I move forward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4339 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend broke up yesterday. I know it won't sound like much but he really was my bestfriend beforehand and I don't know what to do now. I've gone through the break-up maturely and we've spoken on the phone and everything is fine, and we'll stay friends. The thing ... (97 words)

How can I get my boyfriend to leave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, thanks in advance for any answers. I live with my boyfriend, with a joint tenency but recently we've not been getting on well and we want to split up. He doesn't like living here and can't afford it on his own anyway. I, however, really like the flat we're in and can... (136 words)

I just feel like I don't get to see my best friend enough and it feels like everything is against us

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4339 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I feel lost without my best friend. We are closer than family. My mood gradually declines when we aren't together just chilling out. We are in the same class 8 hours a week (over 2 days) but we don't really get to just hang out, so it doesn't really feel like time to... (384 words)

Three months after our breakup and she's already with another guy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

9 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So my ex of now 3 months told me when we were together that i was the one and that she wanted to marry me in the future and she was in love with me but then its 3 months later and she is already with another person. Is it wrong to feel hurt by this? and is it wrong for me to ... (70 words)

I think my boyfriend is secretly trying to get me pregnant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - im 16 years old and me and my bf (17) have been dating for 5 months now and almost 2 months ago i lost my v card to him. and i think he is secretly trying to get me pregnant becouse he is always saying how bad he wants to be a dad and he doesnt want to use any kind of ... (97 words)

Am I being unreasonable in this situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, need some opinions on wether I am being unreasonable in this situation or not. Ok so I live at home with my mum step dad and younger sister, I go to my dads who lives at the other side of town once to twice a week. There is my dad step mum and another younger ... (416 words)

What should I do about this friend with benefits, after what he said to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i met this guy last year in the month of may , so within few weeks he chucked me out of his life , saying he is not attracted to me . so he contacts me again after 6 months . well before that he was in a relationship with a girl for 7 yrs , things didnt go well , so they broke ... (456 words)

He just got out of a 7 year relationship and asked me to wait. I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4339 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I met this guy at work nice lookin seen before in the past where i work but really never spoke to one another, till we where ask to work at a different location for reconstruction of our kitchen at first he would just say good morning and gave him what he had to pick. And that ... (135 words)

BF doesn't want to come to my place on the weekends. What are some solutions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My BF and I's situation is that he lives at home and i live by myself. He does not like travelling down to my place every weekend. If i go to his, his mum and dad are there. (we are late 20's). For the two years of our relationship before i moved out of home, i went to his ... (147 words)

My bf wants me to sell my house.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my bf for 3 years now. I was in the process of building a house when we got together and have been in it for 1.5 years. My bf still lives at home with his mom and dad. (we are both 28). Lately he has been talking about the idea of buying a place closer to the ... (266 words)

We can't agree on who should be the one to call!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4339 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Good day! Me an my bf we always fight about calling each other. My problem I that if I don't have airtime he will complain about not calling and he always complain about that when he is at work whereby their using free airtime. I always buy airtime and I'm the one who always ... (66 words)

He said porn was better than me, now he finishes too quickly with me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, got quite a long story to tell and i want your advice. I'm 25 and when I met my boyfriend he was a virgin, he's 36. Well, he has been masturbating to visuals for nearly 20 years. I entered into a relationship with him not really thinking about porn, didn't really know ... (351 words)

Baggage from the break-up is getting in the way with new guys

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i split up 8 months ago but he wont stop texting me abusive texts, leaving abusive messages (still after this long)etc. He calls me such horrible names and makes me feel like its my fault that he got depressed because i broke up with him and that im not worthy ... (166 words)

Opinions on BPD please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello there aunts and uncles! I hope you are all well. I am looking for some opinions on BPD (borderline personality disorder). I have read some answers about some onviously deranged woman and some of the answers say it sounds like they have BPD. I have the illness myself and ... (369 words)

How do you cope moving far away from family to go to University?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you cope moving far away from family to go to University? First off, I'm not the 'traditional' student. I'm 23, have a great relationship with my mom, not really into the whole being alone, living it up partying phase, I feel like I've already past that. It's more or ... (195 words)

I've been replaced in the group by a new girl and it hurts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I have a bit of a friendship problem. I usually go and hang out in my village with 3 good friends (2 boys 1 girl) and we would meet up a few times a week. Recently, one of the boys has been seeing a girl from school (one of my friends) and now she seems to have replaced... (260 words)

My six yr old son doesn't want to meet my new partner

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

9 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - split with my ex 2 years ago and we have a lil lad of 6. When we split we agreed if we got with any one else we would meet the person b4 letting lad get involved. Ive met a lovely woman and have been with her 8mths. The ex and lad know bout her. The ex also has a new blo... (150 words)

Confused about Boyfriend's Sexual Past

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a truly kind, loving, fun and communicative man for the last five months. We're both in our early thirties. We have a fantastic sex life and we feel very connected to each other. Recently, we started to ask each other personal questions about our sexual... (355 words)

How can I feel comfortable and do well at my new job?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

9 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I just started my new job and I've been scared because I'm afraid of what people think of me. I always panic and stress because I'm afraid I wont make the food right and people might think Im slow and restarted because I take so long and sometimes i make the wrong food. I just ... (337 words)

I don't want to be the rebound girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I have known this boy for ages now as we went to school together. We're now at the same college and have been flirting throughout the whole year. All of his friends have always hinted that he was into me by asking if i was seeing anyone and if i was interested in this boy ... (183 words)

We love each other..but I hate myself

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey all, bare with me, this may be long. Okay, there's this amazing guy..we have been a thing for over two years. he has asked me to be his girlfriend, but I say no because I'm not good enough. He says he loves me, I know I love him too, but I haven't said it back because I k... (355 words)

He has been married twice before but wont marry me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my bf for about 4years now we have 9month babys and we have had are ups and dwns but now that we are good I want to get married to hem he's been married twice befor and he's half my age everytime I talk to hem about getting married he never has anything to say he ... (212 words)

I believe I am God's match for her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

9 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in love wih my best friend (female) and I'm pretty sure she hasn't thought of me in a romantic way. I honestly love everything about her. I'm nothing special but I do feel that I am God's match for her. What do I do? How do I go about it? Any additional advice?... (56 words)

I'm dealing with an unplanned pregnancy and the death of my son's dad, and boyfriend tells me I'm being insensitive!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year, and until now, I had virtually zero doubts about our relationship. Here's what happened... For the past few days, I have been really down- depressed, sad, confused. I found out that I'm pregnant, and I'm debating wha... (463 words)

She built me up to expect sex and then she let me down

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

9 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - For almost a year my girlfriend would tempt me about having sex. She would get me aroused let me touch her in "various" areas of her body. She would tell me she wanted me and of course i would be really drawn into her temptations statements of having sex. she would ask me what ... (223 words)

We re really good friends but he wont date me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4339 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, So here it is, I have this friend and I think we are FWB (but no actual sex has happened, yet, just fooling around) And apparently like most girls in this sort of thing I have fallen for him...hard. I like his family, he likes and spends a lot of time with mine, we have ... (391 words)

We met on facebook and he wants to have sex with me

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - MODERATOR NOTE: TWO QUESTIONS COMBINED FROM SAME ASKER so im 16 and i know this guy from fb that i have been iming 4 bout a month now he is 23 and realy cute n he asked me out and wants to sleep with me but he said if i dont sleep with him then he doesnt want me! so should i... (133 words)

Last night I cheated on my boyfriend of 1.5 years...what do I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night I cheated on my boyfriend of 1.5 years. By cheating, I mean that I met up with a new friend for coffee. We were sitting in the car drinking our coffee and he suddenly leaned in and kissed me. When he did this I automatically pulled away, but when he tried again I ... (379 words)

He hasn't pushed for sex yet and it's been four months...Does he just want to be friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - ok.. I met this guy at a pool party I was invited to at his house.. when I saw him I loved his appearance, really attractive to me.. I would say that we both became attracted to each other.. at that pool party, my drinks were all mixed up, I became drunk!!!!! I remember that ... (228 words)

How do I tell my parents I'm pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I need some outside opinions on how I can tell my parents about my pregnancy. I don't want to add to the pressure they are under by telling them I'm 17 weeks pregnant, but it's going to get increasingly hard to hide, and I feel everything is a mess and need advice. I su... (607 words)

She's into sex, but hardly romantic

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

9 June 2012 (M) age 30-35 - I have a girlfriend who has a huge sex drive but almost a childlike emotional state of mind. She's all for having lots of hardcore kinky sex which is good, but her romantic side is so low it makes me seem like a woman. What gives? I'm at the end of my rope.... (53 words)

He offered me sexual freedom ---

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi All Basically, I want some help to know whether i should start dating my friend. Im 26, single and live in Perth Australia. His name is "Daniel" and we have been friends and worked together for three years (we both have our own businesses and write each other ... (545 words)

Did I blow my chances by having sex on the fourth date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help, I have been dating this guy for a couple of weeks and I am interested in him, however on our fourth date we had sex and now I am worried that I have gone from the potential girlfriend to just the good time girl without a future. Afterwards he told me he had a lo... (95 words)

Boyfriend went away on a trip, didn't tell me and he doesn't understand why I am upset

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. This is not my first relationship, but I am my boyfriends first girlfriend. I'm wondering if maybe this is why he does the things he does, because he doesn't know better? When I go away for a few days, even if it is just a weekend, I think it is normal to tell him I am ... (167 words)

Could my friend be wanting more than to be my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4339 days ago

9 June 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, Recently I've given up on a girl which I have been asking out this past months but keeps getting rejected. Now, a friend of mine (a girl) were not that very close. But now she keeps asking me if I still like the previous girl. She wants me to rate it in a scale 1 to 10. I... (155 words)

Why do girls say they want to see me and don't try to?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

9 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so I've been talking to a couple girls lately even one of my ex's. One of the girls I'm talking to is a girl I met on a dating site awhile back and we've been facebook friends. I've never met her in person and have never talked to her on the phone. I got her phone number ... (340 words)

What does he want? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4339 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Nearly 18 months ago I exchanged numbers with my friend's friend (she had slept with him but nearly 6 years before and nothing more than that.) and after seeking her permission of which she never said she didn't like the idea - I was seeing him for around 6 months but I wasn't ... (187 words)

Where can I et help about having a phobia about illness?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

9 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. So, i'm almost certain i have a phobia of vomit and illnesses. I cannot stand anything remotely related to vomit, it scares me and i panic! I also freak out if anyone mentions or thinks that they are ill. I hate it, it is literally ruining my life and taking over. I've re-... (93 words)