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We can't agree on who should be the one to call!

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Question - (9 June 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 9 June 2012)
A female South Africa age 41-50, *pumie writes:

Good day! Me an my bf we always fight about calling each other. My problem I that if I don't have airtime he will complain about not calling and he always complain about that when he is at work whereby their using free airtime. I always buy airtime and I'm the one who always call him but if I don't have there must be a problem.

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A male reader, Daniel the love doctor United States +, writes (9 June 2012):

Daniel the love doctor agony auntWow. Well this situation needs to be resolved quickly because I'm sure neither of you would want to breakup over the lack of calling.

And from what I gather in your post, I think your boyfriend needs to consider the fact that you have to buy time to speak to him- and he has the luxury of using a phone with free time at work or somewhere else.

Maybe you two can set up a call schedule. You also should speak about ways you two can be a bit more consistent with your calls. I'm not sure how often you see you boyfriend, but communication from each one of you should be made a priority.. especially if you don't see/speak to him all that often.

If you two really want to be with each other, then sit down and have a serious conversation with him about how you can work on this issue- so it doesn't continue to affect your relationship.

Best!

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