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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

The ugly guys get the girls!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

20 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - What's the deal with gorgeous girls dating ugly guys? I'm a 20 year old male and VERY good looking. I'm not big headed about it, just stating what is an objective fact. I can say this and still claim to not be big headed, as I don't feel proud about the way I look, just neu... (418 words)

I accidentally found out that my daughter in law & family do not like me. What do I do now?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

20 June 2012 (F)

age - This afternoon I had my 10 year old grandson (my son's son)and I took a wrong turn in the car at a junction. He panicked thinking we were going to his other grannys (his mum's mum). On gently questioning him he told me that it would be a bad idea for me to go to his other ... (162 words)

Is my boyfriend irritated or jealous because of an sms?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

20 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My bf and i have been together for 3 months and half. My bf saw i chat of me and a guy on facebook and he started acting weird saying im enjoying myself, im not thinking of him and i couldn't even send him sms. I was shock cuz it was the first time he has done this. Is this ... (84 words)

I shy around guys and want to be more like my friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

20 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Most of my friends are close friends or are good friends with boys apart from me, i get shy around them and never know what to say without sounding stupid or awkward. Any advice on how to start conversations with guys or anything that you think will help? ... (48 words)

He told me to leave because he needed space ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

20 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this new guy for about a month. We have sbeen getting along great.and im so in love but last night he told me to leave hus house he needed space. We fought all evening about it does this mean he is having second thought. I feel like it is too soon for this... (57 words)

My boyfriend had an open box of condoms, and they had different expiry dates

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

20 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - yesterday i went to my boyfriend of 3 years house. we were kissing in bed and he pulled out a open box of condom 3 pack.i was skeptic, as in why would that be open if its brand new? hes always suspicious of me having condoms at my house even if i opened them but that was way ... (289 words)

I need to move on. But still feel connected to him. What's going on with him? Is there a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4324 days ago

20 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some help to get over the love of my life and move on. We've got such a complicated history. He always used to act as if he liked me but denied it, however there was a lot of problems back then. Then various things happened to suggest he did, he denied it to others, ... (664 words)

I am ashamed that I am single and still have my virginity. How do I get over my insecurity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

20 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I am very insecure about being a virgin and single at my age (19 and counting). I feel like it is another thing that makes me different and weird, but I just want to feel normal. My insecurity has a few major parts: I feel that if I am a virgin into my twenties that women w... (176 words)

I masturbate and then don't want sex with my wife

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

20 June 2012 (M)

- I don't seem to be sexually attracted to my wife very much. I'm not not sure if its a labido thing or what. I do masturbate to porn though when she's not around but as soon as she's back and wants sex I'm not interested. I do love her and want her around. I just don't seem to ... (64 words)

Why does every boy I meet end the relationship so soon? Is it me? Or is it the abuse my ex gave me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

20 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya, this may sound silly as partly it's my own fault but just so fed up. Right it all started with my ex. He used to make out I was lucky to be with him, he use to say things like: "You should be grateful I'm with you because no one else would" and far more insulting... (160 words)

Does he like me or not? Should I leave a message in his mailbox?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4327 days ago

20 June 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - I would like to know if you think this guy likes me or thinks im weird. okay so ive never really talked to him but when were in school we have 2 class's together. Social studies, and lunch. In social studies in the begining of the school year we were put into assigned seats an... (519 words)

Can you tell if someone is attracted to you even if they don't act like it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4327 days ago

20 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I was just wondering if you can tell that someone is attracted to you even if they do not lead on that they are you can just sort of feel it when both of you are attracted to each other, like you have bonded with this person on a higher level and you feel you both know it, but ... (88 words)

Am I over inflating a good day, or onto something?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

20 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I've already got my mind going on what I'm going to do next, but I'm curious to see if anyone thinks I'm making a huge mistake here. So a little over a month ago, I went to a movie with this girl that I had realized after about a year in class that I really liked after trad... (323 words)

Boyfriend doesn't acknowledge when I say things

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

20 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating a wonderful man for 6 months. I've never had a relationship go this smoothly ever. There are only two issues: one huge and one small. The huge one is he can't sustain an erection enough for us to have sex. Although this is a huge problem he is in the midst of ... (305 words)

Should I be more hands on or?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

20 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - is it better to be a more controlling type bf or a more 'freedom giving' bf ? I ask this because sometimes i get sick and tired of guys flirting/commenting/ and generally being rude disrespectful to my relationship and to my girl (if they flirt on purpose FULL KNOWING tha... (281 words)

I'm having troubles with my body and its effecting my relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

20 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid! It's hard for me to talk about it, but I think it might be the only way that can help me now. I'm 18 years old and have a relationship with a really amazing guy that is 27 years old. It's lasting for over 2 months now and we really enjoy doing everything togethe... (251 words)

I don't trust my boyfriend because of his ex! What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

20 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing this guy fro 3 months now and things are awesome with him! I feel great when I am with him. But I have a huge insecurity when it comes to his sons mom. I know they had strong feelings for each other but I also know he really likes me. He has lied to me in ... (220 words)

My female friend is dating a horrible guy, and my guy friend secretly likes her but is so upset now she is dating someone else! How can I help my two friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4327 days ago

20 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend has recently started dating a guy, let's call him Q. She has been hanging out with Q and another guy, who is also my friend, let's call him D Q is a horrible immature guy, who has no respect for anyone or anything and he's only dating my friend so he can tell everyon... (309 words)

My friend wants to bring another girl on holiday with us, I have a bad feeling about this girl and don't want her to come, but I don't want to lose my friend either! What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

20 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a friend, let’s call her Laura, who I have known since we were 4 years old. She is a lovely person, but is also a people pleaser to the extent that she lets others completely walk all over her on a regular basis. She lets people treat her however they like, which is ... (747 words)

Fear of using public toilets, how do I overcome this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

20 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I know this question isn't really on topic to what this website is about, and it's a pretty stupid question anyway, but I can't find anything else this helpful and anonymous on the web. I absolutely hate using the toilet at other peoples houses and in public places. I always... (211 words)

My wife's ex-sister in law is flirting with me, how do I find out if she wants to take this to the next level? Or should I remain faithful despite not getting any sex from my wife?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

20 June 2012 (M)

age - Dear Cupid I only have been married for 5 years now (I got married when I was 50) I figured I only wanted to get married once in my life. I wanted to grow old with someone I loved. When I was younger I was wild child. I had a diffrent girlfriend almost every mon... (487 words)

Long distance relationship.....how do we plan our future together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

20 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! I'm in a long distance relationship and we're really in love with each other, however we never met but he's planning to come from Germany to my country when he graduates next october to meet for the first time... he says that he wants to marry me potentially and of ... (214 words)

I escaped my Muslim Arabic country and found freedom, but now I have met a lovely Arabic guy his friends are telling him to stay away from me because I don't fit into normal Muslim beliefs! What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3534 days ago

20 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am an Arabic female who escaped from my Muslim Arabic country in the look for freedom, I escaped by my self and it was not easy (I got publishing companies asking me to write my story to be published) I escaped when I was 20 years old, with no money and no one... (854 words)

He wants to have sex but I know he's a cheater

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

20 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - am 17 and my boyfriend want to have sex with me and I know his a cheater but he don't admit it and he always tell me that he don't want to lose me but I don't believe him and he don't want me to touch his cell-phone, do he really love me? ... (53 words)

He is mormon, I'm not....but I really like him! Should I get involved? Is this a bad idea?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

20 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - To make a long story short, there is this guy that I met and I think I am starting to fall for him. I get a really emotional feeling every time we part ways after hanging out and I am starting to really care about him. The very very tricky part is that he is mormon and have ... (252 words)

1st date and he forgot his wallet and now I'm turned off

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

20 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in my late twenties. I m very much financially independent as I own my business and I do pretty well with it. Why I m telling this about myself before I start my story just to show that I'm not at all need any kind of financial support from any man, and not looking for it. ... (848 words)

Do you wait to get over an ex completely before starting a new relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

20 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it normal to still have feelings for an ex while getting into the next relationship? And let the lingering feelings for the ex die completely as you get to know this new person? Does this happen a lot with people? Or is it better to completely get over the ex before ge... (84 words)

We're fighting alot, starting college in the fall and I'm afraid he's going to find someone else

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

20 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I are going to be starting college this August. We have been together for four months now.It seems like we are always fighting or I am always pissing him off. It seems like he only wants me for my body, although he claims this to be untrue when we are alone he ... (156 words)

Can money keep a cheating marriage together?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

20 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - When there's cheating in a marriage what can hold it together? If man is cheating but there's fancy cars, house and baby will that keep family happy? ... (29 words)

Is it a bad idea to go out with a carbon copy of my ex/

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

20 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So I met this girl online that seem like almost a younger carbon copy of my ex. Is it healthy for me to go out with her or will it just keep the ex in my mind?... (37 words)

Any of you ever had any success reforming a lifelong liar?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

20 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My guy is a compulsive liar. Every time I catch him lying he promises he won't do it again but he's been doing it so long it's a way of life for him. I believe the phrase "three's the charm" because we all mess up and deserve a second chance but no more. He's just lied to me ... (114 words)

Maybe I shouldn't have allowed my sister and mother to have an opinion about him and the cross-dressing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

20 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Well what a few weeks its been having written about my ex on here, and saying i wasnt going to see him again... well i went on a date with another guy which ended in disaster well actually me telling the guy to go forth... as he made a remark about my stomach... anyway ive ... (636 words)

I like my friend's ex, this will never work!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4328 days ago

20 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Help me! My best friend's ex just told me that he likes her again and wanted me to tell her. So I did. A few days later, I realized that I really do like her ex. I have a boyfriend, and I feel like I'm betraying not only my boyfriend, but my best friend as well. I have never ... (78 words)

Is this a good text to send my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

20 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Is this a good text to send my ex? We ended on alright terms due to external reasons (though reasons that could be worked through in my opinion) and he seemed DESPERATE to stay friends, however 2 weeks down the line we had an argument basically just over how I was willing ... (446 words)

She says she doesn't know why we broke up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

20 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, I met this girl late last year, just intended to be friends at first and didn't want a relationship, but it didn't take long for her to impress me enough that I knew I had to have her. It didn't take long for us to hit it off, we went on a few mini-dates... (458 words)

Do you think what he's doing is ok?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

20 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf doesn't always tell me when he's been going out for drinks after work with co-workers or to the bar with his buddies. I thought he was open about everything (I've never given him trouble about going for drinks) but apparently there are some times that he prefers not to ... (309 words)

Should women also carry condoms?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

20 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Usually guys will have one or two hidden in their wallets just in case they get lucky. However, should women do the same? What are your thoughts?... (30 words)

Will he ever man up to her? Or am I a rebound?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

20 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I hope this doesn't come off mean but I need a few questions answered Maybe someone has went through this. My boyfriend of 8 months left his wife n family to be with me. I rent from them and that's how I got to know him. He's been married for almost 10 years and they have two ... (416 words)