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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I get revenge? He went out with me then all of my mates!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - hey i got dumped a few days ago and this guy really broke my heart he went out with me 3 times then dumped me and went out with all my mates what shall i do shall i get revenge on him or leave it? please help!!!!!!!!!!!! ... (49 words)

Am I scared to leave my lying cheating boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - well me and my botfriend have been together about a year now well friends for six and well a couple weeks into our relationship he said he was going to an uncles house for a couple days. but he dont know i accidently read a text message from a girl saying he'll be over soon. ... (163 words)

Can you make a summer romance work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4338 days ago

8 June 2012 (M)

- I have just got back from a lads holiday in magaluf, im 24 and have been single for 7months, I wasnt looking for anything with anyone but when on holiday we met a group of girls and a guy, we all clicked and spent the majority of our holiday together, it quickly become apparant ... (335 words)

Games mean more to him than I do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - Well Ive been going out with this boy (let's call him bob) and we've known each other since we were babies!! I rarely see him but we chat on Skype quite often! Recently it seems as if games (Xbox etc.) mean more to him than me!! He knows I do get easily upset but he doesn't ... (67 words)

I get to embarrassed to talk to a guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - i'm 16 years old, never had a boyfriend, or a first kiss and i have trouble talking to guys...is there something wrong with me? am i too ugly? too fat? too shy? i don't know what to do and whenever i start talking to a guy i am scared to be embarrassed so with that fear in mind ... (67 words)

Is it worth trying to be on good terms?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my ex broke up with me just over two months ago and things have gotten worse since. It was messy and it ended badly with him hammering home the point that he didn't care about me. He said a load of other stuff that I'm not going to bore you with, but it was quite harsh (I'm ... (419 words)

How do I avoid being so nervous during my class presentation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have to do a ten minute presentation in front of my class...every time i present i sound like i'm crying, which only makes me more nervous...this time some religious issues are going to come up....what do i do if someone asks me a question that discriminates my faith...and ... (106 words)

I've only slept with one person - Did he ever like me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

8 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Does telling a guy you've only slept with one other guy put him off you? Basically, I really liked this guy but I think that after telling him my inexperience, as he might see it, I don't think he's interested anymore. Do I see if it's potentially anything more or if the d... (80 words)

My girlfriend's family hates me, I think!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

8 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hey a few things have happened involving my girlfriends family that have pretty much made me wanna call my relationship a day.so here we go 1.i bought her dad a dvd for a christmas present,he said he watched it and enjoyed it.me and my girlfriend were looking thru the dvd cas... (220 words)

How should I talk to him about his family friend without coming across as trying to control his life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, there's this guy that i've been on-and-off with for a little over a year now; for security purposes, we'll just call him brantley. he's twenty-one, and i'm twenty. we are currently not officially back together, but we're definitely working on things. then... (938 words)

I'm really jealous about my girlfriend's sexual past... help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

8 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I know that this subject has been addressed somewhat heavily on here, but I still felt as though I needed to discuss my own situation. I am with my current G/F for several months, and this is the first time that I've ever been in love with a woman like this before. I've had ... (450 words)

My boyfriend gave me Herpes!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

8 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in a bit of a turmoil here. I have just gotten herpes from my BF. It seems that he had it all along but didn't want to tell me because he thought I wouldn't want to be with him if I knew about it. There was once when he had a bump on his area and he said that we shouldn't ... (490 words)

I'm so confused about how I feel and need advice!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4337 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I'm a bit confused with how i feel and would really value any advice. I'm a fresher at uni and basically i have been getting with this third year called P who is ridiculously good looking, tall and really cool and funny but i only ever talk to him when i'm drunk ... (297 words)

Old flame from 33 years ago has written me, where do I want this to go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age - ok here goes, while in high school I was so in love with this guy, while we were super friends I don't think he really thought of me in the girlfriend way. After high school he went into the service. You have to understand I never forgot about him. While he was in the service ... (357 words)

I really don't know what to do anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I have been with my bf three years nearly (on and off) we have been through alot together-alot.Thing is I have always been a little insecure about him looking elswhere and I always thought I was just paranoid but then the other week I found on his email account that he had ... (350 words)

I want him like he used to be!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4338 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - well me and my boyfriend have been togther for 15 months, but for the past few months, four months id say, we've argied quite alot... we have also broke up a few times, but when we do, we only break up for a day, or even hours! recently everything he does irritates me easily, ... (225 words)

I'm starting to think I'm with the wrong friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4337 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been seeing my boyfriend for three months now. I've also been hanging with his friends during that period. Don't get me wrong, I've had a lot of fun with my boyfriend, but sometimes I feel that his one friend treats me more the way I want to be treated. It's like my ... (232 words)

Missing him, but don't want to seem desperate!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, Yesterday my boyfriend of 5 years(we've been dating since highschool)told me he needs a break. He also said it via text message which upset me. Just 2 days prior he was all lovey dovey even bringing flowers to my house. The very day before he mentioned to me we need a ... (352 words)

Is it possible to have an orgasm while you're sleeping?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question about orgasms and whether it is possible to have one while you're sleeping. I had one last night while dreaming and I realize that it wasn't the first time that it's happened. The dreams are sexual of course, but I can never remember details or who is doing ... (189 words)

Three's not company..me, my boyfriend and my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4337 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what to do about my boyfriend and my ex. They are both much older than me. I went out with my ex for two months last year, and i have been with my boyfriend for five months. My ex didn't tell me that he had finished with me at the time. He just stopped contacting ... (918 words)

I'm working hard but it's not good enough for my family

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, My family treats me like I'm a failure. I am 20 years old, and I am a junior at university, on my way to a degree in psychology with a minor in human development. I work very hard in school. I also work at a child care center for as many hours as they will giv... (300 words)

Its beena year and I can't get over my FWB guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4338 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Last summer i was speaking to a boy and we met up and then we just started having casual sex (friends with benefits).. i started having feelings for him but he had no feelings towards me so that was when things went wrong. He would always tell me that he hated this girl who ... (127 words)

I think the man I am dating is a closet gay and its really putting me off

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in my early 30's and have met a lovely guy in his late 20's.. however I am worried he is closet gay. As soon as I met I thought gay, the way he looks, hot but pretty, his clothes, his maner everything, he told me he wasnn't we kissed and had few dates. We even slept to... (222 words)

I'm pregnant from my FWB relationship and he has a girlfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, where to start... I met this guy a few months back, we have mutual friends. We started talking quite a lot each time we went out, he'd tell me the problems he has with his girlfriend and stuff like that, you know as friends do. Anyhow beginning of April we went to a fri... (280 words)

21 and want pay a prostitute to take my virginity. Is this illegal?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

8 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 21 and I want to lose my virginity soon, I don't want to drift into my mid-late 20's early 30's and still be a virgin. I am aware of the protection needed and please don't try and sell me any of the disneyland wait for the right girl and lose it on your wedding night st... (100 words)

My depression and anxiety issues kept me from going out to meet his family! Now he's posted a cryptic Facebook status!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend of nearly 2 months is ignoring me. I suffer from Depression and Anxiety problems, which means that going out in public to meet him and hang out is very difficult for me. He says he understands but I honestly can't see how he does! Every day he asks me to come ... (268 words)

I like this guy in my year but his racist friend is making things difficult!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - i really like this guy im my year. im 14 and the girl that is his best friend dosent like me cause i got angry at her for saying a few racist jokes about me behind my back (im 1/4 asian) and i really like him but i never get to talk to him or hang out with him cause his friend ... (120 words)

Would you date a guy that's 14 years old if you are 17 years old?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone... I just wanna ask this question. Would you date a guy that's 14 year old but he's almost 15 and you are 17 year old? And he's also in the 7th grade and you are in the 11th grade in school. Thanks, I'm just asking.... (57 words)

Should I keep asking her out or just give up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

8 June 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, See, I've always wanted to ask this girl out on a date. She's super cute, very childish, top of class, and kinda athletic. I'm the hearthrob at our school but I've never had a girlfriend even once. It's rare that I have a crush. The problem is that when I ask ... (175 words)

He says the cheating was a wake up call but now I'm scared he will do it again.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been with my boyfriend Stuart for 5 months but recently we had a few problems. A couple of weeks ago a girl named katie added me on facebook, she is in my sisters year and I've heard she has a reputation and that she sleeps around. I was round my boyfriends at the time ... (511 words)

I want to be her guy!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

8 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey people, i am going to come straight to the point. There is this girl in my med school whom i like. One of my other friend also likes her. I actually want to be the alpha male and get her because i genuinely like her. I flirt a lot with her, i also said a couple of times ... (284 words)

We met 2 weeks ago and he said "I love you" 5 days ago, I told him I just wanted to take it slow. Now he hasn't called in 2 days!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've met this new guy 2 weeks ago, he's an amazing guy, everything about him is great, we have so many things in common. He said "I love you" about 5 days ago, and i didn't respond to that, i just told him that we should take things slow and that i really like him. At the ... (194 words)

I hate myself for not being "in" love with him, advice please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i don't know what to do. i was with my boyfriend for 4 years then we broke up for 2years and are now back together. We broke up for numerous reasons but mainly cos he turned into a dick and was acting horrible. During the time we separated i was alone for a year and then da... (1042 words)

My husband is being unreasonable with money. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - The problem: My husband and I share different beliefs on money. He likes to purchase expensive things where I like expensive things also, but rather buy something reasonable. He lives "in the moment" whereas I like to think of the future. I do not speak to his parents abou... (489 words)

Should I just be lending the money as a loving girlfriend and not expecting it back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys, can anyone help with this..........I've been with my partner for 2 and half years now and around 3 months ago I asked him to move in with me. It's my house, he was living with his parents. There is quite a pay disparity between us, I earn double what he does and he has ... (456 words)

How do I help my friend come out of depression?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hiiiii how to make people come out of dipression when their very close friends pass away..... how can i make make my friend come out of dipression... his close friend is no more with whom he used to share everthing... ... (55 words)

His auntie and family were asking questions that made me wonder if I'm coming or going with him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age - i have been with my Muslim now for nearly 3 years i love so dearly however i feel confused lately i went to a wedding with his family in Cardiff where i stayed over with them but my partner was working so he could not come it was nice that they invited me. also the uncle in ... (333 words)

Does masturbating diminish physical strength?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

8 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - okay...i want u people to clear this to me once and for all!!Is masterbuating in any way NOT good for health???Does it decrease physical strength???i have heard all kind of things but m not sure what is true...thanks in advance!... (40 words)

I'm embarassed that he rejected my friend request and acted like h didn't know me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i met a guy in my college...my friends said that he liked me...he would stare at me often..we had many eye contacts and smile exchanges..bt we hadnt talkd.. i really wantd to be friends with him and even more... then our clases ended.. i sent him a friend request on facebook in ... (119 words)

Why is she not able to move on and forget him? How can I help her out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

8 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Its been about a month now we talk to each other share things i even went to her place somedays before and we kissed each other for d first time.. Its been about a week she broke up with her bf but when she talks to me, she cries and says that she missez her bf! I try to ... (103 words)

Is it wrong that I love him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 15 years old and madly in love with a 20year old with cerebral pasly. i love him with all my heart and want my parents to know. His parents and basically whole entire family knows which is why i feel bad. Is it wrong that im in love with him or that me and him already ... (105 words)

How do we fix us? Please HELP!! we both desperately want to stop fighting

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been together for over 3 years. we have been through hell and back (in terms of family troubles, personal troubles, etc. that we have helped each other through). since the day we met it has been an instant spark and our relationship has always been ... (1078 words)

Is it wrong that I get naked for this European guy online?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4275 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been chatting with this guy in Europe for about six months now. I am VERY attracted to him and I think he feels the same way. We always have great chats and make each other laugh. He constantly tells me how beautiful and perfect I am and that he wants to be with me. We ... (175 words)

I can't fall asleep without drinking alcohol

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - i have a problem with alcohol and i can't stop, i feel i must drink it. every time i don't i can't fall asleep at all. i always drink to sleep or forget but i don't know what to do now. it has gotten somewhat bad for me and i need advice.... (52 words)

Is it normal at 31 to have such a low libido?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4339 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf is 30 and I'm 32. We've been together a year and only see each other on weekends because we live an hour away. He will usually spend the whole weekend at my place. The sex is good but not frequent enough for my taste. I would want it at least 2 times but it usually ends ... (178 words)

Should I just get my virginity out of the way?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is really personal, but I think I need a little advice in this area. I'm still a virgin, which is shocking to some people. I'm 20 which isn't that bad but in my generation isn't very common or even looked at as a good thing, its almost abnormal. I have been waiting for the ... (269 words)

Why do these friends refuse to speak in English when they know we can't speak their native language?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 15 and I'm from England. I live in England. If you're English then you'll know that there have been loads of Polish people who have moved over to the UK in the last few years. In my little group of friends there are 4 of us. There was me, an English girl called Char... (1029 words)

I thought I had married a wonderful person but my husband is a serial cheater!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - okay so i have been married for soo little now i bearly ahve a year with my husband i have a newborn and ever since we got married hes lied to me 1st he went to texas with his family while we were engaged and met girl #1 and gave him her number and they talked alot all day at ... (309 words)

I'm jealous of my friend! Its not fair that she gets the perfect boyfriends, the perfect looks, the happy life, everything!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I have this friend, and basically I'm really jealous of her. She's drop dead gorgeous. She's a model, and it seems like she gets everything she wants. On top of that, she's probably the sweetest, funniest, most caring person anyone has ever met. Every single boyfriend... (178 words)

Should I question this guy's motives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

8 June 2012 (F) age 26-29 - I'll try to make this as short as possible. So I was seeing this guy back last June, not exclusively. He had just came out of a 2 year relationship and wasn't looking for anything serious, but we never had sex. He's 20 and in college and came down and saw me every weekend. I'm ... (298 words)

I'm too shy to ask! Is he just playing it cool?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya everyone I have been on 2 dates with a man I met 6 weeks ago the last date was 2 weeks ago we still text now and again but he has made no arrangements to meet up again even though he has left some of his cds at mine do you think he is not interested or is he just playing ... (80 words)

Is that a chance to date her or is she just pushing me aside?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

8 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So there's this girl (isn't there always?) in my class that was being ever-increasingly nice to me over the last few months, saying she liked my clothes, being funny, joking, etc. Eventually I ran into her at a coffee shop to study for an AP exam and we agreed to go to a movie. ... (302 words)

Getting over the ex so I can date someone else

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4338 days ago

8 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - ok I had a boyfriend for one year ten months he cheated lied and insulted me I broke with him but he was my first love then like immediately after I started dating this amazing guy which I love but am not in love with ...so I wanna know what to do to get over my ex because its ... (73 words)